Do you ever find yourself wondering if it’s okay to crossdress? Do you feel weighed down by society’s judgment and expectations?
Well, it’s time to shed that weight and liberate yourself! Let’s talk about why crossdressing is absolutely okay, and why you should embrace it without any guilt.
1. Self-Expression Matters
As humans, expressing ourselves is a basic core need.
Crossdressing is just one way to showcase your personality, tastes, and preferences through clothing. It’s an ideal outlet for creativity and individuality.
2. Fashion Has No Gender
Who says certain clothes are meant only for specific genders?
Clothes don’t have an inherent gender; they are pieces of fabric that can be enjoyed by anyone. So, wear what makes you feel confident and fabulous!
3. Breaking Free from Gender Norms
Crossdressing challenges outdated gender norms. It’s time to break free from rigid ideas of what’s “appropriate” to wear.
Crossdressing allows you to take a stand against society’s expectations and encourages others to do the same.
4. It’s Not Harmful
Let’s be clear – crossdressing is harmless. As long as you’re not hurting anyone, there’s no reason to feel bad about it.
Feeling guilty about expressing yourself through clothing is unnecessary and unproductive.
In conclusion
Being true to yourself is a beautiful thing, and it sets an example for others to do the same.
So, let go of the guilt, and embrace your fabulous, feminine side!
Now I’d love to hear your thoughts on this topic. Do you ever feel guilty about crossdressing? If you’ve overcome feelings of guilt, how did you do so?
Please take my poll and leave me your comments below!
Love,
Lucille
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I can’t vote. Like most polls, there are not enough choices . At the very least we need an “it’s complicated”. I have conflicted feelings. I don’t know if they are guilt or just fear. Ex: I would love to come and go from home en femme. I have neighbors that would love to know just so they could enjoy giving me a hard time about it. And almost everyone has a camera on them these days. And by hard time I mean to say vile things and beat me. I know what I do and what I feel is not wrong so I don’t think I have guilt but saying no in the poll sounds like I feel free to do what I want and I don’t.
Hi
Look at history
Herbert Hoover Cross dressed Love wearing womens clothes
But I was not born but My grandmother said to me He Only wears panyhouse and panties under his suits and wears dresses in the White House. When I was In second Grade I forgot my Clowns suit So My teacher had dresses and panyhouse told me to put them on on halloween I felt like a girl my father did not like it But i felt to this day i felt and am a woman I go full time today thanks to my Teacher.
I have to say that I don’t feel guilty about being a transgender woman.
It’s who I am.
I walk into a store with all the confidence that I have as a woman and look through the clothes,and try on the shoes.
I am a woman and I don’t care who thinks otherwise.
just because I am in this male body (for now) doesn’t mean that I’m not who I am, and who I am is a woman with a flare for style.
I want some color in my life and be able to say that things are cute, or that outfit is so wrong for me.
I am out and about honey, and I am proud and loud to be who I am.
Soon as I could dress myself I would choose to wear girl clothes. At age 7 my mother told me I had to stop doing this and wearing that, “boys don’t do that” she told me. I had to stop being myself! I was confused, why am I so ok with my feminine needs? Years later, I knew I wasn’t a crossdreeser, they dress up to feel feminine but, I dress up because I felt feminine. “To thy own self be true ” .
I don’t really feel guilty about dressing in feminine clothes, but I guess since I do it in private and don’t show it off to anyone there is a little bit of fear about it. I do love the way they feel on and even looking in the mirror after I am fully dressed I don’t feel shame. It’s a role that I have kept to myself since I was in my early teens. I do remember showing one of my sisters once that I had my mom’s old cheerleaders uniform on but I think she was so sleepy she doesn’t remember it.
Thanks for all that you do Lucille and I enjoy reading your blog and all the comments captured here.
i am what i am… i have been in the wrong body too long so now i’m going to express my real side. my wife doesn’t like it but has decided to accept it. i dress in nighties or silk pajamas every night and they keep me thinking sexy. in fact, my wife just bought a new pair of pajamas with a plunging front and i asked “where’s mine” she said i’ll get you some tommorrow. i have used lucille’s breast enhancement blog and i am now a full 48a, going for a 48b.. my breasts feel sooo fucking great!!!!!!!!!!
so now i go into the city once a month and be geri danielle. since i am bi-sexual, i may have sex or not. it depends on the other girl.
i am a big girl and it is hard to pass but i do my best because it’s all in the mind.
so to all you girls that feel guilty, stop it!!!!!!!!!! we are supposed to be this way.
love and kisses,
geri danielle
I definitely don’t feel guilty about it. I feel a disconnection between most of society due to it, even with my own family but that is only because they are bothered by me being transgender though with people who aren’t bothered by it and find it interesting and whatnot I fell normal with so really no guilt.
Yes, I feel ashamed and guilty and embarrassed about being like this. I have been this way for as long as I can remember. Maybe from around 9 or 10 years old. I watched my older brother put on some women’s clothing that he had found in a junked car, that was in a junkyard, where we were playing. And it was a light bulb moment for me. I just knew I had to do that as soon as everyone was gone. Like I said, it was a (light bulb moment), and I’ve been dressing up ever since. I’ve never had anything to hit me so hard. I just knew that,that was what I was suppose to be wearing. That was who I was on the inside. I’m now 57 years old and the feelings have gotten stronger. When I was younger, I would always masturbate when I would dress up. That was why I did it,(dressing-up). So I always thought that was why I did it. But now I feel more like a woman than ever. I feel like that is who I am. And it’s time I did something to make things right. BUT,I’m to scared to move forward. What would I tell my children, and how would I tell my family. Two years ago I talked to my younger sisters about the way I feel and how I was. But I’ve never told my three brothers. My girlfriend knows about me dressing and say’s she is ok with it. She has even done my face up for me. Since I’ve gotten this computer, I’ve learned a lot about the way I am, and what it’s called. (Gender Identity Disorder),and now it all makes sense to me. I didn’t choose to be this way,but it’s the way I have felt for 47 years. So I’m trying to decide now what to do next. Do I continue to go through hell living like this or do I talk to a Therapist. There have been times that I thought about ending my life over this. Especially when my wife wanted a divorce,and I had lost everything I had worked for. Then I lost my job of 19 years, and my mother. Went into business for myself and lost everything again. Then I lost my Dad after 10 years of living with him and taking care of him. I was out of work,(bad economy)three years ago. Nobody was hiring. I couldn’t get a job nowhere. I was out of money and out of a home to live. Things weren’t looking good. Ending my life was looking real good. How or why I’ve hung on, I don’t know. But I’m still here. No one ever said life would be easy.