Stepping out into the word as your female self can be incredibly empowering. It’s powerful validation for crossdressers and transgender women alike.
In this blog post, I want to dive into this topic and hear about your own experiences. How often do you present yourself as a woman in public?
Do you live as a woman full time? Do you crossdress regularly or on occasion? Or is the answer, sadly, “never”?
Please take my transgender / crossdressing survey and share your thoughts in the comments below!
Love,
Lucille
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The last time I EVER went out dressed as a girl was some years back…..and I braved it because it was late at night and hardly anyone around. It felt very liberating just to be outside that way. As I’ve gotten older I’ve let myself go a bit and need to lose a few pounds. I’m much more passable when I’m a little less heavy. These days my crossdressing is mainly at home…..wearing nightgowns at night and some makeup. I try to add some feminine touch to my everyday male look(Scrunchies in my ponytail…earrings sometimes….maybe some mascara.) when I’m out. You’d be amazed at how just something like that will get snickers or judgmental stares.I have a few female friends that know I’m like this and have absolutely no problem with it. If only the rest of the world were not as judgmental. I guess I’m not as courageous as a lot of you. I’m really happy that you all are that comfortable with it. 🙂
Hi girls!
I underdress all of the time and have done so for the past 3 years. This includes panties, bra, camis, pantyhose, slips, and whatever else I feel like that day. My wife does not accept my femme self, but has to know how I dress.
The only male clothes I wear on a daily basis is a shirt that can reasonably hide my breasts. I wear a 38C bra with size 7 breast forms at all times. I go everywhere dressed like this and I’m sure that people who see me just see a guy with breasts. I always wear women’s slacks, jeans, and socks.
I do get out completely enfemme once in a while, and every time is both exciting and a little scary. I don’t care who knows and believe that life is too short to miss out on some level of content and enjoyment as LoriDee.
Love all you do for us, Lucille. Hugs and Kisses, LoriDee
I go out in public at every opportunity. I would LOVE to travel enfemme, but I’m not sure of the TSA rules about that.
I go out en femme as often as possible. I go out to clubs where I mostly dance, movies, and other events 2-4 times/week. I’ve done almost every rigorous activity I like to do en femme: bicycling, running, lifting weights, but not rock climbing or snowboarding, but someday for those. I’ve been a violinist in a few orchestras where I have gone en femme for a Halloween concert or to a “dress” rehearsal, as well as a couple of concerts. (The conductors have been extremely bothered by my en femme appearance–I don’t want to distract the other members, but my attitude is “just get over it”. While I once was concerned to step outside en femme, the more I do it, the more confident I am. I have participated in past Transgender person marches, as well as the Seattle SlutWalk (check it out, not what you think it is) and the Gay Pride parade. Look for me in my new Hello Kitty dress at Sunday’s Gay Pride parade.
This is the second time I have been living as a female 24/7. The first time was 2008-2010 and then I went back to male for a few years and I have been full time female as of June 2012. I will not go back to being male again. I am female in mind and hopefully someday in body. I am increasing my breast size, I am up to an A Cup, I want to achieve at least a C Cup. I am using herbal pills as I cannot afford prescription meds. I am very well accepted as a female, so much I have males hit on me all the time, but I am only interested in females, Yes, I am a Lesbian. This makes it very hard for me. Most Ladies want either a Male of a Female, not a Male that dresses like a Female, even though I am Female in mind.
GOD BLESS!!!
Amy
…im feeling like a woman and love it!
I have been out a couple of times in the past to events at friends houses, but I found the increase in anxiety too excessive. These days I’m confined to my home office due to having a flatmate. Also, our garden is overlooked by our neighbours. The city I live in is quite progressive, so it always makes me smile when I see people out being themselves.
I’m post-op so I live full time as a woman.