Do you ever find yourself wondering if it’s okay to crossdress? Do you feel weighed down by society’s judgment and expectations?
Well, it’s time to shed that weight and liberate yourself! Let’s talk about why crossdressing is absolutely okay, and why you should embrace it without any guilt.
1. Self-Expression Matters
As humans, expressing ourselves is a basic core need.
Crossdressing is just one way to showcase your personality, tastes, and preferences through clothing. It’s an ideal outlet for creativity and individuality.
2. Fashion Has No Gender
Who says certain clothes are meant only for specific genders?
Clothes don’t have an inherent gender; they are pieces of fabric that can be enjoyed by anyone. So, wear what makes you feel confident and fabulous!
3. Breaking Free from Gender Norms
Crossdressing challenges outdated gender norms. It’s time to break free from rigid ideas of what’s “appropriate” to wear.
Crossdressing allows you to take a stand against society’s expectations and encourages others to do the same.
4. It’s Not Harmful
Let’s be clear – crossdressing is harmless. As long as you’re not hurting anyone, there’s no reason to feel bad about it.
Feeling guilty about expressing yourself through clothing is unnecessary and unproductive.
In conclusion
Being true to yourself is a beautiful thing, and it sets an example for others to do the same.
So, let go of the guilt, and embrace your fabulous, feminine side!
Now I’d love to hear your thoughts on this topic. Do you ever feel guilty about crossdressing? If you’ve overcome feelings of guilt, how did you do so?
Please take my poll and leave me your comments below!
Love,
Lucille
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It is easy to feel guilty with anything that you are involved in that is not popular among others. Being transgendered is a huge issue that fits into that category. I worry about hurting or embrassing friends and family. I also worry about hurting me when I am not my true self. If you hold it in, it will come out one way or another sooner or later. I struggle with where the line is and seem to be turning more to not caring a little more each day
I like your post, Leighanne, because it approaches a distinction about negative feelings we may have about our gender identity that don’t quite fit the “guilt” category.
To me, guilt is attached to a condition or behavior of someone which is inherently, morally wrong – due either to the direct harm it causes to others or a violation of a standard of behavior we see as imposed upon us by our perception of Deity. I don’t see expressing our transgendered identity as fitting that label at all, and it sounds to me like that’s not a concern of yours either.
From a pragmatic standpoint, though, it’s understandable that we might feel anxious or fearful about our gender expression; I think your post touches on that. We may worry about the impact on our loved ones, on the stability of our relationships, on our ability to be financially viable, and our safety; those are all real concerns in the world in which we now find ourselves.
I really like your point though about the cost of hiding. If we take that path, we do usually find that staying on it gets more and more difficult with the passage of time.
Thanks for your candid sharing!
Hi Lucille honey goodness girlfriend well I said yes to your question and that’s true still although I don’t feel very guilty but I do still feel some guilt for growing my breasts and my transitioning it’s more concerning my breasts but it is less and less daily oh and for fooling or causing reaction in the maint. man or him feeling like asking you out I’m not really trying to turn guys on at all I’m not interested in them I Love being myself but it’s just for me myself I’m sorry if they find me sexy or hot I’m one girl who’s pants their not getting into I can’t say after years as myself that could change but for now I guess I’m a lesbian in a mans well not quite so much a mans body currently I know I’m late but I’m going to go try and find an Easter dress if there are any left Love You girlfriend Love MJ ❤
I am very new to this life but I am embracing it because I know who I am and now and till the end I will be Nichole Cathlene . I went 43 years hiding inside my mind do to worrying about what others thought and not taken care of what I knew was in me . As a child the abuse was to harsh and never had friends to share with so little Nikki just got buried alive with a couple of years of counselling Nichole came forward to take a stand for me or herself . Never again will I be ashamed for being happy with myself. I’m proud to be transgender male to female and one I will not only fit in I will stay proud and loud for the transgender community I know there will be bumps in the road but there bumps in the road while faking to be happy as a man. So chin up girls and be proud .
I’m not feeling guilty,
I’m not feel ashamed, i’ve never done.
But not feeling Allright at the moment, if a depression feels like this, than i’m in the Middle of it right now.
Only want to cry for weeks now.
I Can not disturb my wife a lot, feeling alone even though i’m married.
Angelique, that sounds just about where I am at the moment, and has been for a couple of months now. For a year or so I had been daring more and sharing with two friends but then I hit the brick wall, feeling not ashamed but uncomfortable with being that guy with the makeup or the french nails or the not boyish pants or whatever. It was hard to hold back and find a good balance and I decided it would be easier to stop it all. It should be possible to just choose it away, right? Now I feel ashamed that I cannot just suppress the desire, I feel sad every day for what I do not do, and depressed because life seems to have lost the fun part. It is not a good place to be. I have no idea where to go from here but I think I need some professional help. Take care, xoxo
Lyta, just wanted to let you know, i went for the dokter to get help.. I cant go further this way,
Now i made this step i feel Some better already, just knowing people are gonna help in Some kind off way
Dear Lyta,
Stop everything would make my feelings even worse, i think my pain is everything i’m not.
42 jears i finally show myself a bit more ( a bit is a lot ) i even removing my beard, what makes me happier already, but life isn’t easy, people have their opinions, i have my thoughts, i’m getting older And older, just thinking if i need help to take more steps, but that would hurt my wife a lot, i love her very much., its difficult to explain, but here i think almost everyone knows what mean
I used to feel like I was doing something wrong when I crossdressed but recently I came out to my family, ( and some of my friends), started seeing a shrink, and now I feel a whole lot better about myself. Now, I’m always dressed enfemme, except when I’m working and I love every minute of it. I still can’t “pass” but I don’t care.
Hi:
although your picture is small, I think your far more passable than I am.
I was blessed with a feminine body, my face is the problem and I’m working on it.
I was filled with and shame for over 50 years,when I came to a point in my life where I had to put a end to the hiding and stop being ashamed of who I am.
Now after a year on HRT and 60 something hours of electrolysis and hours of counselling, I have come out to family and friends as Trans. The interesting thing is that before starting HRT my blood pressure was stupidly high and the doctor was not going to let me leave the hospital as it was in the 200’s, and today it is in the 120’s and no medication,just peace of mind and no guilt or shame.
The journey has been tough but mentally and physically well worth the it and I look forward to every day and every new challenge ahead.
I am just saying to all you girls if I can do it anybody can do it.
I am in a relationship with my wife (N) and children – I say a relationship because it is there but I don’t feel if is completely stable. I myself am not a butch woman trapped in a mans body I am feminine. I pamper my skin, my hair, my nails, everything but (N) says I have to down dress, ie; jeans and t-shirt, and they are to be plain. So really and truthful I am still in the closet – her closet.
I am not aloud out as me in daylight and as light times change all over the world and evenings extend the groups and meetings that I have enjoyed over the winter are going to have to go on pause so I am not aloud to be happy but strangely she says she supports me.
As I said I am married but it is merely a relationship that is becoming fragile and distant. I stay mostly through my need for my children and theirs for me.
I love dressing up, it’s a part of me and I love it. I’m expressing it more recently. I have lots of girly photos which look great.