Greetings from Bangkok, Thailand! I am here soaking up the local transgender / crossdressing culture.
As you might know, Thailand is considered the transgender capital of the world. The “third gender” is an accepted part of Thai society, making it a haven for transgender people. It’s been wonderfully refreshing to witness.
Here are a few highlights from my trip:
Thailand is a shopper’s paradise with bargains galore.
Shrine in front of a Bangkok shopping mall.
Let’s Talk Travel!
If you’re seeking your next fabulous en femme getaway, look no further than Thailand! But even if you stay closer to home, traveling is the perfect opportunity to unleash your feminine self away from the routine and expectations of home.
Here are 3 great benefits of traveling for crossdressers and transgender women:
1. Traveling gives you an opportunity to reinvent yourself
Nobody knows you and nobody will ever see you again, so you can literally be whoever you want to be.
2. Traveling is the ultimate rut buster
Does life feel like the same old, same old? Traveling exposes you to new experiences and gives you a fresh perspective on life. (And who can’t use that?)
3. Traveling teaches you to go with the flow
Most trips (like your own male to female journey) are full of unexpected surprises. Traveling teaches you to go with the flow – and enjoy the experience.
Do you travel en femme?
I’d love to hear about your en femme travel adventures (or travel dreams), so please share them with me in the comments section below!
Love,
Lucille
Lucille:
I’ve been in England, France, Germany,and Italy. I think it would be a dream to go to Bangkok Thailand
and I think I could enjoy it there. I want to thank you for telling us about your trip.
Tammy
Thats what i need is to get away from it all here and really be the girl i want to be where no one knows me that really excites me
I hope if I travel there to be a complete lady I hope that would happen someday, because I don’t like to be a male anymore. But I think it will be impossible, is it possible?? lucille??
I hope if I travel there to be a complete lady I hope that would happen someday, because I don’t like to be a male anymore. But I think it will be impossible, is it possible?? lucille??
Hi Lucille,
Indeed, I agree with being a transient t-girl because of this ability to be whoever you want to be. To also have a new appreciation for your femme self in a place making a first impression. When you transition and learn more about yourself and develop confidence the best thing to so is make a new introduction. We are always improving, by sharing the new you is more gratifying especially when people see you for the very first time.
Hugs,
Lynn
Dear Lynn
good morning.
I am a Male to female, trying since about 3 years, however my breasts get bigger and almost my body hair is too much less by using laser and emijoy epilation, but really I want to remove my penis and testicles and relpalce them with a vagina to be a complete woman. can you please help me in this matter? and how much is the operation may cost?
Thank you for help, reply and kind cooporation.
Dear Lucille,
Loved the photographs, only wish I were twenty years younger! I love going on holiday, walking along the beach, wearing just a skirt and top, also love to go sunbathing in one of my swimsuits, and even have a paddle. I always stay in a busy large holtel, so everyone is busy doing there own thing and not paying attention to anyone in particular. I also always go with my partner, and I must say that she gives me confidence, on the rare occasions I need it,going to the bathroom for the first time, having a man holding a door for me than patting my rear as I walk though, it certainly helped that she was there for me. I certainly would not go abroad for all the reasons that have already been said. But have a good time here in dear old UK. Love the topic, as always my best wishes to you,
Lesley Ann xxx
Dear Satfi,
I do so thank you for your lovely comments regrding my breasts. You ask what I did to get my breasts, well about six years ago, I decided that I really did want to develop mine, so I did a lot of homework on the internet, and discovered that Herbs, would be suitable, as I did not wish to go down the HRT route. I started on breast Actives, taking two tablets a day. I warn you it is a slow process, and I did not really notice a diffrence for about a year, when I could fill out a 36B cup bra (I am now a 38B). Then about two years ago going for my routine check up and blood tests, my Doctor discovered that my hormmones where producing to much easteran and not anough testeronne (I did not tell him what I had been taking) I was refered to hospital, and after futher tests and scans they discovered a small tummor, fortunately not cancerous, but ……. I stoped taking the herbs some two years ago, and very rarely I use a cream which I make up myself, which Lucille recomends. In hindsight I should have discussed my plans with my Doctor before starting anything, I stronly say you should do the same before doing anything. Do I enjoy my breasts? YES I do, but twice a year I have to go through exchustive tests because if this tummor gets bigger than I will have to have an operation. I do thank you Safi for contacting me, and I wish you all the luck in what ever you decide to do, let me know, how you get on,
My best wishes to you,
Lesley Ann
Sorry about my bad spelling!!!!!
dear Lesley Ann, your breasts are so nice I want my brasts to b big as yours, would you please tell me what you did to get that big size??
I used to travel for a living as a Claims Adjuster, whenever I was out of state on a job, I would bring my extra suitcase along, so that I could go out to the local TG scene, each night. It was more relaxing as I didnt fear detection and I met alot of friends.
About 20 years ago, with having a wife and many kids, and not wanting to cut into family time, I had sort of ‘quit’ presenting as female at the house. I was on a business trip, and spent most of the night alone in a hotel with nothing to do. Over the next few trips, I gather some things and (I can’t believe it) I just went out. I walked to a nearby restaurant and did pretty well blending in. Ever since, most of my business trips have included ‘Teri’ time, usually shopping, dining, local attractions (wine tours/art museums), mostly alone. This year, I started meeting girls I’ve met online to join me in these innocent nights out. I’ve lived by a code that puts taking care of family and work first, but after that, what used to be mindless wasted time in hotels is now one of my favorite times. This pic is from a recent trip (note the hotel room motif).
I have had a lot of interesting things happen on these trips, some of which I’ve published in my journal at the UR Not Alone website that I referenced (link is to my profile, there). I have had no major problems. I have found sales people and waiters to be very kind and professional.
These experiences seem to recharge me. When I get home, I’m full of energy and ready to deal with everything in my guy life.
PS Wife and I have celebrated 35 years together….