Do you ever find yourself wondering if it’s okay to crossdress? Do you feel weighed down by society’s judgment and expectations?
Well, it’s time to shed that weight and liberate yourself! Let’s talk about why crossdressing is absolutely okay, and why you should embrace it without any guilt.
1. Self-Expression Matters
As humans, expressing ourselves is a basic core need.
Crossdressing is just one way to showcase your personality, tastes, and preferences through clothing. It’s an ideal outlet for creativity and individuality.
2. Fashion Has No Gender
Who says certain clothes are meant only for specific genders?
Clothes don’t have an inherent gender; they are pieces of fabric that can be enjoyed by anyone. So, wear what makes you feel confident and fabulous!
3. Breaking Free from Gender Norms
Crossdressing challenges outdated gender norms. It’s time to break free from rigid ideas of what’s “appropriate” to wear.
Crossdressing allows you to take a stand against society’s expectations and encourages others to do the same.
4. It’s Not Harmful
Let’s be clear – crossdressing is harmless. As long as you’re not hurting anyone, there’s no reason to feel bad about it.
Feeling guilty about expressing yourself through clothing is unnecessary and unproductive.
In conclusion
Being true to yourself is a beautiful thing, and it sets an example for others to do the same.
So, let go of the guilt, and embrace your fabulous, feminine side!
Now I’d love to hear your thoughts on this topic. Do you ever feel guilty about crossdressing? If you’ve overcome feelings of guilt, how did you do so?
Please take my poll and leave me your comments below!
Love,
Lucille
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Hi and thank you. How Timely for me. I publicly came out 2 weeks ago on my Facebook page.
I have been a member of a large international community for 30 years and a very public member at that. I was always confused and ashamed by my behavior which began as dreams when I was pre adolescent. It has only been in the past 2 years that I have turned and faced myself and began to embrace the person who for years i had run from. I began removing all my body hair and have maintained it since then. Since my FB proclamation I have gone everywhere in fem and have met with friends both male and female. For all of my life I was both the prisoner and jail keeper, no one else. It was my fear, shame and confusion that locked me up. My girlfriends all noticed that I was not completely there in our relationship. Today I am so free in my expression of my femininity and I am on my new journey of self discovery and love. Be all that you can be. You are beautiful, share the beauty.. It is a time of Global transformation and it is time to live your life. I am glad that I finally am.
Hi and thank you. How Timely for me. I publicly came out 2 weeks ago on my Facebook page.
I have been a member of a large international community for 30 years and a very public member at that. I was always confused and ashamed by my behavior which began as dreams when I was pre adolescent. It has only been in the past 2 years that I have turned and faced myself and began to embrace the person who for years i had run from. I began removing all my body hair and have maintained it since then. Since my FB proclamation I have gone everywhere in fem and have met with friends both male and female. For all of my life I was both the prisoner and jail keeper, no one else. It was my fear, shame and confusion that locked me up. My girlfriends all noticed that I was not completely there in our relationship. Today I am so free in my expression of my femininity and I am on my new journey of self discovery and love. Be all that you can be. You are beautiful, share the beauty.. It is a time of Global transformation and it is time to live your life. I am glad that I finally am.
It isn’t guilt or shame for me. It is self-centered and selfish feelings I have. Knowing that I have hurt and lost my wife over this thing and missed seeing my sons grow into young men (only seeing them in the summer) hurts. I despise myself for hurting the woman I vowed to love and cherish til death do we part. I do not see this as a good thing. I see it as a psychological dysfunction: kin to schizophrenia. I do not feel
suicidal. I love myself too much for that. But I despise what I feel inside and the pleasure I take in wearing feminine attire. I take no joy in hurting those I love; and I
Will never again take the selfish attitude toward anyone else as I did toward my ex-wife.
Am a 54 yr old male married for 26 years…I am so female it’s killing me. I closet dress and every girl I see, no matter what nationality or weight status, I am in total envy to be her. Have been seeing therapy for the issues and am told I have to transition totally by my therapist as I am clinically transgendered . I have made a hang mans noose and hung it from the garage rafters twice only to chicken out. I bury myself in booze lately… God really screwed up with me..I sure as hell didn’t ask for this… My wife is NOT supportive and wants to sweep it under the carpet…..What was your question again?….Do I feel Guilty? I am a freak that needs to be put down like an old cat or dog… I don’t fit in anywhere
Jill
I could iddentify with your thoughts of suicide. I don’t know your case and I may be off base, but for me alcohol triggered suicidal thoughts. What save me from suicide was calling Altoholics Anonymous. i don’t know if you have a probel, but you mentioned burying yourself with me. That made me think of the expereineces I had and A.A. saved my life.
Mary Ann
Hello,
This is an important reflexion, and completely true.
In my case I don’t feel quilty, because it is something I have desire since I can remember and I can not avoid it, but I do hide it from relatives, why? because most of the people think it is wrong. We live in a society that rule us with traditional believes, and seems hard to run against to that. I think we must make of crossdresing a way of living.
I have let my girlfriend to know me as a trans girl, and it has work very fine to me, she treats me like if I were another person, it has made me feel very well, and feel it is enough for now,
it is a good begining.
Buffy B. Jewel
I feel guilty in that I have clothes I have never even tried on. The expense seems to prohibit me from doing what I love. What doesn’t help is having to help raise three grandchildren. That’s why I feel guilty. I would love to dress, but there never seems to be an oppurtuinity to do so.
Michelle
I did. I don’t anymore. My (soon to be ex)wife believes I dress because I get off on shame and humility. It doesn’t matter how often I try to explain; she’s convinced.
Once I started going out, guilt vanished. There was fear, but no guilt.
I’ve blogged about my belief that many of us follow a path from “care” (my wife/the neighbors/kids at the mall are going to freak) to “don’t care” (I’m living my life, and I don’t care who knows it). Guilt to no guilt parallels that path.
Keep in mind Bernard Baruch, who said “those who matter don’t mind; those who mind don’t matter.”
Guilt is something that others impose on you.
Used to feel guilty, now the only time I feel guilty is when I masturbate. Even now I try to do that before dressing as a woman, get the quilt out of the way first.
Just wish I didn’t live so far out from the clubs other wise I would frequent them on a regular basis.