Do you ever find yourself wondering if it’s okay to crossdress? Do you feel weighed down by society’s judgment and expectations?
Well, it’s time to shed that weight and liberate yourself! Let’s talk about why crossdressing is absolutely okay, and why you should embrace it without any guilt.
1. Self-Expression Matters
As humans, expressing ourselves is a basic core need.
Crossdressing is just one way to showcase your personality, tastes, and preferences through clothing. It’s an ideal outlet for creativity and individuality.
2. Fashion Has No Gender
Who says certain clothes are meant only for specific genders?
Clothes don’t have an inherent gender; they are pieces of fabric that can be enjoyed by anyone. So, wear what makes you feel confident and fabulous!
3. Breaking Free from Gender Norms
Crossdressing challenges outdated gender norms. It’s time to break free from rigid ideas of what’s “appropriate” to wear.
Crossdressing allows you to take a stand against society’s expectations and encourages others to do the same.
4. It’s Not Harmful
Let’s be clear – crossdressing is harmless. As long as you’re not hurting anyone, there’s no reason to feel bad about it.
Feeling guilty about expressing yourself through clothing is unnecessary and unproductive.
In conclusion
Being true to yourself is a beautiful thing, and it sets an example for others to do the same.
So, let go of the guilt, and embrace your fabulous, feminine side!
Now I’d love to hear your thoughts on this topic. Do you ever feel guilty about crossdressing? If you’ve overcome feelings of guilt, how did you do so?
Please take my poll and leave me your comments below!
Love,
Lucille
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This is long way to answer your question and hoping to learn from other input.
I am a very “in the closet” Cross Dresser and certainly have conflicting feelings on the subject they are different when I am dressed and when I am not.
Some strong feelings that I notice when cross dressing include feeling attractive, also sexually attractive, sensual, pretty, beautiful, spontaneous, fun, daring, rebellious, free from crushing responsibility, energetic, uninhibited, provocative, and adventurous
During my normal Male self ..I don’t like how I often feel tired, frustrated, lonely, quiet, bored, boring, conflicted, angry, uninterested, uninteresting, unadventurous, sad, uncontented, ashamed..
So, there is some natural comparison that surfaces. First the negative feelings from my typical life vs. strong cross dressing feelings. Some of the negative feelings from my normal life were exact opposites of the feelings I have when cross dressing.
To complicate the matter my wife discovered my other self. She discovered some small accessories that didn’t belong in my suitcase bag and thinking at first I was having an affair, until I told her what I think she now would probably agree feels like the more horrific truth. She does not feel safe with me, or that she can trust me, and it is difficult for her to think of sex with me based on what she knows.
I have and live with most wonderful woman and best friend I have ever known, truly a soul mate. And while I love that, it makes it feel like an even bigger slap in the face to how I feel about myself.
For me, I find it can be hard to identify wants/needs clearly, when there are so many intermixed aspects in the cross dressing process. I have found it useful for me to separate aspects out into different categories: feelings, physical sensations, behaviors, fantasies, fears, likes/dislikes.
So yes I feel ashamed and frustrated for not fully understanding why we do what we do..I think we all agree that it feels natural to us..but society and people in general do not agree
So I am trying to change and it is hard and even harder for others to understand this compulsion..
I am starting with a couple goals initially…first goal is to identify and then understand these urges/feelings accept that they are real to me. A second goal is to understand exactly how crossdressing fulfills them.
Long way to say it but.. hope that someone understands ..
Coming to grips that your Transgender is the tuffest thing to agree upon. So I realized that and it was like a big weight off my shoulders. Now being able to express my self as a woman is what I’m conflicted with. To start Transitioning or not Transitioning, that is the big question. Last Halloween was a AnnaSofia weekend and it was Awesome. I met up with a Female Co-worker, to whom I came out to. What she told me, was a pleasant surprise. She told me that” she doesn’t see me as just Eduardo, but as two people, At work Eduardo and my en Fem side AnnaSofia. She stated that she said that as AnnaSofia I was glowing and I had a twinkle in my eye that she never sees as Eduardo and that felt so good coming from a GG. Now to make those steps to becoming AnnaSofia is the hardest. My psychotherapist Told me that she would recommend me for HRT and that was a milestone for me, in the good sense.
Sincerely,
AnnaSofia Flores
No, I have no guilt feelings, but because of the attitude still prevailing where I live, I still need to keep it under cover somewhat, the wearing of female outer garments is still very looked down apon for males, but attitudes are slowly changing, very soon hopefully.
no i dont feel guilty about my feelings though i am right at the very begining of my journey t am excited i am waiting for my first asessment at the gender clinic at the moment i have only just admitted to close friends that i am transgender i only dress in private at the moment but i am excited but also very nervious of what lies ahead
I voted yes but it is really as yes and no answer. I am older, 75, and have been transgendered for 60 years. However I was brought up in that older time period when it was “wrong” to cross dress. I am still not able to spend all the time I want as my true female “self” but I fully enjoy and appreciate the time that I do get to spend en femme. I am not at all embarrassed when I am Lisa but I feel a little bit self-conscious when I am in my male persona knowing that I am a woman dressed as a man.
No. I did at one time and it was compounded by the fact that I was in the military (before DADT). After I retired from the military I decided to live for myself, the woman I was. I amsimply at the point now if others have a problem with who I am or how I dress its their problem not mine. I am out every day asa female. I absolutely relish being a female. It is nothing to be ashamed of its who I am Why should anyone be ashamed of themselves? Any shame you may have is derived from you. Why give anyone else the power to make you feel shame? You are better than that. I mean its not like your picking your nose in public! I simply am who I am and ammaking myself the complete personI am. By feeling ashamed of yourself you are merely chosing to don the hair shirt of self humiliation!
No I do not feel guilty but I do object to receiving mails with references to “MY Girls”.
We are all our own persons and just because you provide various services does not give you or anyone the right to declare ownership.
Slavery was abolished some time ago.
My name is Amber Courtney Williams and I’m( MTF) Transgender and yes I feel guilty and shame every day I think about hanging myself all the time I can’t tell any one I’m transgender in my family or friends because my family is old fashion and my friends would not understand so yes I have to live like a ghost trapped in a man’s body and hide who I really am and it’s literary killing me.
Please see someone you can talk to it is important to survive so you can help others who are not as strong as you are. I have been there and some days (not as many as before) are too much but bearable. Good Luck and Good Life to you.