Do you ever find yourself wondering if it’s okay to crossdress? Do you feel weighed down by society’s judgment and expectations?
Well, it’s time to shed that weight and liberate yourself! Let’s talk about why crossdressing is absolutely okay, and why you should embrace it without any guilt.
1. Self-Expression Matters
As humans, expressing ourselves is a basic core need.
Crossdressing is just one way to showcase your personality, tastes, and preferences through clothing. It’s an ideal outlet for creativity and individuality.
2. Fashion Has No Gender
Who says certain clothes are meant only for specific genders?
Clothes don’t have an inherent gender; they are pieces of fabric that can be enjoyed by anyone. So, wear what makes you feel confident and fabulous!
3. Breaking Free from Gender Norms
Crossdressing challenges outdated gender norms. It’s time to break free from rigid ideas of what’s “appropriate” to wear.
Crossdressing allows you to take a stand against society’s expectations and encourages others to do the same.
4. It’s Not Harmful
Let’s be clear – crossdressing is harmless. As long as you’re not hurting anyone, there’s no reason to feel bad about it.
Feeling guilty about expressing yourself through clothing is unnecessary and unproductive.
In conclusion
Being true to yourself is a beautiful thing, and it sets an example for others to do the same.
So, let go of the guilt, and embrace your fabulous, feminine side!
Now I’d love to hear your thoughts on this topic. Do you ever feel guilty about crossdressing? If you’ve overcome feelings of guilt, how did you do so?
Please take my poll and leave me your comments below!
Love,
Lucille
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I have never felt guilty for my Transvestite desires or the sex I have had over the years.
I just wish the internet had been around when I was a teenager the feelings of being alone was worse then any guilt ever could be .
Carla
iam not ashame of being who i really am ppl judge ppl even before they get to know you ,, thats the problem , its my life and i love who iam
I would think most of us “girls” would feel a slight embarassment when we first start dressing up when we have grown up. I remember dressing in my mothers lingerie and clothes from an early age and it always felt good and right. It was only very much later in life, just before I divorced my wife, that I met a woman who “saw” something different in me and slowly drew out my feminine side. She initially started out by buying lingerie for me. I felt more embarassed, but not guilt, by having lingerie under my male clothes, due to the the hairiness of the male. But for the last 7 years or so since living on my own I have been clean shaven it feels so good and natural to dress. Every day I have something on under my outer appearance. It seems so natural and normal. I get the same thrill in selecting what I am going to wear as I did when I first started. Over the weekends if I have no arrangements I dress totally “en femme”. I have started going out in the car at night which means I have to walk in the road to the car hoping that no one sees me! I have moved to a security complex flat and there it is even more nerve racking. And yet, who cares/ I feel ssssooo good in moving forward like this. I have been to one persons home where there are 4 girls there. I chanced going totally dressed one evening and when I arrived they were amazed how I looked. I have now been there 6/7 times and they have always complimented me on my appearance and clothes and given me tips. If I ask if I look like a fool, there response is a very firmative and strong “NO”.
The reason for this long preamble is that there is no reason to feel guilty at all, embarassed maybe at first, but guilty NEVER. Being “en femme” for me is like a drug and it is addictive. I feel so at peace being totally dressed as a woman and I just want more and more. I feel a completely different person and the feminine side comes out and shows itself so naturally either in the house or when I go out. I am taking hormones along with other medications to enhance my feminity slowly and my breasts are also developing slowly so at least I can control it. So I consider myself more than just a casual crossdresser. At this stage of life (68)divorced with children living overseas permanantly, there is “little” to excite me, but expressing myself as a woman has give me a new lease and zest for living and I just want more and more. In my chiropractor’s waiting room there is a very profound picture statement on the wall. There is a picture of a blue butterfly and next to it are the words – “It is never too late to be what you might have become”! My regret is that I started this journey late but what a joy and pleasure it is giving me now.
So for all you “girls” feeling guilty I encourage you to continue on this journey because you will become a better person for it and your feminine side will do this for you.
Thank you Lucille for at last allowing me to express myself.
Gerald/Georgina
Cape Town
Love your posts/blogs! NO…I am not ashamed of my feminine self….I embrace it!!!!!! I’ve had SO many positive reactions to my looks that I am SO into being Rhonda that some day, I will relocate and live 24/7/365 as a woman….using my real name which also happens to be a girls name: Robin
In my past, it was not shame or guilt, but a fear of how others would act. We no longer live in the age where you are stoned or hung – but the fear of the looks and words linger. Once I got out there I found it did not matter. People don’t care anymore. Why… would require pages, in short. Everyone has their own problems and care more about “their” world than how someone else is acting or dressing. Key = just go about doing your own thing and you will see in time – no one cares as long as you are legal.
As the fetus grows in the womb,all of us start out with female genitalia.The addition of particular sex hormones at a given number of weeks during the pregnancy is when the female genitals begin to transform into that of a male.Therefor all males on the planet were once female and our brains remember that time before the fetal sexual transformation.As this world becomes more hostile and the insatiable desire for perfection of beauty that is driven into our already brainwashed to believe minds forces many men to believe that they are second class citizens much like women were once led to believe with statements like “penis envy”and” its a mans world” there also seems to be a slow transition to letting women run the world because of their feminine line” women’s liberation” I think that’s great let women run the world that may be the only way that words will ever come to an end. let men do the nurturing and stay home with curlers in her hair and eating bon bons
I have an irrational fear of being happy, and being Jenni makes me happy and terrifies me at the same time. Yes I am in therapy for this issue and it is slowly getting better.
Initially I did feel guilty, however I lately I’ve been encouraged when I received some favorable comments from a few women. I have a song quote for ya from the Hendrix song if 6 was 9
“I’m the one that’s gonna have to die
When it’s time for me to die
So let me live my life the way I want to.”
allie