Do you ever find yourself wondering if it’s okay to crossdress? Do you feel weighed down by society’s judgment and expectations?
Well, it’s time to shed that weight and liberate yourself! Let’s talk about why crossdressing is absolutely okay, and why you should embrace it without any guilt.
1. Self-Expression Matters
As humans, expressing ourselves is a basic core need.
Crossdressing is just one way to showcase your personality, tastes, and preferences through clothing. It’s an ideal outlet for creativity and individuality.
2. Fashion Has No Gender
Who says certain clothes are meant only for specific genders?
Clothes don’t have an inherent gender; they are pieces of fabric that can be enjoyed by anyone. So, wear what makes you feel confident and fabulous!
3. Breaking Free from Gender Norms
Crossdressing challenges outdated gender norms. It’s time to break free from rigid ideas of what’s “appropriate” to wear.
Crossdressing allows you to take a stand against society’s expectations and encourages others to do the same.
4. It’s Not Harmful
Let’s be clear – crossdressing is harmless. As long as you’re not hurting anyone, there’s no reason to feel bad about it.
Feeling guilty about expressing yourself through clothing is unnecessary and unproductive.
In conclusion
Being true to yourself is a beautiful thing, and it sets an example for others to do the same.
So, let go of the guilt, and embrace your fabulous, feminine side!
Now I’d love to hear your thoughts on this topic. Do you ever feel guilty about crossdressing? If you’ve overcome feelings of guilt, how did you do so?
Please take my poll and leave me your comments below!
Love,
Lucille
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I used to be ashamed of it in my younger years and up until 20 yrs ago. I lost my family and my most recent marriage because my urge to live as a woman won over. For me its not just dressing, its the shopping thrill, too.
Yes I feel guilty and it comes from years of repressing my desires because family would never understand. I am comfortable with myself and know I am a woman in a man’s body, but know I will never transition because I can’t lose my family, they mean more to me than my own comfort and need to display my femininity.
I crossdress in private, my family hates it and I get a lecture every time they find out I’m doing it… I’ve only gone out in public once on Halloween dressed up. I wish I could do it more, but it’s a constant fight with the family (and no matter how hard I try, I lose that argument, every time).
I don’t have a problem I dress to suit my mood I’m not really that bothered what others think I’m lucky to a certain extent that I’m passable as a woman
I don’t feel guilty and not sure I ever did. However what I do feel at times is sad family doesn’t see nor understand why I transitioned . My kids rarely speak to me if at all and now it’s been 2 years since they have spoken to me. My parents are just recently speaking to me after 8 years but still don’t recognize me as she or her or better yet Amy. I am ok with that for now but just hope someday they will see me as their daughter instead of their son….but such is life and we all have a right to our own opinions….
I never feel guilty … now. It took many years of counseling but I am now very okay with both of me as I am. BUT … I look every bit the woman when I dress for a night out. There is no ‘guy in a dress’ for me. Iggy Pop, I’m afraid, does not do it for me. I would not go out looking like that. But that’s me. I spend 4 hours start to walk-out-the-door to look the way I do. Which is why I could not do this full time. There are not enough hours in the day!!
Wanda, what ever you are doing, you look beautiful and sexy! Dee
I feel no shame for being transgender. I do feel some sadness for the strain it’s put upon my spouse and our marriage.
I AM FOR THE MOST PART A PRIVATE CROSSDRESSER. I HAVE BEEN OUT DRESSED AND FELT CONFORTABLE. I DRESS WITH GIRLFRIEND SHE GETS A LAUGHT OUT OF IT. I LIKE THE FEEL AND FREEDOOM.