Expressing your feminine side is about much more than just clothes and makeup. After all, women are a little more complex than that!
That’s why I wanted to go beyond the obvious and explore some unexpected strategies to help you enhance your feminine expression.
In this blog post for crossdressers and transgender women, I share 3 unexpected ways to be more feminine. Read on to learn more!
1. Buy a New Perfume
The right perfume can make you feel irresistibly feminine. While it’s great to have a signature scent, sometimes it helps to switch things up and discover new perfumes to bring out your inner woman.
Here are some suggestions to match your desired vibe:
- Floral scents: Embrace your soft, romantic side with the allure of flowers.
- Fresh or fruity scents: Boost your confidence and energy levels with invigorating notes.
- Woody or oriental scents: Unleash your inner seductress with warm, captivating fragrances.
To learn more, check out my article on MTF Feminization Tips: How to Choose the Perfect Perfume.
2. Be More Polite
Did you know that politeness plays a significant role in enhancing your feminine image?
Countless studies have shown that women tend to excel in the realm of manners, and adopting these social graces can truly elevate your femininity.
Here are three suggestions to keep in mind:
- Embrace the power of “please” and “thank you” – These little words hold huge power in conveying respect and gratitude. Remember to use them often in your daily interactions.
- Soften your language – For example, instead of bluntly saying “I can’t hear you,” opt for a more gentle approach like, “I’m sorry, I can’t quite hear you.” This subtle shift demonstrates empathy and consideration.
- Mind your online presence – Politeness shouldn’t be limited to face-to-face encounters. It’s equally important to be polite when texting, emailing, or engaging in online discussions.
3. Loosen Up
If you’re looking for an instant way to enhance your feminine image, here’s a simple secret: loosen up! This applies to both your body and your mind, and it can work wonders in unleashing your true feminine grace.
First, let’s focus on loosening up your body:
Women naturally possess a graceful, limber quality. If your body feels tense and tight, it can manifest in stiff, jerky movements that lack femininity. Here’s how you can loosen up:
- Consciously relax your body, especially your jaw and shoulders.
- Stretch your muscles on a daily basis.
- Take lots of deep, relaxing breaths.
These simple body-loosening techniques can do more to feminize your movements than all the hip shaking in the world!
Now, let’s shift our focus to loosening up your mind:
The happiest crossdressers and transgender women I know don’t get hung up on “passing” or trying to please everybody. Instead, they embrace who they are while constantly striving to improve themselves.
Life is short, so above all, relax and enjoy the journey!
What are YOUR favorite ways to feel feminine?
As always, I’d love to hear from you on this topic.
What are your favorite – and perhaps unexpected – ways to feel feminine? Please share in the comments below!
Love,
Lucille
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Simply relax on a rainy Friday evening at home. Bubble bath, full shave silky smooth, moisturize, make-up, full jewelry, perfume, then into lovely-elegant lace lingerie, hair up in cute stretch-lace scrunchy, and finish with long, sheer-crepe lace + bows dressing robe with satin sash. Add spa-music + glass of wine in front of fireplace while I do my nail polish, watch a girly-romantic old-time movie curled up on couch on ultra soft chenille throw and pillows, then let my thoughts run free of how I am truly SUCH a woman!
Totally agree! Nothing like a new perfume to reset the balance and reconnect. Lucille you are brilliantly helpful as ever.
I would also like to suggest that taking a dance class or 2 at your local gym could also help loosen the joints esp the hips!
(Works wonders for me)
Thanks.
Vikki x
Exactly as Jolie has commented, being polite is “second nature” to me; so often people have said that I am unusually polite for a “Trainee Driving Instructor” (I realize that I was rejecting the ignorant behavior being displayed by some males, and I wanted to be serene, well-mannered and ladylike).
I go to sleep in a nightdress; also I slip on a bra and panties all the times I can
First, when I get home from work, I grab a sandwich and a drink, and head to the bathroom. I light a fragrance(Lavender) scented candle while I draw a steaming hot bubble bath. I retire to the bedroom, and take off all my clothes; and don a soft, pale pink,nylon lined quilted robe with a ruffled collar. I watch the evening news from my overstuffed easy chair while the tub is filling up. I check it after about 10 minutes, and turn the water off. It’s boiling hot like I like it to soothe my thick-skinned hide. I find a woman’s magazine(Vogue, Glamour, Mademoiselle) and relax with my head against a special pillow. I put down the magazine, and give myself a manicure and a pedicure. I exit the bath, find a soft, silk, long lilac nightgown with matching panties, and a robe, and put it all on. I light another scented candle, and finish reading my magazine before I drift off to girlish dreamland.
First, when I get home from work, I grab a sandwich and a drink, and head to the bathroom. I light a fragrance(Lavender) scented candle while I draw a steaming hot bubble bath. Iretire to the bedroom, and take off all my clothes; and don a soft, pale pink,nylon lined quilted robe with a ruffled collar. I watch the evening news from my overstuffed easy chair while the tub is filling up. I check it after about 10 minutes, and turn the water off. It’s boiling hot like I like it to soothe my thick-skinned hide. I find a woman’s magazine(Vogue, Glamour, Mademoiselle) and relax with my head against a special pillow. I put down the magazine, and give myself a manicure and a pedicure. I exit the bath, find a soft, silk, long lilac nightgown with matching panties, and a robe, and put it all on. I light another scented candle, and finish reading my magazine before I drift off to girlish dreamland.
I love wearing panties and a bra. When I can’t I at least wear my panties. They make me feel so good inside and I can’t imagine stopping. I am having a lot of problems coming out to some of my friends though. Because they can’t handel the truth and I don’t want to hurt them.
I am always in panties and bra(beit a sports bra even at times) and wear coloured toe nails and clear finger nails ,also a perfume of some sort
I only wear panties under my guy stuff. I also wear nail polish and some eyeliner and lipstick, also I find wearing womens shoes or boots while I have to be a guy helps to keep me feminine