Ready to take your sexy female self up a notch? As you know, there’s a fine line between looking sexy and slutty… and I’m guessing you want to stay on the right side of the line!
So how do you find the perfect balance between seductive and sophisticated?
Read on for 7 ways to look both sexy AND classy when presenting yourself as a woman.
1. Follow The 30/70 Rule
Showing too much skin is the easiest way to go from sexy to slutty. But how much is too much? A simple rule of thumb is to show off 30% of your body (be it your legs, bust, or back) and keep the remaining 70% covered.
2. Wear Something Sheer
Wearing sheer fabrics is the perfect way to show off some skin without overexposing yourself. Plus, there’s just something so sexy about the peekaboo effect.
3. Highlight Your Curves
Even if you are fully covered, an hourglass shape shouts “sexy.” Here are two instant ways to enhance the look of your curves:
- Wear shaping undergarments. Your shaping options range from light (high waisted shaping shorts) to medium (a girdle) to strong (a corset).
- Wear skirts and dresses that flare at the hips. The more volume around your hips, the smaller your waist will appear.
4. Wear Lace
Lace is sexiest fabric by far. Incorporating a touch of lace into your outfit gives even the simplest look a seductive vibe.
5. Show Off An Unexpected Part Of Your Body
There’s no denying that a short skirt or plunging top will attract attention. But why not show off your back, shoulders, or the tops of your thighs (keeping the rest of your legs covered)? These more unexpected peeks of skin can be incredibly sexy.
6. Add a Touch of Red
Studies show that women wearing red are perceived as sexier and more attractive. Because red is such a hot color, even a touch of red can attract attention and turn heads.
7. Wear Heels
The final tool in your sexy arsenal should be a pair of killer heels. They don’t even have to be that high to do the trick. Heels make any outfit look sexier and have the added benefit of helping feminize your walk.
Let’s see YOUR sexy, classy style!
I hope these tips gave you some ideas for adding a sexy, classy touch to your next outfit. I’d like to hear any additional suggestions you might have.
Even better, please share your favorite sexy, classy look in the comments below!
Love,
Lucille
transformation tips?
My first corset.
Could You give me any Make up tips Please
my female look
Very cute
Many people do judge according to looks and sexual desirability. It creeps me out when I’m stared at or pursued with obvious sexual intent. That’s not the way I want to interact with people. There’s nothing wrong with looking nice and we all want to look our best. Just be careful what kind of attention you attract.
Hi Morgan- being stared at be in male or female mode can be uncomfortable. However, I must say, when I am out in my female attire, getting a smile and a look by a man is flattering to me. I love when a man opens a door for me treats me like any other lady. Just me, hugs, Suzy
I agree with you, Suzy. There are many friendly people with polite attitudes and social skills. Also, I’m fine with inquisitive stares, even hateful stares. I was referring to those who stare or pursue my attention with a lustful intent. To me, sexy is being sexually suggestive which attracts both wanted and unwanted attention. Perhaps my definition of the word is outdated.
A head turner
Hi all – I try to follow all of Lucille’s tips religiously! Now that I’m retired, I live my life now pretty much 24/7 as a female and I love it. I’m fairly small and never seem to have a problem when I am out in public. I’m always treated as a lady. Here I am at Macy’s today trying on a dress for a party that I’m going to this weekend. I’m 75 and try to always dress appropriately! What do you think? Hugs, Suzy
I think you’re gorgeous
Thanks Rikki! Appreciate it!
Photo taken few months back! 67 years old! Never been out yet!
67 years old
A head turner
Thank you!! Rikki