Do you ever find yourself wondering if it’s okay to crossdress? Do you feel weighed down by society’s judgment and expectations?
Well, it’s time to shed that weight and liberate yourself! Let’s talk about why crossdressing is absolutely okay, and why you should embrace it without any guilt.
1. Self-Expression Matters
As humans, expressing ourselves is a basic core need.
Crossdressing is just one way to showcase your personality, tastes, and preferences through clothing. It’s an ideal outlet for creativity and individuality.
2. Fashion Has No Gender
Who says certain clothes are meant only for specific genders?
Clothes don’t have an inherent gender; they are pieces of fabric that can be enjoyed by anyone. So, wear what makes you feel confident and fabulous!
3. Breaking Free from Gender Norms
Crossdressing challenges outdated gender norms. It’s time to break free from rigid ideas of what’s “appropriate” to wear.
Crossdressing allows you to take a stand against society’s expectations and encourages others to do the same.
4. It’s Not Harmful
Let’s be clear – crossdressing is harmless. As long as you’re not hurting anyone, there’s no reason to feel bad about it.
Feeling guilty about expressing yourself through clothing is unnecessary and unproductive.
In conclusion
Being true to yourself is a beautiful thing, and it sets an example for others to do the same.
So, let go of the guilt, and embrace your fabulous, feminine side!
Now I’d love to hear your thoughts on this topic. Do you ever feel guilty about crossdressing? If you’ve overcome feelings of guilt, how did you do so?
Please take my poll and leave me your comments below!
Love,
Lucille
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P.S. further to post below, I am STILL essentially in the closet, after over 30 years; sigh.
But I seem to be changing mentally in last couple of years. I used to cross-dress more for a thrill and just the feel of feminine clothes. But now I feel like I want so much more – when I get home from work the first thing I want to do is shed my bland, male office clothes and wear something feminine. And all the time I am out I see girls in clothes I wish I could be wearing outside too; just doesn’t seem fair.
Doesn’t stop me shopping a lot though, especially online, and love to get home and try on something new. I feel free in women’s clothes, they are so much less bulky and restrictive than men clothes, as well as so much prettier. Am much more into make-up too, and leg/body shaving. Wish I could put it all together and pass someday…
Sometimes I wonder if I’m getting pmt???
I voted ‘yes’ for guilty… but may have got it wrong.
I USED to feel guilty for two long periods of my life:
1. Growing up as a teenager, when I started cross-dressing, secretly raiding my mum’s wardrobe and drawers, mostly when they were out, though sometimes when my parents were out in garden or even at end of the house, my heart thumping in my chest. I only got caught once, late in this period, by my mum when in her black underwear, but I was so overcome with guilt when I saw her her tears that I explained it away and lied.
2. When I was married, when I’d dress up in her clothes when she was out.
But now that I’m divorced (not CD/tg related) and can buy and wear what I really want to I don’t feel guilt. Now I feel only fear of rejection by:
* my daughter, if she ever finds out; I love her so much.
* my employer, where I feel I would ruin my career if I ever came out; people there are not open-minded, and ‘cross-dressing-at-the-weekend’ jokes still are voiced sometimes.
* society… that I’m less worried about.
Andrea
Wish I could say the same it is soooo hard for me I wish I had a friend just one good one who understands all of this and whom I could confide in and who could help move along in my journey
I have not felt guilty about being transsexual but have felt guilty for the ones I’ve been with for 34 years I know it is hard for my life partner she did not expect to live life with a another woman.
I am SO happy being a transsexual woman! I cant even imagine feeling guilty about it. Okay, I do sorta have a guilty bit. I have had such an easy time of transitioning, although it has been slower than I would like. No hassles, few problems, no roadblocks, almost universal acceptance, and so on … I do feel a bit guilty that I have had it so easy when I see the suffering that many experience. It’s not really guilt, since I have not contributed to that suffering, but a feeling something like it.
no i dont feel guilty anymore {used to} but i do not go out in .public because i am not passable and i am lucky enough to have the full support of my wife .but i do love the time i get to spend crossdressing at home
I don’t feel intimidated about being transgender. I envy sometimes those who are young and transgender in many ways despite the fact for the majority of them it still is a difficult struggle. I envy that they can declare their identity at so young an age as some I have seen today and get the support of their parents and medical help to the point that a boy like me would have been able to suppress my male hormones at a point where they never would have interfered with me growing up as a little girl, adding the needed estrogen at the right time therefore knowing my life only as a woman.
I am not unhappy as I am. My only issue to transition is a financial one. Today I dress as I please and at times confuse some not knowing if I am man or woman. I will never be ashamed of it just wish I could have enjoyed more of it.
by the way I am 63 now.
love you all
Jennie
I never bean felt guilt at all that I’m transgender I’m happy who I am and even more so the further I transition. I suggest be your self know matter what people think but go at it slowly over time and they will notice some things and not notice other things and they will get used to it over time just be your self know matter what. One quote I like is “How the hell can you love some one if you cant love your self” (Ru Paul)