Do you ever find yourself wondering if it’s okay to crossdress? Do you feel weighed down by society’s judgment and expectations?
Well, it’s time to shed that weight and liberate yourself! Let’s talk about why crossdressing is absolutely okay, and why you should embrace it without any guilt.
1. Self-Expression Matters
As humans, expressing ourselves is a basic core need.
Crossdressing is just one way to showcase your personality, tastes, and preferences through clothing. It’s an ideal outlet for creativity and individuality.
2. Fashion Has No Gender
Who says certain clothes are meant only for specific genders?
Clothes don’t have an inherent gender; they are pieces of fabric that can be enjoyed by anyone. So, wear what makes you feel confident and fabulous!
3. Breaking Free from Gender Norms
Crossdressing challenges outdated gender norms. It’s time to break free from rigid ideas of what’s “appropriate” to wear.
Crossdressing allows you to take a stand against society’s expectations and encourages others to do the same.
4. It’s Not Harmful
Let’s be clear – crossdressing is harmless. As long as you’re not hurting anyone, there’s no reason to feel bad about it.
Feeling guilty about expressing yourself through clothing is unnecessary and unproductive.
In conclusion
Being true to yourself is a beautiful thing, and it sets an example for others to do the same.
So, let go of the guilt, and embrace your fabulous, feminine side!
Now I’d love to hear your thoughts on this topic. Do you ever feel guilty about crossdressing? If you’ve overcome feelings of guilt, how did you do so?
Please take my poll and leave me your comments below!
Love,
Lucille
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I wrote a poem a short while ago and feel this may be a great place to share it:
For I have changed
Not in who I have been
But in who I am meant to be
I am me and I am alive
I am both the light and the dark
I am not defined by boundaries
But I am boundless
My femininity is me
As is my masculinity
Clothing does not make the man
Nor does it make the woman
Being and feeling make the human
Not for society to dictate
Whether you are female or male
But whether you are alive and free
Be who you were meant to be
Enjoy who you are and life
As you only get one chance
To be who you truly are
As I struggle with my identity at the moment, this is what I would like to be able to do.
Continued/ once again I stopped for while then in my late 20’s I started going to place that had sexy clothes for women an would buy panties n other stuff like stockings pantyhose socks if cashier would ask me I’d say there for my sister or someone else but after going there few times she knew they were for me didn’t say a word but anyway that’s how got started buying my own feminine clothes an still doing it
Hello there,
I am a little bit old right now, I am 41 and is hard for me to change completelly because all my life was a a man… but I feel good… thanks for your coments. They give me ideas!
I to use sneak around an put on my mother’s clothes when no one was home or paying attention but never was ashamed of doing it my oldest sister once dressed me in some of clothes then teased me bout it then after few yrs passed I begin to start doing it again going to my cousin’s house to spend the weekend there I would find his wife’s pantyhose or her panties put em on and sleep with them on till next morning take em back off before getting up or one them would come see if I was awake to eat breakfast once I had on pantyhose while camping out try stay warm over at friends house in backyard one of them noticed I was wearing em then begin to pick at me for wearing women’s pantyhose they ask me if was keeping me warm and I said kinda than one said maybe I should try that their mother brought out some chilli for us to eat but none said anything to her bout me I was glad to) my story continues but lingers on
I’ve felt guilty since at about ten. I went into my sisters bedroom! Put one of her tops on, skirt, and socks.. I walk out to greet my parents when they walked in the door. I was humiliated by the way I was treated and laughed at. To this day when I try to go in public I start shaking, and I can’t breathe, I literally can’t show my face as Kristy. I have a full line of cloths, I look rather good. Except for being a little over weight I have feminine look. Just wish I could have a life. Been on HRT for years and it’s harder to be Mark than it is to be Kristy.
Shy, and scared
Kristy
No I do not feel guilty. I do not hurt others or myself. But the facts are that others can very much can hurt me. Some people are able to live in larger communities and find help, friends, and support. I live in a rather rural area where everybody knows your business and the most precious thing a person has in a good reputation. So many people have such a deep ingrained hate for gays that even the slightest hint of being feminine can be dangerous.
So no I do not feel guilty but unacceptance and fear keep my feminine side hidden much of the time.
I don’t feel guilty about crossdressing but I am afraid to crossdress in public. I am afraid of letting my family know. I do it daily and some times wish I was a female.
I don’t feel guilty anymore. I accept my body as a male but I really wish I was a female. Sometimes this hits me and I become sad. I want my body to be healthy so I won’t deny it. I love my cells. They are working for my life every second. My spirit has been given this body or maybe it was chosen by God/universe/spirit guide. What I know is that I am longing to wear female clothes but it is not enough. If I could go back to my birth and choose my gender I would go for female. Life is awesome, so I will try to make the most of it. For now I will let this confusion around myself evolve naturally. I also wish that parents would watch their language, take responsibility for their actions, love themselves and after they feel successful, happy and determined to have a child, then go for it.
Want to bring it in to marriage but wife just “sticks her head in the sand” so I do have to do it behind her back. yes that make me feel guilty.