Going Out En Femme: Where Do You Present Yourself as a Woman? (Take the Poll!)

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Fox says:

May 2, 2012 at 2:24 am

I want to be a girl all the time, but I’m afraid of what my family and friends would think, so decided to start the flat2fem program in secret, and when my breasts get big enough to be noticable to people, I will just pretend I have no idea why its happening and just go from there.

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Deenah says:

April 19, 2012 at 3:33 pm

Im not at all picky where is go, but most of the time i like shopping,or taking a walk. Nothing like the wind blowing threw your hair(and other places)…

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jeff griffin says:

October 31, 2011 at 9:11 pm

i am young and still live at home in Nebraska. i know if my father which who i live with would disown me if he knew which makes it hard. my mother if she found out would probably tell my father so i have no were else to go but to her. its hard living in both lives and i start to wonder if it is all worth it.

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GB says:

September 27, 2011 at 9:17 pm

“F” what others might think! Just keep your head up and walk proud, just remember dressing femme doesn’t mean you should look like a Vegas whore. That is one of the main points Lucille is trying to make.

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JoAnna Lorenzini says:

September 6, 2011 at 4:15 pm

I might be a little differant when i came out it was when i was asked to put on a nitie by my mother becaus my pj’s were all drity. So when i put it on i know at that point it all was right. to be dressed as my self.It was not until later that i new what I was, and that a woman liveing in a mans body. I started to were my mothers cloths under my own. Ie Panties, Bra’s, Nylons, and the such to school and to outtings that m mother wanted me to go. It was not until I was in Junior High School that i was wearing them all the time and,I cought quite a few times by her. At the end of being cought 12 or more times she just said go and change ) when she would catch me. I wore all of her cloths. I would change into them after she went to work and were them to school. and then change into a complate out fit after school.It cought to the point to were my mother would ask me not to wear her bra’s top bed. only to school and the such. I finely came out full time when i was 45 and i have never felt better in my life.And i live now as a woman, and work as a woman i basicaly am a woman to all. I even came ou to my church, and they are still triing to understand it all.I know that i was put here for a reason. I just need to find out so i can help others as i can. I am a business owner as-well.

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Jennifer Singleton says:

July 25, 2011 at 11:49 am

I am a part time girl, hoping for full time. I go out as my true self quite often. I have enjoyed shopping trips, bars/clubs, movies, dining, etc…..

I love being Jenn.

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Terri says:

July 15, 2011 at 8:54 am

Thanks sooooo much Lucille! I love reading you blog so very much <3

So, as for your question, I go out as my feminine self more and more as time goes on…it sort of seems more of a necessity…even though I have not come out to my family or the majority of my friends. While I started first by going out for trips in my car, then shopping and even going out to eat. But, as of the last two years, I started volunteering 1 day a week en fem at a local womans health center and I absolutely LOVE it! I look forward to my volunteer day every week!

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Tammy Allen says:

May 20, 2011 at 1:57 am

Lucille:

I just dress at home in privet I gees I don’t feel like going out as a femme yet .
So I work the grave yard shift and I well ware my bra’s and pantie under my work
close every now and then I only dress in privet at home. I even have my night
Gown to sleep in. When I’m by my self I well go all over the house dress.
If I travel by myself I well dress in my motel room it relaxes me. There now you
know how Tammy dresses.

Tammy

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