You’ve put a lot of effort into perfecting your feminine image – from outfits and makeup to practicing your voice and body movements.
But today, let’s pause the improvement talk and take a moment to appreciate the progress you’ve already made. Because, seriously, you’re amazing!
What’s your proudest accomplishment on your MTF journey so far?
It could be a major milestone like starting hormone therapy, coming out to a friend, or going out in public as a woman for the first time.
Or it could be a smaller victory, like buying your first lipstick or choosing your feminine name.
Even if you’re just starting out, there’s a lot to celebrate. Acknowledging your true self is a significant step forward!
So let’s hear it! What is your greatest transgender or crossdressing achievement?
Please share your story with us in the comments below!
Love,
Lucille
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A Formulation of a Meaning; Finally it comes to me a silent moment of clarity. Grateful for the bright light of love that comes my way. Peace has arrived with in me, no more haunting questions. And the truth has lifted me to a new freedom.I am what I am, I am what I believe I am, thats all that I am.
Lucille,
My biggest accomplishment in my journey was not the surgery or living my life as it should have been but holding on to my family, especially my wife of almost 40 years. Both of my children and my mother inlaw they have helped in so many ways. And my marriage is in much better shape now than it was five years ago. That took a lot of doing along with transitioning.
My life is noow great and though I have lost some of my family the really important one are still here with me. So yes surgery has a large step ans also living my new life but having my family intact was number one.
Your site has been a wealthh of information and help thank you so much for all you have done and are continuing to do.
Lots of love
CarolAnn
I don’t even think of myself as masculine or feminine and my difficulty as had more to do and continues to have more to do with my personality rather than anything else. I suppose that I have had to learn how to be a nicer person and therefore more acceptable in this way to whomever but people and institutions if they don’t like me typically don’t bother to tell me why but just exclude me from wherever this may be. I do want to look good and because I dress in clothes designed for women and do have certain procedures such as electrolysis I have to abide by the rules of how women should dress. I do wish I had an hour glass figure which I do not have. I try to be both healthy and good-looking at the same time. I wear makeup and some artifice. So be it.
I’m one of those persons who’s not trying to be only a She, but also not trying to be only a He either. I’m trying to be Myself, not a she or a he, a bi-gendered or two-spirited person for lack better words that are only a starting point to describe who I am inside.
So for several years now I’ve worn a mix of clothing, mostly female but some male, to help me feel more myself and came out to family and friends. It’s not easy to go against societal norms and it takes a lot of courage to be confident everyday.
I’m not a sheep that is led, I make my own path and beat my own drum because I know in my heart it’s the right thing to do for myself and others. Because… I also know… I’m not alone in how I feel.
No, you are not alone. And it’s hard to be in-between, I know since I’m an androgyne myself. Its like being a crossbreed in a race divided society, you have connection with both groups but no group fully accepts you. But dont forget, even if its tough, never stray away from the path of life which is YOU! Else, you will not feel good inside!
My most cherished accomplishment is that for the past few years am proud to be the owner of a gorgeous set of C-cup feminine breasts (all natural). My wife compliments me that they are so big, but doesn’t know I used to take real female hormone pills for years. My areola’s are nice and big and brown shade. My nipples are big also and when I wear just a t-shirt, you can see them. If I touch the tips, they harden just like a real woman’s does. They are very sensitive too. Now if I could get rid of the mid ridge bulge, I’d be the happiest (wo)man in the world.
Hi to *All, I am a very *NEW Cross dresser…well, at least in my thoughts,& Mind because so far I am Not able to do..what i would like to do (DRESS-UP) ,, its a feeling that’s strange..but at the same time…really *Good!!! too,, I will only speak for myself for me it is only goin 2b dressing up & wanting to have the (same) movements, jesters, the talking/Voice of a real woman when the time comes for me/Kelly to…be her self in public,, as to (PASSING) at least that’s what I hope to achieve I am Born a MAN & LOVE who I am as a man too. & also I am *Straight that to I LOVE* So this wanting to dress-up/act out as a Lady from time to time will keep my fem-side *HAPPY:) So as U can see/read my story is…different from quite a few other transgender people I do hope in the future of me being Kelly that I get along with all the different kind of Gurls. In general I do (LOVE)-(EVERY-1) I hav always loved & hav a big heart to do that. perhaps I might Not agree on certain life styles that some people liv,,, but that’s ok…because every 1 has their own way of thinking & believing in what they want…in their life.. after all it is not up to me to point any fingers to say whats wrong or right,, theirs some 1 higher that judges not ( I ) So what I hav been doin as far as getting Kelly ready to step-out in the future is a lot of research in the ways of learning to be like a (real) Woman practicing walking, sitting, & yes…i also jus found out something that was in the back of my mind as to…well I,ll jus say it: lol how does 1 make the appearance of a….*Smooth crotch area ? lol So yes I hav learned to *Tuck,, & cant wait to buy what i learned lol the name of that type of a underwear is a (Gaff) So much more can be said here….perhaps another time 🙂 thank U for this website & caring for the concerns of us T-girls Kelly
My greatest achievement was when I used to attend a support group in Glasgow, a new girl said she thought I was another girls wife, I looked so good. Wow! It really made my day.
Well, one of my greatest celebrations was back in June,when I got to walk in the annual Chicago Pride Parade-something I had always longed to do. My pic here is proof! Although I eventually wound up watching most of the parade, it was still a dream come true.
The other celebration was to attend my church in full attire and blend in with the congregation. They know me as Kayleah full time now!!! Feeling so relaxed and happy!!!!