Do you think it’s important to “pass” as a woman? Many crossdressers and transgender women wrestle with this question.
Is passing really something worth striving for?
I’ve shared my thoughts on this topic in this blog post. (Spoiler: I don’t think it matters!)
But now, I want to hear from you:
Do you care about passing as a woman, or are you proud to embrace your identity as a confident and classy crossdresser or transgender woman?
Take my “Passing Poll” and share your thoughts in the comments!
Love,
Lucille
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“Passing” is an affirmation that people accept me as the woman I am. I choose my outfits to fit in; to look like the rest of the women in my community; to not stand out. A great day is when I walk through the mall and nobody gives me a second look; to be treated like any other woman when I am shopping, dining or just interacting with people. The most important person I need to “pass” to is me. I want to lok as beautiful as I feel
I try to pass as much as possible thats why i bought my boobs and butt.
I dress and if i like the way i look i go out and i dont care how others feel if they dont like the way i look they can look the other way.
Passing never happens, the simple truth. Being accepted should be the goal, one I have achieved thousands of times, despite fooling no one, ever. There are far too many tells to anyone paying any attention. The sooner you realize this, the quicker you will really enjoy your time out!
I dress at home, every day, and love it. I’ve gone out three times, and was treated like a woman. One bartender even kissed my hand and said, “I’ts always an honor to serve a real woman.” At another, (Lips) the owner was checking I D,s he said, “Welcome Veronica”, which felt good. Also, there were a group of five girls, and they wanted me to sit with them. All three times, when I left home, I was so nervous, I was afraid I would piss my panties, but this only lasted for for about ten minutes, all three times.
Lets face it, looking and feeling like a woman is difficult if you can read in the eyes of everyone looking at you that they are thinking ‘hey that’s a dude.’ I want to look girly and feel girly and being passable (which I am not, but then again, neither is my sister, lol) means being able to walk around in public in a dress without the burning stares. I just want to be comfortable in public so I can put on a nice dress and take a walk in the park without it being a stressful thing.
I am 72 and retired. I live my life pretty much now 24/7 as a woman. In fact when I’m in guy mode I feel like I’m cross dressing! I just try to blend as any woman doing her thing. I am 5’6” and about 150 lbs. I don’t recall any issues with anyone when I am out and about. Even talking with ladies in the women’s room when nature calls. I guess I’m lucky. So I guess it is important for me to pass, but I seriously I feel and am treated as a woman wherever I go. Here I am today at the mall today in my “shopping clothes”. What do you think?
I am 74 and I still get a rush when I am in the female role
Yes you definitely do look like an average woman and I must admit you should never have any problems passing as one I wish I looked that good
Thanks Samantha!❤️
You look great
Wow you look awesome and for me I am stright guy love to dress up and go out
I’m 78, and look like a 78 year old man, when out. You’re lucky. In the picture, if I saw you anywhere, I would say think that you were a woman. Lucky you.
I’m so jealous, and damn you look good for 72!
Okay this might sound weird.
As a hetro guy who loves dressing up, I just have the utmost respect for females. When I dress up I have to show respect to Women.
I follow a Queen? Bee.
I hope you understand.
Was taken into custody temporarily, traffic, and the intake CO thought I was a woman. I was excited as when I have been mistaken for a woman b4, even in a CD bar b4. As a result, when out, I endeavor to be as passable as possible. When out to shop or lunch/dance w/genetic women, I am always addressed as a woman. P
Yes passing is important, both because it is an element of being the woman I am as completely as possible, and also because it provides comfort and safety on a daily basis not to be noticed