You’ve put a lot of effort into perfecting your feminine image – from outfits and makeup to practicing your voice and body movements.
But today, let’s pause the improvement talk and take a moment to appreciate the progress you’ve already made. Because, seriously, you’re amazing!
What’s your proudest accomplishment on your MTF journey so far?
It could be a major milestone like starting hormone therapy, coming out to a friend, or going out in public as a woman for the first time.
Or it could be a smaller victory, like buying your first lipstick or choosing your feminine name.
Even if you’re just starting out, there’s a lot to celebrate. Acknowledging your true self is a significant step forward!
So let’s hear it! What is your greatest transgender or crossdressing achievement?
Please share your story with us in the comments below!
Love,
Lucille
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“To thy ownself be true. ” The greatest achievement of my feminine journey is that moment I started being myself, that person I was born as. A transgender, feminine sissy. Before I ever knew there was a difference between boys & girls clothing I would dress myself in girlie things. Mother though it was cute and took many pictures of me dressed in fem. Then at age 7 mother told me I had to stop wearing girls clothing because boys don’t do that. I was just living life without worrying about what anyone else thought of me. At that moment I asked myself what’s wrong with me, I’m not normal. And, that barrier lasted till age 22. Then a girlfriend of mine asked me if I liked men? I never had any thoughts about men. Being totally feminine was never asked sexual turn on. She then pointed out that I sure wouldn’t get a girlfriend, but men would be looking. You were meant to please your man. That lead me to start living life the way I should have always been living. From there on I have so many accomplishments to many to list. And yes, I did meant mr.right! By letting go I gained control of life. I love reading all the replys,their like leaves on a tree, no two are the same. Every girl blossoms in her own time an way. Love Susan.
Going shopping for new dresses as Brenda and not only passing but having the girls in the store helping me with my choices and commenting on my figure being better than theirs, and how well the dresses fit.
In the last mabe 7 or 8 months when wife& I have been out for dinner-Waitreses have come to the table & said things like”How are you ladies tonight(& I’m not even wearing makeup)!!
I’m allso quite proud of getting “Cat Calls” from men diving by the house when I’m doing Yardwork while “Dressed”!!
My greatest accomplishment was telling a friend I was planning to transition. I told her in secret. She said she wasn’t surprised and was very supportive. I felt like a giant stone had been lifted from my shoulders. I broke down and cried. That gave me the courage to tell others and I have slowly been moving forward on my journey.
My biggest achievement was the day that my parents finally agreed that I was no longer their son and accepted me as their daughter.
I dont feel like a true M2F, I am “only” an androgyne (maybe slightly femandro), but anyway…
The thing I feel most important is that I have overcame most of the fears of using female expressions in public. I dont try to pass as a woman at all (I dont want to hide the male part of my gender identity) so everyone can see that I am a genetic male, but still I have long hair, uses nailpolish, and at least one piece of female clothing when outdoors in addition to accessory and heels most of the time. At times I raise my voice and have got comments as “interesting”, “fascinating” and similar, and I also have passed a few times on phone. And a few times I’ve been called “she” in a natural/respectful way without asking for it, despite the fact that its obvious that I am a genetic male. Right now taking phytos and researching where I can buy things like wild yam, fenugreek, clover, and saw palmetto over the counter…
Performing my own songs and stand-up comedy, on stage, in front of other TG’s, as well as the general public…….5 times so far.
I went full time 6 weeks ago, and am still awaiting a referral for hormone therapy. My previous post might be misinterpreted.