Do you ever find yourself wondering if it’s okay to crossdress? Do you feel weighed down by society’s judgment and expectations?
Well, it’s time to shed that weight and liberate yourself! Let’s talk about why crossdressing is absolutely okay, and why you should embrace it without any guilt.
1. Self-Expression Matters
As humans, expressing ourselves is a basic core need.
Crossdressing is just one way to showcase your personality, tastes, and preferences through clothing. It’s an ideal outlet for creativity and individuality.
2. Fashion Has No Gender
Who says certain clothes are meant only for specific genders?
Clothes don’t have an inherent gender; they are pieces of fabric that can be enjoyed by anyone. So, wear what makes you feel confident and fabulous!
3. Breaking Free from Gender Norms
Crossdressing challenges outdated gender norms. It’s time to break free from rigid ideas of what’s “appropriate” to wear.
Crossdressing allows you to take a stand against society’s expectations and encourages others to do the same.
4. It’s Not Harmful
Let’s be clear – crossdressing is harmless. As long as you’re not hurting anyone, there’s no reason to feel bad about it.
Feeling guilty about expressing yourself through clothing is unnecessary and unproductive.
In conclusion
Being true to yourself is a beautiful thing, and it sets an example for others to do the same.
So, let go of the guilt, and embrace your fabulous, feminine side!
Now I’d love to hear your thoughts on this topic. Do you ever feel guilty about crossdressing? If you’ve overcome feelings of guilt, how did you do so?
Please take my poll and leave me your comments below!
Love,
Lucille
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i am crossdresser and i plan to be full time lady soon
i have friend that are transgender now
it is what make that person inside happy
not the world
I felt guilty for many years, but now that I am pushing 70, I am finally allowing myself the freedom to express my sexuality. I still have to be discreet because of family, but one can do a lot in privacy, such as take pueraria mirifica and wear body shapers with nylons at night – or panties under one’s clothes during the day! My advice to younger males with feminine tendencies: don’t wait as long as I did! Every day is now a new feminine adventure for me. May it be the same for you!
I have felt guilty many times because of my crossdressing. I purged so many times that i lost count. When I was younger I actually wanted to be a girl. I am much older now and realize that being a woman is not realistic at this point in my life. I did finally find a gg who understands my dressing and supports me. I have been out dressed but only with friends or a group. I live in a small town, so going out dressed here is not an option.
I empathize with you. I have virtually the same situation. But dont give up. I find myself taking “timeslices ” from male to femme and back–sometimes in a minute. Hugs.
I just feel I’m letting all my friends and family down,they won’t understand,so I have to keep it a secret,even though I don’t want to
I don’t feel “guilty” – but I’m a well known personality in my little town and I can imagine what does the people say about my transformation. This way here I go out by car or steps in evening hours and better like to go out in other towns.
I love that dress and the pattern!
As a man who did a lot of ‘man’stuff before I realized Olivia was inside, I am very open about my transformation. Even to the point of embarrassment for my wife.
I will walk into Wal-Mart and shop for panties and bras. I will talk to people from my Church and even (for the first time) got my nails done. The woman sitting next to me even asked if I was doing a “Bruce Jenner” thing. I said…welll……
She took a picture of my nails to show her husband that yes men do get their nails done too.
I may not be ready to get a dressed up as Olivia and go out. I need to work on my face, voice and make up. But besides the face and voice, I really do look better as Olivia than my wife does dressed.
I do not feel guilty. It has been a huge relief to open up to my inner Olivia. It has been and will be a great journey for the rest of my life!
By the way….learning to type with nails was kind of challenging! 😉
Thank you for this blog, it really is a great place to be open with others that may face the same issues I am.
I voted no because I no longer feel guilty. But, I did feel guilty for many many years. I have not like that since I came out, yea!!
Jessica.
Last year,I went through the acceptance/denial stage of my crossdressing.I was,also,going through my mom’s battle with cancer and eventually her loss.I love wearing women’s clothes and like looking in the mirror and enjoying the look and feel of the Top or bra I’m wearing @ the time.I should not feel guilty for something I enjoy and causes no harm to others.I have come out to a few people recently including my sister.My father and my 8 year old niece No.I just bought another pair of ladies shoes,today.They are Montego Bay Club black and gold ankle strap platform wedges and I love looking @ them in the mirror when I have ’em on my size 10 feet lol!!