Do you ever find yourself wondering if it’s okay to crossdress? Do you feel weighed down by society’s judgment and expectations?
Well, it’s time to shed that weight and liberate yourself! Let’s talk about why crossdressing is absolutely okay, and why you should embrace it without any guilt.
1. Self-Expression Matters
As humans, expressing ourselves is a basic core need.
Crossdressing is just one way to showcase your personality, tastes, and preferences through clothing. It’s an ideal outlet for creativity and individuality.
2. Fashion Has No Gender
Who says certain clothes are meant only for specific genders?
Clothes don’t have an inherent gender; they are pieces of fabric that can be enjoyed by anyone. So, wear what makes you feel confident and fabulous!
3. Breaking Free from Gender Norms
Crossdressing challenges outdated gender norms. It’s time to break free from rigid ideas of what’s “appropriate” to wear.
Crossdressing allows you to take a stand against society’s expectations and encourages others to do the same.
4. It’s Not Harmful
Let’s be clear – crossdressing is harmless. As long as you’re not hurting anyone, there’s no reason to feel bad about it.
Feeling guilty about expressing yourself through clothing is unnecessary and unproductive.
In conclusion
Being true to yourself is a beautiful thing, and it sets an example for others to do the same.
So, let go of the guilt, and embrace your fabulous, feminine side!
Now I’d love to hear your thoughts on this topic. Do you ever feel guilty about crossdressing? If you’ve overcome feelings of guilt, how did you do so?
Please take my poll and leave me your comments below!
Love,
Lucille
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Hello,
I have never felt guilt or shame about cross dressing, feeling fem or being fem, and my strong desire to be as close to be a female/woman as I can be.
The 100% transformation would be ideal and very desirable, but at this moment not feasible. So, becoming or being a shemale would be the next stage, then 24/7 cross dresser, and the last stage is what I have to live with,…part-time.
One day I will be able to move away to be by myself and start hormone and live 24/7 as a female. may be that I can find someone in a similar situation and become a couple. That would be fantastic.
Love
Michelle Jeannette
Hi all!
As a CD, I felt guilty while I was in the closet (many years), but since I came out of the closet, I have had no guilt OR regrets. Most of my friends, family, and coworkers accept it – I have always been a bit ‘different’ anyway.
I stayed in the closet so long because my wife would have never condoned it, and I loved her enough to not stick it in her face. Since she died, I have been able to let Michelle out of the ‘jail’ she was in. She IS a person in her own rights! I explain it that I have a ‘split personality’, we just know of each other. Many people have said that I (the guy) seem happier than I ever was before. When SHE’S happy, I’M happy!
She has had no problem being totally accepted as the woman she is by those that don’t know the guy, and most of those that DO know have no problem with her since she is so at ease being herself. The only time I was nervous was going to a bar I had never been to in order to meet friends there. After I got the nerve up to go in and find my friends, everything was cool.
Stay true to yourselves, girls. Love to all.
A side note to Lucille – It would be great to have an avenue to finding like-minded people in my area. Maybe you could discuss how to do that one day.
Love your posts and questions for thought and comment.
“When SHE’S happy, I’M happy!”
Such a profound statement but so damn true…
I struggle with religious guilt. I sometimes feel I am sinning.
Sadly yes, I do feel guilty about it. I’m in my 30s now (still single) and as I notice the guys I grew up with are now married with kids, I feel it’s wrong to neglect what is to be a man’s duties. This social expectation of a man in his 30s as a family man.
Having said that, I think that a man in his 20s has more freedom to experiment with crossdressing. So if you’re still in your 20s, be brave and enjoy it I guess.
I am comfortable in my skin. Though I was born male, I have no problem being who I feel that I am as a female. I have tremendous respect for men and women alike but identify as a woman. Thanks for the question Lucille. I believe that we live in (Western) culture that allows us to be who we really are. Yours, Andrea
I Have only recently started crossdressing , even though I have felt this way since I was twelve . I feel like it is entirely way to late for me to make lifestyle changes I’m 48 now two kids married so I hide it all and stay married and keep the job i have because it supports everyone here . My wife is my best friend so I can’t tell her even though I’ve tried because i know how much it would hurt her . So here I am just kind of stuck crossderessing in private the very few times I’m alone at home . I’ve even rented a motel room so I could dress up and wear makeup without ruining everything.
At first I was and even tried to end it all. I had known for most of my life and had many times did the purge procedure swearing to never go back. But after many years more than I care to count the real person inside of me took control. From then on there was no turning back, after therapy hormones, and finally surgery my life is finally right. I love who I am, I also saved my marriage and my family because of it. Although there are members of my birth family who no longer want anything to do with me I am happy no more guilt, depression, or suicidal thoughts. My life now has peace and at 66 I’m one very Happy and blessed women. No matter where you fit in the transgender picture it is nothing to be ashamed about. Those who don’t understand or criticize are afraid to look at themselves. Who knows they may have much more to hide.
when I was young growing up in a children’s home there was an mishap
with the laundry by mixing my school uniform with a girls one so she
ended up in mine and I ended up going to school in hers we liked it
happening that way and it continues so many years later I rekindled
my love and taste for women’s clothing I did step out in some but
the public didn’t notice due many others also cross dress and has
similar tastes to mine and half of my clothes are women’s mixed
with guy clothing to mix my going out wardrobe when I am out .
frankie smales