Do you ever find yourself wondering if it’s okay to crossdress? Do you feel weighed down by society’s judgment and expectations?
Well, it’s time to shed that weight and liberate yourself! Let’s talk about why crossdressing is absolutely okay, and why you should embrace it without any guilt.
1. Self-Expression Matters
As humans, expressing ourselves is a basic core need.
Crossdressing is just one way to showcase your personality, tastes, and preferences through clothing. It’s an ideal outlet for creativity and individuality.
2. Fashion Has No Gender
Who says certain clothes are meant only for specific genders?
Clothes don’t have an inherent gender; they are pieces of fabric that can be enjoyed by anyone. So, wear what makes you feel confident and fabulous!
3. Breaking Free from Gender Norms
Crossdressing challenges outdated gender norms. It’s time to break free from rigid ideas of what’s “appropriate” to wear.
Crossdressing allows you to take a stand against society’s expectations and encourages others to do the same.
4. It’s Not Harmful
Let’s be clear – crossdressing is harmless. As long as you’re not hurting anyone, there’s no reason to feel bad about it.
Feeling guilty about expressing yourself through clothing is unnecessary and unproductive.
In conclusion
Being true to yourself is a beautiful thing, and it sets an example for others to do the same.
So, let go of the guilt, and embrace your fabulous, feminine side!
Now I’d love to hear your thoughts on this topic. Do you ever feel guilty about crossdressing? If you’ve overcome feelings of guilt, how did you do so?
Please take my poll and leave me your comments below!
Love,
Lucille
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aside from religious reasons and the sin of crossdressing, I can just imagine the disappointment in my parents eyes. The few people that loved to gossip or who disliked them would love to hear of it. For sadistic reasons. I would definitely lose family and friends. I thought of death many times. What else to do with my shame? I can only be Julie once a wekk at best
I was born transgender, I have heard of a study that says that’s caused by a hormonal imbalance in the mother during pregnancy. My mother had me at a very young age. Why be ashamed of something that wasn’t your falt? We will change the concept s of the small minded but have to work together.
Agreed, I feel very correct in my presentation and have learned that’s all that matters, my friends will be who they are.
Why should anyone be ashamed of being themselves.
First. Research tells me that there is a difference between Crossdressing or being a Sissy. Yet many web sites indicate they are the same. Because of my Dominent rank in the Fetish community, I cannot cross dress in public, only in my private bedroom can I play girl. I am NOT a sissy in any way shape or form. However I do like to dress up in girly items once in a while and to justify that, doing it is a Girly Hollween constume. Now I do have friends and submissive Transgenders who are changing their bodies to female with hormones, but that is different. Someone needs to say it loud and clear. A crossdresser is NOT a sissy. My spouse says I can be a girl, but that too spooks me a little. I just want to cross dress once in a while. Again, I am NOT a sisy. Help me to understand why this bothers me.
Remember, that wanting to crossdress is the need to expression feminine attributes. Women’s lib allows women to wear a dress or pants at their choice. We need “men’s lib” because we aren’t treated the same — we have to wear pants … no options to wear dresses without the social stigma. People need to grow up and let others be …
I overcome guilt by remembering that so many others are like me!!!
Im only now, at age sixty eight years
Starting to feel free and comfortable about my dressing in my own home .
Ashamed of my thoughts in the past of wanting to wear these beautiful things that women get to wear
And getting angry at god for not making me a women.
My thoughts were always
God id love to wear that dress or skirt or heels
Its my fear of shame I guess
I want so bad to be able to walk around in public in a dress as comfortable I am in jeans
I have a girlfriend that supports and wants me to dress whenever I feel the urge ( which is all the time
No I enjoy being a woman more than I do a man but I do not go outside as woman live in a village their a bit narrow minded but yes fells right being femail and i do enjoy it
Feeling ashamed of crossdressing and finding out that I am transgender is a well known feeling to me. Although I can´t live as a woman full time yet unfortunately I am much more self confident today, even let my true female self shine through sometimes in the male role I am forced to play far too much too often.
Why should I be ashamed of being how I really am?
Nevertheless I know I am far ahead of the times, especially as they seem to have a kind of backward tendency lately ;(. I dream of a society where everyone can just be how and what he/she feels like without beeing judged and discriminated.
I used to be but not anymore. I am a little sad that i didn’t start at an an earlier age like in my 20s . I am have always felt confused by my gender and knew that i was different, but I suppressed that side and didn’t allow myself to express that side of or enjoy it. I am like a different person, much happier , and sometimes I cant believe the things i am doing and watching, such as makeup and fashion, which i love . But it feels so natural and fun to me, its like i am reliving my youth and 20s, but as a girl . So yes I love myself and who i am becoming . The Shame and Guilt are gone 🙂