Are you afraid to step out as a woman for fear of not passing?
Or if you’re out, do you allow your happiness to be determined by how passable you are?
If so, I think you’re making a mistake.
Instead of worrying about passing vs. not passing, my advice has always been to try to “blend in” as a woman instead.
But lately, I’ve been wondering…
Is blending in REALLY the ultimate goal?
As a genetic (cisgender) woman, the last thing I want to do is blend in!
After all, what’s the point of wearing cute clothes, getting a fabulous haircut, or doing your makeup if nobody notices?
I believe it’s a natural feminine desire to want to stand out.
Does your femme self share this desire?
This is a juicy topic, so I’d love to hear your thoughts…
Do you enjoy attracting positive attention when en femme?
Or do you prefer to blend in and attract as little attention as possible?
Please take my poll and share your thoughts below!