Do you ever find yourself wondering if it’s okay to crossdress? Do you feel weighed down by society’s judgment and expectations?
Well, it’s time to shed that weight and liberate yourself! Let’s talk about why crossdressing is absolutely okay, and why you should embrace it without any guilt.
1. Self-Expression Matters
As humans, expressing ourselves is a basic core need.
Crossdressing is just one way to showcase your personality, tastes, and preferences through clothing. It’s an ideal outlet for creativity and individuality.
2. Fashion Has No Gender
Who says certain clothes are meant only for specific genders?
Clothes don’t have an inherent gender; they are pieces of fabric that can be enjoyed by anyone. So, wear what makes you feel confident and fabulous!
3. Breaking Free from Gender Norms
Crossdressing challenges outdated gender norms. It’s time to break free from rigid ideas of what’s “appropriate” to wear.
Crossdressing allows you to take a stand against society’s expectations and encourages others to do the same.
4. It’s Not Harmful
Let’s be clear – crossdressing is harmless. As long as you’re not hurting anyone, there’s no reason to feel bad about it.
Feeling guilty about expressing yourself through clothing is unnecessary and unproductive.
In conclusion
Being true to yourself is a beautiful thing, and it sets an example for others to do the same.
So, let go of the guilt, and embrace your fabulous, feminine side!
Now I’d love to hear your thoughts on this topic. Do you ever feel guilty about crossdressing? If you’ve overcome feelings of guilt, how did you do so?
Please take my poll and leave me your comments below!
Love,
Lucille
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I no longer feel guilty about who I am. I did for most of my life because I did not understand myself. Over the past few years I have started to realize that being a woman is fantastic! This is me. It is not the clothes. It is me on the inside. The clothes only identify me to society as a woman. Regardless of what I wear I am female inside and out when I can. My friends and brother support me. What more can a girl ask for? I am proud to be transgendered.
“Jocelyn”…”Good For You”…”I Have Big Breasts”…”My sister-In-Law Gave Me My First Bra”…”My Brothers Are O.K. With Me Wearing My bras” !!!
Perhaps the hardest thing that confronts trans people and, I believe non trans people as well, is coming to a complete and utter understanding of “self”. If one is able to say, “.. this is who I am, I was created this way and, I make no apologizes for it”, then there is no need to feel any more shame than if they are born with a particular hair, eye, or skin color.
While, like so many people , it takes time to work through a personal life reality, it is possible to emerge as a confident and proud woman. It is my reality and it can be virtually anyones.
I used to, but then I realized that God loved me, so I stopped caring what anyone else thinks.
You are so right Jesika! God does love you and always will!
You got it!You can’t physically live someone else’s life so why think that someone else could physically live yours.We can’t.Now if someone tells you or shows you their that they have got an issue about how they think you are living your life in a manner that they think is objectionable to them then you can then decide to tell them anything you want to that may seem out of place about them that is offensive to you.Or not.If confronted by ano
ther person phsyically and verbally that
person is then in violation of your civil rights and if taken further and you feel threatened or fearful of phsyical assault you have every right under the laws of the U.S. and there are many such laws that address matters of the protection of oneselfs right as an Amercan citizen including the aggressor or aggressors demise. all the while you’re right to pursue life liberty and happiness are kept intact
as a Christian I do feel guilty about cross dressing, as I don’t know if I should be doing so & also it hasn’t been helped that I’m basically keeping it a secret from my family
JUST as I do not let some ONE decide FOR me,
decide how I decide to wear MY hair,but me,I
DECIDE not to let some THING else FOR me,
decide the color of my lipstick I wear,but ME
I am sure Jesus will let you DECIDE for you,OR
DO you lie to him,he keeps SECRETS from YOU
TO keep secrets from him,he THEN lies to YOU
KNOW secrets then no lies. DECIDE.
YOU have to read between THE lines.
TOO get the real gods TRUTH try,you may SEE.
Read my post.. I have buried and fought more for this country than most, but still am at the same place you are. God knows your soul, you change that… if you need me Im here… Nikki
I don’t feel guilty about crossdressing. It who I am the only time I don’t go out is when my daughter is with me handicaped dosen’t understand and work which with the economy don’t want to loose my job. It has nothing to do with guilt. I even had my ex-wife try to bring up the guilt in theorpy intill I snapped and a who different tone was set for theorpy and was not the only one at fault it takes two to tango we are all human we all have fault it not any one person fault. It the lies and the dishonest that the other person has for not agreeing before you get married that this is something I don’t want to see in the marriage. It like someone smokes and it like telling them I don’t want you smoking know that we are married, this is who you are, this is what makes you and the fact that someone is trying to tell you, you can’t be you make me wonder why they even wanted to be married in the first place. other than then to manipulate you and drag you down. wrong in every since of the word. I hope that came out right (in a hurry)
any who I go dressing on my day off and it the best day of the week for me I’m the most happiest and all way working on being a better women in my heart and mind and hopefull one day when my daughter understand I will look very much a women on the outside as I feel on the inside and I’m not all guilty. Most people don’t know I’m a guy either aren’t paying attention or don’t bother them. I go to the bank they know who I am when i’m dressed up as trisha they call me by that name if they get a chance they will visit with me and just have a little girl to girl talk it awsome to just be one of the girl and express my self and not be brought down. Hope this help to all you girls don’t feel guilty is this who you are and proud to be a women love your self even if other don’t.
The guilt, shame, unease… I have finally made an appointment to speak with a psychiatrist to discuss options. I am so apprehensive about my appointment tomorrow morning I doubt I will sleep a wink tonight.
It feels like I have had a toothache that I have been acutely aware of for at least forty years and am finally sitting in the dentist chair. I don’t know if we are going to pull it or fill it, but either way the pain is going to stop.
Hi, I rarely if at all now feel GUILTY about being a TG. Maybe somewhat scared about being a TG or CD what with all the vilification and redneck attitudes to people who are different. However I look at things that ordinary women feel insecure about as well. How many young people are scared about our boobs when they are first experiencing them. How many are worried about the size of them or what dress to wear or what size heels to impress the others in our area of assimilation in the world about us. Be it male or female we just need confidence in who we are and this is just a gradual realization of where we fit in and then to be able to express our confidence by being the best we can. It is all part of growing up and adapting to the world around us. Guilt just stops us dead in our tracks and does not allow us to fulfil our right to be in this world. Thanks for your help and the opportunity we all have to live our lives to the full.
I used to feel guilty because I come from very conservative bible believing church going up-bringing. (no explanation needed) my aged parents using scripture as a weapon to bring guilt on me.
until i read a book by a Transgender minister.(David weekly) in which i discovered the reason why this bias exists in the first place and why it’s incorrect! SNAP! (guilt gone!)
just “telling me” that there is nothinig wrong with being transgender was not enough. because it was a huge religious Faux Pas and conflicted with my up bringing. I had to learn the truth from the source that was being used to condem me. what I learned was I was being taught something untrue due to a mis- interpretation.
hi Daphne
could you please also fill me in on “what I learned was I was being taught something untrue due to a mis- interpretation.” What mis-interpretation – how do you know it’s false — and how you let the religious guilt go??
thank you.
marcy
Dear Daphne,
I am very interested in what you said. Please elaborate on “what I learned was I was being taught something untrue due to a mis- interpretation.” What mis-interpretation – how do you know it’s false — and how you let the religious guilt go??
Thank you for your insights and revelations.