Do you ever find yourself wondering if it’s okay to crossdress? Do you feel weighed down by society’s judgment and expectations?
Well, it’s time to shed that weight and liberate yourself! Let’s talk about why crossdressing is absolutely okay, and why you should embrace it without any guilt.
1. Self-Expression Matters
As humans, expressing ourselves is a basic core need.
Crossdressing is just one way to showcase your personality, tastes, and preferences through clothing. It’s an ideal outlet for creativity and individuality.
2. Fashion Has No Gender
Who says certain clothes are meant only for specific genders?
Clothes don’t have an inherent gender; they are pieces of fabric that can be enjoyed by anyone. So, wear what makes you feel confident and fabulous!
3. Breaking Free from Gender Norms
Crossdressing challenges outdated gender norms. It’s time to break free from rigid ideas of what’s “appropriate” to wear.
Crossdressing allows you to take a stand against society’s expectations and encourages others to do the same.
4. It’s Not Harmful
Let’s be clear – crossdressing is harmless. As long as you’re not hurting anyone, there’s no reason to feel bad about it.
Feeling guilty about expressing yourself through clothing is unnecessary and unproductive.
In conclusion
Being true to yourself is a beautiful thing, and it sets an example for others to do the same.
So, let go of the guilt, and embrace your fabulous, feminine side!
Now I’d love to hear your thoughts on this topic. Do you ever feel guilty about crossdressing? If you’ve overcome feelings of guilt, how did you do so?
Please take my poll and leave me your comments below!
Love,
Lucille
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I have been crossdressing since my single digit years. Wearing my step-mom’s undies and such at first, and slowly progressing to my own bras, panties, stockings, pantyhose, dresses, etc. in my later twenties to the present. I often felt a tremendous sexual urge and very heightened sexual stimulation when I was able to wear my feminine finery in the beginning. But, being the man’s man I was often labeled, I almost always felt a tremendous amount of shame and guilt. Sometimes it was pure sexual bliss, in the masturbatory sense, most often though, when I was done, I felt guilt and or shame.
It wasn’t until I was in my late thirties or early forties when my secret was accidentally exposed to an ex girlfriend that I really had to deal with it. With my truth telling to her, and subsequent conversations and explanations during that time, that I actually started to accept me, for me. And the big reality of almost total acceptance of who, and what I was, came when I went in for my first, hopefully not last, bra fitting. It was at that point that this manly man, had to admit to total strangers, and himself, that he really liked to wear women’s lingerie and clothing.
The most startling thing happened at that point. I was completely accepted by the ladies in the boutique. NO accusations, no name calling, no finger pointing. A bit of curiosity from a couple ladies, along with a few compliments and kind remarks was all I received. Well that, and a proper fitting bra and some great bra and lingerie buying advice.
I still feel a bit of guilt here and there. Mostly because I spent way too much on that new bra or dress I really wanted instead of buying paint for the garage door. BUT, we’ve all got have a few frills now and then.
( I apologize for the lengthy commentary.)
47 years and still counting and loving dressing up
Hi,
I have been dressing for approx. 15 years. My
wife saw some panties, she was pleasantly surprised
.
Today it has become my life. Taking a veryearly retireement,
We have a lot of time for ourselves, she likes it when I dress
around the house. I am probably in dresses,skirts,bras
and panties 80% of the time with full make up and wigs.
Now that Summer is here Heather gave me a pair of Daisy Dukes.
Boy are they short tight.
Desiree
Your so lucky
If I knew then what I know now,it would be Joanna in body and mind, not just in mind. I feel no guilt now, I am who I am, but my “secret” weighs on the one that bears it. She is very supportive, helps with clothes shopping, and calls me Joanna when I am dressed. I get told what household chores to do, and have become a good cook. I still feel pangs of guilt for putting my wonderful wife thru learning about and allowing Joanna into our lives.
I recently told my wife. She don’t like it but she supports me. She buys me clothes, let’s me dress up and clean the house. At first I just wanted to crossdress. But now I actually want to be a woman, not full time tho
Want a woman figure with great boobs but I just don’t feel right putting my wife thru it and going to church on Sundays I feel really guilty but being a woman and dressing up is all I think about. Now I feel like I should stop.
I use to feel shame and guilt but, after many years of therapy I have learned to accept myself and I no longer beat myself up nor do I purge. I wear androgynous clothing, underdress daily and wear heels. I just wear longer jeans or slacks to hide the heals. I go out, shop in male mode or in dressed mode. My clothing hangs in the closet beside my wife’s, she says I have too many shoes. The only person who has a problem with the dressing is my wife. Since I had laser hair removal back in July 2015 on the face, chest, back, belly, and hands, she has not wanted any intimacy but we are still together and working on saving the marriage but I need to be true to myself which she is working on trying to understand and accept. It is a work in progress
My only guilt feelings is that i did not pursue being the gurl i am inside many years ago.and living as Mechele 24-7. Too late now!
Oh sister never never too late don’t give up
Oh sister it’s never too late. never give up . if you quit they win.♡x♡x♡
I don’t feel guilty anymore like i did when I was younger. Those feelings have been replaced by frustration, loneliness, and sometimes anger. I just want to be who I am, but I can’t. I wish that I could be as brave and courageous as so many others have been, but I am afraid that I will never know such freedom to express myself and find true happiness.
Yes I feel guilty. So guilty. It hurts so much. Sometimes I feel like I will just die, but being able to wear feminine things and express myself how J want makes me feel so much better. I can even think better I am more creative and more enthusiastic. I can really love my life and feel alive. But I have to be all hidden and it hurts.
most def yes as I a few weeks ago once again purged my entire wardrobe and sitting here now wishing to be completely Cassie and go out tonight but cannot.
Hi Cassie,
I did the same thing 2 weeks ago.. Bras, stockings, makeup, stockings, lingerie, heels, boots, skirts, tops, dresses and my
36B boobs.. I feel the same as you and have done it three times
in the past.. I felt completely comfortable as Marcy going out
feared that someone would recognize me and I would have to lie and say it wasn’t me.. I am 63 and still trying to come to terms with who I am inside.. Unfortunately, I have no advice to offer Honey!
xoxo
Marcy