Stepping out into the word as your female self can be incredibly empowering. It’s powerful validation for crossdressers and transgender women alike.
In this blog post, I want to dive into this topic and hear about your own experiences. How often do you present yourself as a woman in public?
Do you live as a woman full time? Do you crossdress regularly or on occasion? Or is the answer, sadly, “never”?
Please take my transgender / crossdressing survey and share your thoughts in the comments below!
Love,
Lucille
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Hi Lucille:
I enjoy going out dressed as a woman frequently. I have two objectives. One is to crossdress and go out dressed as a woman with my dress, makeup, and accessories propperly done so that I can pass as a woman. My second objective is to play the role of a Sissy and go out wearing a mix women’s clothes and male atire and subject myself to public humiliation. I enjoy your blog and enjoy getting your e-mails.
Sissy Alice
Hi I live in Oslo Norway and as I understood what was inside of me 8 years ago, I have enjoyed more and more beeing priveledged with two genders. I move around freely wherever I like enfemme. I’m always positively received. I am 187 cm tall and only men can believe I am a real woman. A small irritation is that I’m adressed as “he” when I’m enfemme. I have reached the age of 64, but as recent as last friday women were guessing at as beeing early 40s. Some girls (in their 40s) took me out clubbing and picked up a guy to pay for it all. What a night. Once a year I walk the catwalk in Copenhagen for the Trans Fashion Show. One night, three shows. Last year we had almost 2000 people inside, newspaper and TV. My next challenge is to travel by air enfemme and I’m looking forward to it. I’now come out to all my close friends and I’m getting divorced (amicably). Nice to read your stuff. Kizzzes AE
Hi Lucille,
Thanks for the kind advice. I tend to get dressed up on regular occasions.Often going shopping and day trips away.Its so lovely to be able to express my true self. Love Adrienne
I often use bra and panty somtimes lengging occasionaly . I want to enhance my breast permanent.pls suggest .
I, too, am still perfecting my look.I’m having my facial hair removed and its nearly done.When I look in the mirror and am satisfied with who’s staring back at me after I’ve perfected my make-up ,then I’ll venture out.I can’t wait for that day to come though and when it does I’ll be so excited my heart will be pounding I’m sure 🙂
Hi Lucille. If you recall I was beginning my journey with my 1st step being to thin/groom my brows and (per your advice) I added some clear mascara. The reaction was minimal;mostly that I looked more rested. Since then I’ve gradually shaped them and am now at the point where they are arched and very fem. I was nervous going out but because I did it gradually most people didn’t remember how they looked originally. Now I am soooo comfortable with the look and I feel wonderful.
Thank you for all you’re doing for us “girls”.
I cant afford to transition yet so i still lead a double life. I call it “blue mode/pink mode”. Until i legally change my name and go full time, going about my business is usually done in “blue mode”. socializing is done in “pink mode”. One day, it will all be pink.
I think we have to stop thinking of it as going out enfemme. if you dress then you are a woman. its this going back and forth that makes us loose confidence in our true self. a lot of girls here look amazing and we look just like most woman do. some are super models and some are just the girl next door. (I put my self in the later). so girls just be wear jeans and pretty tops heels or flats what ever just be true to your self before its too late. you will be a lot happier! sure its hard but gather that and turn it in your strength. remember girls its harder being a woman then it ever is being a man. so if you want it then do it. that’s my soap box opinion ? giggle. xoxo love Lisa,
Thank you Lisa, I’ll bet a whole lot of us gurls never thought of ourselves in those terms. The girl next door. Such a revelation! I have been watching GG’s for a long time now, I have several female neighbors. On the sly I observed them, and others while I am out and about. I try to emulate them while in femme. Again thank you for this insight.
Oh and you are so pretty. Thank you Lisa.