Your name plays a big part in shaping your feminine identity.
Some names sound sweet and innocent, some are classic and regal, while others exude an exotic and mysterious vibe.
As a crossdresser or trans woman, you have the unique opportunity of choosing your own female name.
If you’re like most of my readers, there’s a story behind your chosen feminine name.
So, in this blog post, I’d love to hear about the special meaning behind your name.
Please leave a comment below, sharing your feminine name and the story of how and why you chose it for yourself.
I’m excited to hear the story!
Love,
Lucille
I have liked the name Lilly so my girlfriend picked for me and it has sticked
In the mid-80’s I was starting to explore the world of BDSM as a submissive guy. I had never done anything more than tried on a pair of panties. I had gotten in touch with a Pro-domme. After a few sessions She decided to take my in a different direction – directing me to start buying lingerie at Sears or other department stores. Soon she started calling me “she” and “girl”. Then one day She decided that I needed a girl name since guys did not wear bras and stockings (remember them!!) She asked me what name I wanted and then said sharply “No! I will choose and I like Ginger. Yes! I think you are definetly a Ginger.”
What I have found is that She was correct! My relationship with her did not last but my name has. Several times I have thought wanted to change it and go in a different direction. Every time I have considered a different femme name – nothing has felt right. And several of my friends have told me that “Ginger” really does fit me. I guess the Domme was very perceptive. Hugs to all from Pittsburgh PA
Hi Ginger!
Well, now I know how you got your name and you’re right, or I should say your dom was right. It DOES fit you! You have the personality to go with it too.
Hugs Girlfriend!
Kelli
I’ve always loved the name Bambi ! It just seemed so feminine with no confusion as to gender as a Chris or a Pat . Don’t know too many guys that were named Bambi !
When I hear,the name I envision a buxom blonde with a true zest for life , playful , flirtatious , and always the life of the party !
absolutely the best name i could associate with the real me,cute sexy
A long time ago as i was transitioning, My first name was Gerard and my middle name was given to me by my grandmother augustus. I liked my male name it was both strong and poetic. I often joked that Rome belonged to me and my spirit was strong and determined. As I became more fem I would go by G. Teri; not exactly my monogram but close, since I didn’t have a name for G,professionally or personally, G became Gina and Teri formally became Theresa. It fit, it legal and it me.
I picked melissa because I felt it exemplified me as a woman and I felt comfortable with it when I looked at myself in the mirror while en femme. My girlfriend didn’t like that name so she picked Rachel. So I combined the two. I still prefer Melissa but I can accept Rachel. Especially since my girlfriend is accepting of me and loves me for who I am.
My fem name is Sarah nothing special about how I pick though it just came to me in a dream has a nice elegant feel to though
I chose Helena first and foremost to honor my mother. Her name was Nancy Helena and I always that that was such a pretty name. She passed away way to early in life and I actually changed to Helena at that point, which was 16 years ago.