Stepping out into the word as your female self can be incredibly empowering. It’s powerful validation for crossdressers and transgender women alike.
In this blog post, I want to dive into this topic and hear about your own experiences. How often do you present yourself as a woman in public?
Do you live as a woman full time? Do you crossdress regularly or on occasion? Or is the answer, sadly, “never”?
Please take my transgender / crossdressing survey and share your thoughts in the comments below!
Love,
Lucille
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i do go out as a female daily. Mostly in pants, average type top, and my wedge heel boots. I was at a target store shopping when a child asked her mom. Is that a boy or a girl and the mom answered its a boy( and gave me that discusted look). I didn’t let it bother me I just shrugged it off. When I’m at work I get the same responces from coworkers. That still has not stopped me from wearing girls clothing ( except dresses or skirts) out in public.
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I will be wearing a wig, makeup, t-shirt from VS, and a pair of black leggins.
specially at night when I am alone I makeup and dressup as a women and like to see me before mirror again and again as a complete womango but not bravely go out in public place
I wish that I had the nerve to go out dressed as a woman, but I don’t. The few times that I do, and it’s been a few years now, it at night, so that no one will really see me. I wish that I could be able to go out dressed more and during the daytime.
Rachel
I go out in public, in the middle of the night, once or twice per week. However, almost nobody sees me 🙂 When they do, I expect (often irrationally) that they look at me as a woman, not as a ‘freak in a dress’, that’s why I try to look as presentable as possible.
My dream? To be identified merely as ‘an ugly female’ (but a female nevertheless!) instead of ‘merely a crossdresser’. I might have exhausted my skills to fulfill that dream, so I’m quite interested in learning more!
I want to transition, but not having the money and the hurdles you have to run through make it next to impossible. Just getting hormones is a hassle. When you get past 60, medical professionals tend to not look at you seriously and get hung up on risks for your age. I can’t find a decent paying job as a male or female so how can I pay for SRS on very small income? Then if I get a job and try and transition, there will be no company that would hire a 60+ pre-op Transexual.
Not very often i actually go out
I present publically often. Of course, when you’re in my shoes, often is never enough! But I do what I can under the circumstances.
There’s a tremendous amount of consideration that I need to give before dolling up and getting out. At this point though, I function in daily life as if I were a woman…getting many of life’s mundane errands done under the guise of femininity.
This said, circumstances don’t always make doing this entirely appropriate. By no means am I at a stage of hiding who I truly am…a ‘gender variant’ (Me…my own term, nobody else)…but there are times where it’s at least easier to forgo all the prep and just accomplish certain things outside of the female image.
Also, there are people in my life who deserve me in a light other than my preferred female gender presentation. So for them, I don’t live full-time…nor will I ever. In the meantime, I just live a lot of the time.
Since becoming single, I’ve lived routinely and openly.
I live as the woman I am. For years, I lived for society. I decided it was time to live for me. I’ve been on HRT for several years. At first, it was my doctors and massage therapist who knew as the HRT made it impossible to take off my clothes without them knowing. I started carrying a purse before I started going out dressed but bought them at that time to resemble a man bag. Since, even in male mode, everyone who didn’t know me saw me as a woman I started making all our many trips with me as a woman. My wife and I as well as a neighbor lady and sometimes my wife’s sister made them fun girls trips. I do use the ladies room when I’m out as the last time I went in a men’s room, even though dressed as a man, I caused a big commotion just because of my hair. Then, a few times I just forgot how I was dressed and went out in our home town, a Midwest town in the Bible belt. Since I went on HRT, I no longer have hair on my legs, under arms, torso, and only real light hair on my arms. I have long hair that I keep permed and am now in the process of having my beard removed.
I’m not a real feminine dresser. I prefer shorts or slacks, a pullover shirt, and sandals. I will go a bit more feminine if we go somewhere that it is needed. I’ve always dressed to blend rather than stand out. And let’s face it, most women for everyday dress more like men except the buttons are on the other side. Their everyday dress is almost unisex.