Do you ever find yourself wondering if it’s okay to crossdress? Do you feel weighed down by society’s judgment and expectations?
Well, it’s time to shed that weight and liberate yourself! Let’s talk about why crossdressing is absolutely okay, and why you should embrace it without any guilt.
1. Self-Expression Matters
As humans, expressing ourselves is a basic core need.
Crossdressing is just one way to showcase your personality, tastes, and preferences through clothing. It’s an ideal outlet for creativity and individuality.
2. Fashion Has No Gender
Who says certain clothes are meant only for specific genders?
Clothes don’t have an inherent gender; they are pieces of fabric that can be enjoyed by anyone. So, wear what makes you feel confident and fabulous!
3. Breaking Free from Gender Norms
Crossdressing challenges outdated gender norms. It’s time to break free from rigid ideas of what’s “appropriate” to wear.
Crossdressing allows you to take a stand against society’s expectations and encourages others to do the same.
4. It’s Not Harmful
Let’s be clear – crossdressing is harmless. As long as you’re not hurting anyone, there’s no reason to feel bad about it.
Feeling guilty about expressing yourself through clothing is unnecessary and unproductive.
In conclusion
Being true to yourself is a beautiful thing, and it sets an example for others to do the same.
So, let go of the guilt, and embrace your fabulous, feminine side!
Now I’d love to hear your thoughts on this topic. Do you ever feel guilty about crossdressing? If you’ve overcome feelings of guilt, how did you do so?
Please take my poll and leave me your comments below!
Love,
Lucille
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As a T-girl myself, I have to say that yes, sometimes I have a tinge of guilt about being trans. But, I know that this is part of my being, always has been, and as such, is something I just cannot get away from (not that I want to, lol). I could still stop any time I wanted, but I know I’d hate myself for the rest of my life. I’m just glad that I was able to officially come out a couple of years ago, and I can finally be my real self.
I used to feel guilty but not anymore. This is due to having a very loving and supportive wife.
She has helped me in so many ways to discover my feminine side. Helen would not be possible without her. I feel if you have the support from loved ones, whatever guilt you had disappears.
At least it has for me.
hi Lucille,
i should qualify my vote. i voted that i did NOT feel guilty about my desire to crossdress as a woman. and i definitely do not feel guilty in my own mind. i’ve come to understand my feelings (if not where they originally came from) and realize that in reality they are not even that unusual – just repressed by many. anyway, although i don’t feel guilty about my desire (my need might be a better word), i don’t choose to expose it to strangers or the general public either. perhaps where i live is a factor in this (midwest usa) but i understand that many people are not comfortable with seeing men dressed in feminine clothing – to say nothing of browsing in a lingerie department! that’s ok, i really do understand their feelings. i’m not out to change people’s attitude, i just enjoy what i am in places and times where it works. perhaps not ideal for someone looking to change the world, but it is sufficient and makes for a much less stressful life!
thanks Lucille – love you
jamie
I really like how to expressed your thoughts. It is very much my view also
Not guilty, your honor :-). For me it has a lot to do with knowing that re-incarnation is real. I’ve been TG before and it’s a good place to be. Many of the world’s cultures accept us and that gives me solace. I live in a backwards part of a backwards state that just passed special legislation abrogating LGBT rights. So I am torn about expressing who I am.
So far I have to agree with you girls are saying. For me it is total fear that makes it so hard for me to be more open, or public. That comes from various reasons from being assulted with a baseball bat to the narrow minded area I live in. If some looks close enough they will notice I’m not dressed quie right for a male. Still I am the girl I feel from the bottom of my heart I really am. Lucill you and all of your girls help all wk long from what you bless me with every Friday. Have alot more to read yet. lol RaeRae
Crossdressing is half the reason my wife divorced me. While married, I tried to stop, threw out everything I bought. But still had the urge. Being single the past 10 years has allowed me to crossdress more than when I was married.
Like some others, I wear a bra, panties, stockings or pantyhose under my office work clothes every day. Some people may notice the lines of the bra straps under my shirt, but so far nobody has said anything. When I get home from work or on the weekends, I’ll dress more feminine. I have much more female clothes than male, been spending $4,000 a year on female clothes.
I do hide my crossdressing from friends, although I have run into a few in stores. My family is somewhat aware of it.
I was close to re-marrying once, we’d go shopping together, buy matching female clothes, but eventually got too much for her. Since then, I haven’t been able to find another lady that could accept me as a man in female clothes. I’m not trying to pass as a woman, just like the feel of women’s clothes, esp nylon, and the big variety of colors, patterns. Men’s clothes are mostly boring.
So due to the difficulty of finding another woman that would embrace it, it’s hard to find one even somewhat tolerant. When I meet a new lady and she comes to my house, I have to put it all out of site. That’s getting harder to do because have so much. Three closets full of female clothes.
If I could find one nice accepting lady to settle down with again, I’d have no guilt. If I give up on finding such a lady, would feel no guilt.
Jim…This is Paula…Even Though I was never married…I know where you are coming from…I too, love to wear my Lingerie !!!
I recently came out to my wife of 21 years. Well, now that marriage is over. She says I am very weird and am sexually messed up. She is very derogatory when she says it too. So now I am staying at a hotel while we figure out how to get the divorce going. I feel alone, guilty and ashamed for destroying my marriage but at the same time I feel envigurated and free. For the first time in over 21 years, I do what I want when I want. We have a special needs son of 14 and he is taking it hard. I am trying my best to stay connected to him and do fun things with him so he knows Dad might not live at home but Dad is still Dad and that won’t change. We will see how things go as time goes on. I am having fun with my cross dressing and will grow into it more as time goes on.
I used to feel guilty and tried to hide it, I even went as far a bodybuilding and grew a beard. After I stopped caring about other peoples views and how they saw me I blossomed. It’s taken time but I slimmed down and am finally open and happy xx