Do you ever find yourself wondering if it’s okay to crossdress? Do you feel weighed down by society’s judgment and expectations?
Well, it’s time to shed that weight and liberate yourself! Let’s talk about why crossdressing is absolutely okay, and why you should embrace it without any guilt.
1. Self-Expression Matters
As humans, expressing ourselves is a basic core need.
Crossdressing is just one way to showcase your personality, tastes, and preferences through clothing. It’s an ideal outlet for creativity and individuality.
2. Fashion Has No Gender
Who says certain clothes are meant only for specific genders?
Clothes don’t have an inherent gender; they are pieces of fabric that can be enjoyed by anyone. So, wear what makes you feel confident and fabulous!
3. Breaking Free from Gender Norms
Crossdressing challenges outdated gender norms. It’s time to break free from rigid ideas of what’s “appropriate” to wear.
Crossdressing allows you to take a stand against society’s expectations and encourages others to do the same.
4. It’s Not Harmful
Let’s be clear – crossdressing is harmless. As long as you’re not hurting anyone, there’s no reason to feel bad about it.
Feeling guilty about expressing yourself through clothing is unnecessary and unproductive.
In conclusion
Being true to yourself is a beautiful thing, and it sets an example for others to do the same.
So, let go of the guilt, and embrace your fabulous, feminine side!
Now I’d love to hear your thoughts on this topic. Do you ever feel guilty about crossdressing? If you’ve overcome feelings of guilt, how did you do so?
Please take my poll and leave me your comments below!
Love,
Lucille
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Since puberty (well maybe 11 years old)was guilty after I crossed dressed.Never did it until I was married the first time I couldn’t fix into her nylons.My second marriage was for 14 years when my wife died,I crossdress in some of her clothes.I know it sounds bad but since my awakening which happened from my mediating and opening what is called the kundalini.My late wife and I thought it might be temporary.It wasn’t in fact it went back to some epsiodes which were really not clear at a very early time.I hated my body couldn’t explain.I was very fem.So here I am 65,and male mode has destroyed my looks,kinda late for transistion!
Hi Theresa,
I feel the same as you thinking it is too late for transition.. Why didn’t I do this sooner? Why has it taken me so long to figure out
who I am? Can I really go on without cross dressing and the feeling that I get when I am dressed? I will never get rid of my panties though! I wear them 24/7 and don’t give a damn if I am in an accident or not!
Hugs n Kisses,
Marcy
I’ll be honest.. I am in a relationship with a woman and I love her to death. I like both men and women so nothing is a lie when it comes to my feelings for her and if I’m attracted to her or not. But I am constantly lying to her about who I am as a whole. I’m struggling to be the male she wants me to be because it doesn’t come naturally. I try very hard, for her and for us.. but everytime something goes wrong I feel extremely guilty cause I know exactly why things go wrong every now and then and why I am frustrated most of the time.
So yes, I feel extremely guilty for who I am and who I want to be. Ashamed even, wish I was ‘normal’ sometimes. When I transform and giggle like a little girl when I see myself and then get struck by shame and guilt seconds later. But I guess we’ve all been there.
I feel guilty but not because of shame. My guilty is what my therapist calls “survivors” guilt. Basically I have found and continue to find my life contentment (becoming the woman I was meant to be) while there are many people out there that will never be happy. I feel I don’t deserve to be happy in my life or that others are more deserving so I sacrifice my own happiness.
Dear Amaya,
You deserve to be happy my Dear! Everyone does including YOU!
Please do not feel guilty for being happy!! I sure as hell wouldn’t if I were you! Just thank God for every day you are alive, stay positive and live your life with as much happiness as possible! Smile every day and show the world who you are!
Hugs n Kissses,
Marcy
So many people feel guilty about clothes? I’m married and I do not hide my love of all clothing. Me and my wife shop for women’s clothes together. She will sometimes buy me something cute, sexy, or practical. Occasionally we will go out and we have a great time. Here is the funny thing. The only places I am accepted in a dress or skirt is restraunts, cafes, and lounges that cater to the Gay and Lesbian community. Who should feel guilty? Me because I rebel against gender definition? Or, all those “normal” people who judge me based on my appearance? I do not feel guilty, I am proud that I am courageous enough to be myself. I am my own person and no one defines me but me. Challenge yourself to accept you for who you are, don’t give in to societal pressure derived from ignorance.
I like to be a woman and dress like women and hope i was born a girl from the beginning, i dress up sometimes specially at night as a girl and go to clubs, but i feel that people still don’t understand that both men and women, men think they are the best gender and i am lowering myself and also women think that men are better than them and they think that they are lower value and i became lower value like them, i don’t know why the culture like that.
The guilt I feel about cding is the mistakes I’ve made while doing it. My situation I believe developed as a fetish.I never had a desire to even think about crossdressing until I was 28. I think it was a combination of 1. Lack of intimacy in my marriage… 2. Stress? 3. Occasional porn use/masturbates. Im only attracted to females and anything feminine (lingerie) which is what I chose to wear. Now I have guilt bc I got away from the person I truly am, and I feel like I have been less of the man that my wife needs. Slowly realizing it is not who I am and might have been a time of low self esteem for me personally
I fight the temptation about dressing and I do like being with my daddy when I dress. I am able to stay away from it for about 3 to 4 weeks, then I am drawn back to it. It seems natural to behave like a girl when I am dressed. It has been like this since puberty. I wish I understood it better.
Lucille,
I always have felt like a girl as early as 6 years old, but back then nobody had ever heard of the term transgender. So yes growing up I used to feel guilty but not anymore, people like you have really helped me realize there is nothing wrong with me being transgender woman. Nowadays I have learned to embrace and accept my feminine side, love having female breasts, and developing some curves in my hips. Not sure if I will someday have SRS but will not rule it out at this point in time.
My wish would be to meet an attractive, intelligent female with a great personality who could accept me as is but so far that has not happened, maybe someday if society becomes more accepting of transgender people.
Well for now I just have to continue to grow into the woman I know that I was always meant to be and try to make the most out of life.
Love Ya,
Kristin