Do you ever find yourself wondering if it’s okay to crossdress? Do you feel weighed down by society’s judgment and expectations?
Well, it’s time to shed that weight and liberate yourself! Let’s talk about why crossdressing is absolutely okay, and why you should embrace it without any guilt.
1. Self-Expression Matters
As humans, expressing ourselves is a basic core need.
Crossdressing is just one way to showcase your personality, tastes, and preferences through clothing. It’s an ideal outlet for creativity and individuality.
2. Fashion Has No Gender
Who says certain clothes are meant only for specific genders?
Clothes don’t have an inherent gender; they are pieces of fabric that can be enjoyed by anyone. So, wear what makes you feel confident and fabulous!
3. Breaking Free from Gender Norms
Crossdressing challenges outdated gender norms. It’s time to break free from rigid ideas of what’s “appropriate” to wear.
Crossdressing allows you to take a stand against society’s expectations and encourages others to do the same.
4. It’s Not Harmful
Let’s be clear – crossdressing is harmless. As long as you’re not hurting anyone, there’s no reason to feel bad about it.
Feeling guilty about expressing yourself through clothing is unnecessary and unproductive.
In conclusion
Being true to yourself is a beautiful thing, and it sets an example for others to do the same.
So, let go of the guilt, and embrace your fabulous, feminine side!
Now I’d love to hear your thoughts on this topic. Do you ever feel guilty about crossdressing? If you’ve overcome feelings of guilt, how did you do so?
Please take my poll and leave me your comments below!
Love,
Lucille
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Hello girls
I began to dress as a gurl secretly from time to time years ago and I do like it.
Unfortunatley I have few time to do it and I wish I could find a reliable person able to help me and support me, who accpets this side of me.
I would like to see you first, to support you and to accept this side of you..
I guess the guilt I feel most is when I’m always asking myself these two questions: “Am I offending God? or “Am I not living my life to its fullest potential? It’s a real touchy subject with me. Every girlfriend I was ever in a relationship with always either accepted it or enjoyed it as well.Probably because I was upfront and honest with them from the start. I have to admit we live in a very judgmental and hypocritical society. As a result I have never gone out in public dressed completely. It’s sad. I can go out in all male dress except for maybe a brown scrunchy in my ponytail and still get a lot of weird stares, bad comments or snickers. It confuses me.
Feeling Guilty about crossdressing: For sure–I’ve felt that. Especially when I was younger, when the world was MUCH less open-minded. For me, guilt seemed to stem from catholocism..which shouldn’t be a suprise, since catholocism has guilt attached to EVERYTHING! 🙂 Just kidding.. I think guilt and fear are two sides of the same coin. Fear of the unknown (Why do I do this? “Will something bad happen if I go out?), fear of rejection, fear of humiliation, ridicule, etc.
Fear and ignorance are key players in guilt. I do not pass, but When I do go out…nobody really seems to care! You get the odd look….children are especially curious. I’ve found that going out in public dressed has actually helped my confidence which helps with feelings of guilt. Knowing why I dress and learning that it’s OK to go out dressed have been big de-stessors. With less stress comes less guilt. People who have issues with a man in a dress—have issues. As long as the person IN the dress doesn’t have issues about it—99% of the population won’t reflect issues about it either. Life is to short to feel guilty about the clothing you like to wear. Don’t be Trippin’–Have Fun, Be Free!
I don’t know old u r Patti, but does anyone think the world really is much more open-minded now?
I have my doubts – I still hear the cross-dressing-at-the-weekend ‘jokes’ come up, mostly from guys but even my ex-wife made this ‘joke’ yesterday when I commented about the pleats in my daughter’s school skirt! But I am too afraid to actually challenge these ‘jokes’ because I fear so much the consequences – most of all losing the love of my 11 year old daughter, but also fear of wrecking my career.
I feel we were all ashamed of our feminine tendencies when we were young simply because it is not accepted by our culture and we were always told to be manly.
I put on my first pair of panties when I was 5 and have been “girly” ever since. I always tried to deny it when I was young, but once I reached my 20’s I knew I was destined to be Ginger and quit fighting it. A good decision in hindsight. I was married to a bi woman who accepted me as Ginger and in fact preferred me as such. I told her all about myself long before we married and there were some great years together. We are now divorced for other reasons and I have been slowly transitioning to full time since then.
I spend most of my time now as Ginger and go shopping out on dates and honestly don’t care what people think. I am in my early 60’s now but have two children that are still young and would not understand so I live with that and have a great relationship with them. If I was younger I would do things differently and I believe we are being accepted better now and know for a fact that a lot men are attracted to us because they feel we are more feminine than their modern women partners.
Being feminine is in our DNA ladies, I accepted that a long time ago and don’t feel the least bit guilty about who I am.
The people in our lives will, at some point, have a problem with this subject, yet we may only go on this roundabout the one time…so I think you have to find a way that makes sense to you. Trying to convince your wife / girlfriend et cetera doesn’t work because often she is the one who expects to be the woman in the relationship.
That is her right to feel that way. But transgendered women like ourselves have our rights too…they just tend to be hard earned because society says…even after all this time that men are men and women are women. If things are changing….look at new born babies…it is always pink for girls and blue for boys…..societal engineering once out of the womb.
That – is a nonsense.
Don’t feel guilty about this subject. You are what you are, and as The Smiths song puts it best ‘Accept Yourself.’
you are who you are be proud
i live full-time as a woman and i am proud of it.
Dear Lucille thats a topic i have been fighting longtime before by sexchange and even after.
society is so mean to us men and woman
it seems when you feel good in youre body and fell sexy and axpress it you get punished for it . its true better life youre life in grace and open than those losers who have no life .
but its a daily fight and that must stop for us transgender people
at the end we are all human and one race. love Aaliyah
You are beautiful! Those thick lips are to die for!
I don’t feel guilty about being transsexual though for most of my life I did. I feel guilty that to be me really me I must leave my spouse and children. I feel guilty about the pain they have to experience because of me.