Are you afraid to step out as a woman for fear of not “passing?”
Instead of fixating on passing, my advice to crossdressers and transgender women has always been to try to “blend in” as a woman instead. (Read more on that topic here.)
But lately, I’ve been wondering… Is blending in REALLY the ultimate goal when presenting as female?
After all, why wear cute outfits, style your hair, or apply makeup if no one notices?
I think it’s a natural feminine desire to want to stand out and make a statement. Does your inner woman share this desire?
This is an interesting topic, and I’d love to hear your thoughts:
- Do you enjoy getting positive attention when presenting yourself as a woman?
- Or do you prefer to blend in and attract as little attention as possible?
Please take my poll and share your thoughts below!
Love,
Lucille
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I’ve been this way all my life. But in private, now 30 yrs in this town I’m well known by many n many. Well the secrets out ,they wanted in my shoes but now poops. So they point me out ,I here them say it’s a guy. No way that’s not a guy I don’t believe it. Then they say it’s him you know him ,yes but no way. Well WAY yes it’s me and thank you for the beautiful gasps,n droughts… so i just wanna blend in and be me ,a happy go lucky girl i am..
Used to love to stand out in my younger days. Went for the sexy and slutty look,lol. Older now, just want to blend in.
While it’s natural to want to stand out, a lack of confidence and inexperience makes me want to blend in. Hopefully, I’ll get more relaxed and be able to just enjoy myself without worrying about what others think.
Here’s a few pictures! 62 years old and sure wish I could pass! This site sure has made being a woman a lot more fun! Kudos!
I want to blend in as a normal girl, obviously, but still be noticed as pretty. I’m basically a trap at this point ;P (not a terrible one btw xx)
Regardless, I definitely stand out regardless of what I want (I don’t pass well)
Hopefully, that will change when I go on HRT….
anyhoo practice makes perfect’ just promice yourself to become that beautiful woman you always wanted to be” i have been on hrt for only 5 months’ and im just learning the basic makeup technics and oh ye i have to get a wig yay’ and i feel more feminine and breast increase is happened quick’ im 51 now and feeling fabolous. . MWA”
tell me please , what do you think happens , do I blend in or stand out ?
BOTH 🙂
outstanding, outstanding!!!!!
The point is to stand out as a beautiful woman that we are period your a girl inside and out just try to be the best version of you that u can be i get are you a man or a woman alot i say 100% female they dont need to know my plumbing unless we get intimate lol
I tent to do both blend in with crowds while standing out at same time by wearing certain clothes when chating with guest or people letting them im there
I absolutely want to blend in with other people.
I like to be seen as just another girl who’s doing what girls do weather it’s wearing a pair of jeans and t’shirt out getting somefast food or wearing a skirt and blouse with heels out shopping at the mall. I try to make myself look like any other girl doing the same thing
I pride myself in being able to blend in