Do you ever find yourself wondering if it’s okay to crossdress? Do you feel weighed down by society’s judgment and expectations?
Well, it’s time to shed that weight and liberate yourself! Let’s talk about why crossdressing is absolutely okay, and why you should embrace it without any guilt.
1. Self-Expression Matters
As humans, expressing ourselves is a basic core need.
Crossdressing is just one way to showcase your personality, tastes, and preferences through clothing. It’s an ideal outlet for creativity and individuality.
2. Fashion Has No Gender
Who says certain clothes are meant only for specific genders?
Clothes don’t have an inherent gender; they are pieces of fabric that can be enjoyed by anyone. So, wear what makes you feel confident and fabulous!
3. Breaking Free from Gender Norms
Crossdressing challenges outdated gender norms. It’s time to break free from rigid ideas of what’s “appropriate” to wear.
Crossdressing allows you to take a stand against society’s expectations and encourages others to do the same.
4. It’s Not Harmful
Let’s be clear – crossdressing is harmless. As long as you’re not hurting anyone, there’s no reason to feel bad about it.
Feeling guilty about expressing yourself through clothing is unnecessary and unproductive.
In conclusion
Being true to yourself is a beautiful thing, and it sets an example for others to do the same.
So, let go of the guilt, and embrace your fabulous, feminine side!
Now I’d love to hear your thoughts on this topic. Do you ever feel guilty about crossdressing? If you’ve overcome feelings of guilt, how did you do so?
Please take my poll and leave me your comments below!
Love,
Lucille
I don’t feel guilty. Being CD is no crime. I am what I am, it’s my body.
Yes, guilt has been a constant companion for me since I was very young. It was never strong enough to prevent me from dressing, but I am always guilty. Guilt is less now, since I have come out to my SO, and dress almost daily with her approval and without her condemnation. I still wish deep down that this would not be my desire…but after all these years I have come to accept that this is who I am. Still guilty yes, still fearfull of ‘full discovery’, yes…but I am who I am in spite of the guilt and fear.
Hi Lucille,I used to feel guilty about being a crossdresser but all that changed after I turned 24years old.After that I understood that there is nothing wrong with me,there is something wrong with other people and society…………
I guess i feel guilty for what I have lost with my true love. I hate that she has lost her desire for me. Having a hard time dealing with that one.
A little more than a year ago I came totally out to my wife. Before that she knew I enjoyed wearing lingerie. At first she was a little conflicted about it. I asked her what were her questions, fears concerning my feelings that I was a woman inside a male body. Once she knew she could talk to me about it she was able accept it. We enjoy shopping together and she has taught me how to apply makeup. Through taking natural female hormones I now have breast growing, size B so far and hope to grow to a full C cup. We love picking out outfits together. Opening up to her has help me to fully accept who I am as well.
I do not feel ashamed of being a crossdresser but my wife seems to be ashamed or embarrassed by the thought of me crossdressing. She does not want to face it and has asked that I be discrete in my presentation as a crossdresser. I also choose to avoid being too obvious at work since I work in a lumber yard and building centre with co-workers who are still not quite with the times.
I really enjoy my few forays into my feminine nature and really look forward to more opportunities to be me.
I feel no guilt for being a trans woman or dressing as a woman. It’s who I am. Naturally, I have concerns about passing or saving for surgeries, but not guilt.
I stay away from bright red on the face and hands think they draw unwanted attention. Instead I opt for subtle pinks, and more natural colors. As for clothes again red isn’t popular among my wardrobe choices have one zip up sweater in red that is it….Most of clothes are neautral tones or spring colors. Lots of denim.