Do you ever find yourself wondering if it’s okay to crossdress? Do you feel weighed down by society’s judgment and expectations?
Well, it’s time to shed that weight and liberate yourself! Let’s talk about why crossdressing is absolutely okay, and why you should embrace it without any guilt.
1. Self-Expression Matters
As humans, expressing ourselves is a basic core need.
Crossdressing is just one way to showcase your personality, tastes, and preferences through clothing. It’s an ideal outlet for creativity and individuality.
2. Fashion Has No Gender
Who says certain clothes are meant only for specific genders?
Clothes don’t have an inherent gender; they are pieces of fabric that can be enjoyed by anyone. So, wear what makes you feel confident and fabulous!
3. Breaking Free from Gender Norms
Crossdressing challenges outdated gender norms. It’s time to break free from rigid ideas of what’s “appropriate” to wear.
Crossdressing allows you to take a stand against society’s expectations and encourages others to do the same.
4. It’s Not Harmful
Let’s be clear – crossdressing is harmless. As long as you’re not hurting anyone, there’s no reason to feel bad about it.
Feeling guilty about expressing yourself through clothing is unnecessary and unproductive.
In conclusion
Being true to yourself is a beautiful thing, and it sets an example for others to do the same.
So, let go of the guilt, and embrace your fabulous, feminine side!
Now I’d love to hear your thoughts on this topic. Do you ever feel guilty about crossdressing? If you’ve overcome feelings of guilt, how did you do so?
Please take my poll and leave me your comments below!
Love,
Lucille
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Absolutely not. Now I did years ago. I was scared and guilty but as I accepted that I was who I was I was able to let that go. Now I love the real me and am happier when she is around. No I am not guilty about my being me and would encourage others to not try to run from it. The sad part is that if you try to surpress it it will only get worse. With increased acceptance we can finally shep the negative stigma and become real members of society.
Not guilt, no. Why should a desire to be feminine be any different from the pursuit of happiness in other ways, as long as it hurts no one else?
I do think we should play the hand we am dealt, but I’m not sure whether that means being a man or being a transgender.
I am saddened, though, that some people seem contemptuous of men who act like women. I would like to be loved by everyone! But I guess that is life.
Do I feel guilt? really? no, but I am a religious person with fear of God and that point had stop me turning into a woman and I’m not talking about the inside but in full, go outside dressed, use makeup high heels, nice lingerie, go out have fun enjoy being a woman but I can’t I spent too much time thinking if I should, time has beaten me now I am 59 years I started cross dressing since I can remember now I see little girls with high heels shoes and I remember the same thing I did when I was a little “girl”, my mom sent me when I was 6 to live with grandma there is when the fun started since my aunt used to share her dresses and put me makeup and go out until she bought me a dress specially for me we went out to the park and everybody told my aunt how pretty I was, 6 years later had to come back to mom’s house but when she saw my dresses in my suitcase and shoes she threw away and told me I was a BOY not a girl I asked her if I ever was going to have boobs like my aunt, and she said no that I was a man I asked her why she said because there are some little things called “hormones” that dictate that I should be a man, so I started looking at books (I was 12) and I started to check about “hormones” and found that DYESTIL-ESTIL-BESTROL in that time I started taking them, my nipples turned darker and started to grow, when my mother noticed that she took me to the doctor and that was another issue Now I know that even if I take hormones it will not make a difference in me now that I am old I regret not following my treatment I feel depressed, I even checked the self castration but is too risky and the worse part is that I still have a young family that I was not expecting (9 yrs old) as time pass by I would love to have a chance to turn as what I always wanted a WOMAN but the fear of God holds me and it also holds me in cutting my penis off by my own had, My wife saw me dressed, once she put some makeup but she said “I hope you not get used to” and my wife dresses like a tomboy, she is the less feminine that you can imagine, sometimes I feel for the worse, just end everything but still the fear of God and my little kid holds me I can’t do NOTHING and that is something that I can’t stand, maybe somebody is struggling with the same thing because I know that I am not alone… Sorry I fill this up but in some way you girls are the ones I can get out all the things I have thanks…
I’d love to write something of help to u, but I expect my comments are nothing new to u:
If u read all the other posts under this topic (including mine) u will see that u share a struggle with many of us that have not come out. My fear of wrecking my career and, more importantly, the great relationship with my 11 year old daughter prevents me from doing so, as well as embarrassment of not passing and people laughing at me.
I am not religious, so I don’t understand ur fear of god. Where in the bible does it say wanting to cross dress or be a girl is a sin?
Do u think u could talk about it with ur wife and reach any compromise? U don’t indicate she hit the roof when she saw u dress, and even helped with make up.
Self castration obviously dangerous, even if like me u hate the thing flapping around between ur legs. Instead, I hide it when I cross dress.
Also, ur not the oldest cd/tg person by far on this site, even if like me u wish things had happened earlier in life around ur desire to be a woman.
Hi Lucille,
I don’t feel guilty about my dressing, however I do have a guilt complex over the fact that I hid it from my wife for over forty years. When she found out she was much more upset over the lie to her than she was about my dressing, (except at first). Because of my job I cannot come out but do go out in public with other CDs.
I guess I haven’t told anyone else because I don’t have any trust in anyone’s desire to keep a secret (including my wife). I thoroughly enjoy dressing and going out and have no intention in giving it up. I don’t intend to transition but bought your hypnosis program anyway to help my female mental outlook. I just started it and love it.
Cheryl
I used to be so closeted that I knew my best friend was gay for 5 years before I actually came out to her. But that was about my own self-confidence and alienation issues. I’ve never felt guilty or ashamed about being trans. Even when I was hiding it to survive or getting reamed out by a lesbian GF ashamed of being with a “man”, I felt so afraid but not ashamed. I never thought that having the power to humiliate me gave them the right to do so.
Then again, I was so alienated over other crap in my life, that I might not have noticed. I will say that constantly having your own experience, reality and identity denied will eventually make anyone crazy.
Since I haven’t had the oppurtunity to go out in public yet, I don’t have any reason to feel guilty. My soon to be ex has problems with me doing it though.
“Alan”…”You Are So Sexy”…”I LOVE YOUR PRETTY BRA” !!!
I do feel guilty but my guilt isn’t so much with myself. It’s a result of societal prejudices. (I know,what else is new).
Guilty about hiding the woman I am. Guilty about not sharing with my children and friends because I’m afraid of losing them. And I don’t live by tired old platitudes like ‘it’s my life’ or ‘let the chips fall where the may’.
It’s not my life, and I do care where the chips fall. My life has been given to years of wonderful experiences, and is full of relationships and friendships that neither they or I want to lose. It’s not those people’s fault they don’t understand and fall to societies pressures, any more than it’s my fault for being a woman.
So yes, there is guilt or maybe frustration. I guess mostly because I can’t find a way to show that gender change / honesty should be a celebration and not condemned.
Thanks,
Julie
For the first 24 years of my life I knew something was different about me even though I couldn’t quite conceptualize exactly what I thought it was. Anna Marie had always been living inside me but I couldn’t recognize her and when I did I was to afraid to let her out. Finally I was diagnosed with a non-verbal learning disorder and in my attempt to understand this diagnosis realize that this was something that girls usually had not boys. It was this realization that lead me to understand that I was transgender. I couldn’t just live in male clothes with out any conflict because Anna Marie had been discovered was free from her cage and wasn’t about to let Yosef just lock her back in there without a fight. I began to amass a collection of panties and would wear them nightly.(even under constant threat of castration by my mother once she knew I was doing it.) Now I am 28 I have been kicked out of the house where my mother was staying and am now living with my aunt. I still wear panties and am actively looking for a place to live so that I can fully transition. I have told some of my friends and a few family members that I am a t-girl some have reacted positively and others want to kill me because of this revelation still its kind of hard knowing you were named after a great person (Yosef Randolph Walker II) and wont be allowed to have that name continue le sigh. maybe before I transition t-girls will be able to get pregnant. Well that’s most of the story of how I became Anna Marie the rest was omitted for time until later
Anna Marie