Do you ever find yourself wondering if it’s okay to crossdress? Do you feel weighed down by society’s judgment and expectations?
Well, it’s time to shed that weight and liberate yourself! Let’s talk about why crossdressing is absolutely okay, and why you should embrace it without any guilt.
1. Self-Expression Matters
As humans, expressing ourselves is a basic core need.
Crossdressing is just one way to showcase your personality, tastes, and preferences through clothing. It’s an ideal outlet for creativity and individuality.
2. Fashion Has No Gender
Who says certain clothes are meant only for specific genders?
Clothes don’t have an inherent gender; they are pieces of fabric that can be enjoyed by anyone. So, wear what makes you feel confident and fabulous!
3. Breaking Free from Gender Norms
Crossdressing challenges outdated gender norms. It’s time to break free from rigid ideas of what’s “appropriate” to wear.
Crossdressing allows you to take a stand against society’s expectations and encourages others to do the same.
4. It’s Not Harmful
Let’s be clear – crossdressing is harmless. As long as you’re not hurting anyone, there’s no reason to feel bad about it.
Feeling guilty about expressing yourself through clothing is unnecessary and unproductive.
In conclusion
Being true to yourself is a beautiful thing, and it sets an example for others to do the same.
So, let go of the guilt, and embrace your fabulous, feminine side!
Now I’d love to hear your thoughts on this topic. Do you ever feel guilty about crossdressing? If you’ve overcome feelings of guilt, how did you do so?
Please take my poll and leave me your comments below!
Love,
Lucille
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I do not feel guilt, I am as I should have been from birth. Most of my drs are comfortable with me. The one Dr I had who was not is no longer my Dr.
Well, what can I say all. Yes, I have to hide the woman within though I love her and she’s a really sweet gal and loved by many others. I am married and I have a wife who is very bigoted when it comes to LGBT issues. I could understand her anxiety but it’s against most others as well. I have to hide myself to keep the peace while inside I’m being torn to shreds. I have tried to turn to her and let her know and all she can do is say to not be me around her. Long story to go with this, but I don’t want to write a book again. We have a gay son who knows about me and she still doesn’t handle it too well. Sometimes it’s more than I can bear to not be my fem self, but I do what I can. It’s very little, but at least it’s something. The attached photo is at one of my lady friend’s house. She loves it as did my Mother who passed a fairly short time ago. Hah! More stories there too for another time lol. Well, I feel I have to keep my fem side hidden and I hate it and when I do dress my part, I love it for a short while then feel like I’m doing something wrong anymore.
I feel absolutely NO guilt about being transgender………..it is who I am and I adore being a woman!!
Why would I feel guilty for being who I am. I did not choose to be who I am nor is what I do harmful to anyone. If I had a choice and it did harm, then a guilty feeling might be appropriate but it is neither.
good on you allison we must live our lives to suit our selfs
i too have deen dressing for many years and wont give it up
i love my feminine side it feel so natual
love cathy xxx
hi cathy
you go girlfriend we all should be proud of our feminine sides
as we all have genetic codes of both male and female chromosomes
that makes us up who we are that many of us should have being girls from the start and it’s importance to us to explore our
feminine sides so we can be the girls that we wanted to be
by wearing women’s clothes shoes and makeup more we improve
more girls we all become and unite as sisters in the making.
all my love.xxxx
Francine Joanna smales.
smales tv uk-host
I certainly don’t feel guilty about it, but I”m still careful who I tell. We must always remember that a lot of people can’t accept things slightly left or right of the norm and they have the right to be here also.
Thus I select who I tell and who I expose my alter ego to. There are enough understanding people around to keep me happy, but it is difficult to lead two lives, which I still do.
It took me 60 yrs. to figure out there’s no shame in being myself(gender fluid) and expressing my femme side in my CDing and demeanor. Now going out is such a joy and I feel so much happier and free. We have to stop telling our children what is “normal” for them and listen to what they tell us and love them unconditionally. I’m just so glad I can be my femme self guilt free.
Allisa….You truly are a beautiful woman and it shows through in your face. I’ve always said that the happiest time of our life should be in retirement and now that we can live out the rest of our lives as the woman we have always been, freely and honestly, and so we rejoice for the happiest time of our life. I’m 66 myself.
Dana
Thank-you Dana for your kind comments.
Dearest Allisa, you are so right about dictating what is normal. We do need to listen more and give guidance though and for sure love them unconditionally. It’s taken me quite a long time to come to terms with my inner self as well. I must say, you look great in the attached photo. Well done. I am so much happier in my fem role, but it’s still a problem for me and I shan’t go thru the details again. Wanted to comment on what you said. Hugs, Crystal
Thank-you Crystal
So I voted yes, but if there was a option for sometime I would have voted that way! Cause I am not a shamed to be what I’m but I’m embarrassed sometimes. it depends on the time a place and really! some people suck!