Do you ever find yourself wondering if it’s okay to crossdress? Do you feel weighed down by society’s judgment and expectations?
Well, it’s time to shed that weight and liberate yourself! Let’s talk about why crossdressing is absolutely okay, and why you should embrace it without any guilt.
1. Self-Expression Matters
As humans, expressing ourselves is a basic core need.
Crossdressing is just one way to showcase your personality, tastes, and preferences through clothing. It’s an ideal outlet for creativity and individuality.
2. Fashion Has No Gender
Who says certain clothes are meant only for specific genders?
Clothes don’t have an inherent gender; they are pieces of fabric that can be enjoyed by anyone. So, wear what makes you feel confident and fabulous!
3. Breaking Free from Gender Norms
Crossdressing challenges outdated gender norms. It’s time to break free from rigid ideas of what’s “appropriate” to wear.
Crossdressing allows you to take a stand against society’s expectations and encourages others to do the same.
4. It’s Not Harmful
Let’s be clear – crossdressing is harmless. As long as you’re not hurting anyone, there’s no reason to feel bad about it.
Feeling guilty about expressing yourself through clothing is unnecessary and unproductive.
In conclusion
Being true to yourself is a beautiful thing, and it sets an example for others to do the same.
So, let go of the guilt, and embrace your fabulous, feminine side!
Now I’d love to hear your thoughts on this topic. Do you ever feel guilty about crossdressing? If you’ve overcome feelings of guilt, how did you do so?
Please take my poll and leave me your comments below!
Love,
Lucille
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I don’t know if guilt is the right word, but I am heterosexual, I adore women, want to be one. I am married and my wife knows nothing about my “other” self and that’s what makes me feel bad, I am afraid to tell her. I have a lesbian cousin who I love to be with, I feel so comfortable around her, I even think she suspects something but never says anything, we just enjoy each other.
i am not guilty because i have been doing it for quite a long time and my wife thinks i look foolish but she has no choice to accept me as i am and she always has. it is our society that doesn t accept us and that is the biggest problem we all have. In the philippines most people accept people who cross dress and their attitude is very wonderful although i do not dress as a woman when we go there because of the heat and i can t wear most i love to wear such as pantyhose. I am 65 now and have been dressing for over 30 years now.
I have been a cross dresser since I was a small boy. I am now 60. I have lost all my relationships with people over the years. I have no friends, my family wont accept me. I have gone through 3 marriages. I am always labeled a freak, or sick, or gay which I am not. I have been so emotionally brutalized by people I care about, that I don’t trust anyone. I am a giving, good person, who is very lonely, and depressed. No one understands me, or my needs. I wish I could be like other “normal” people. It’s hard when I realize I have no one here to love, or love me back. I am always alone, staring out of them window at the world. If I get sick, or hurt, nobody cares. I just want to cry sometimes. I wish I had a friend who would accept me as I am. Crossdressing doesn’t define me. I have a lot to give. I have talents, and am a caring person. I’m tired of all the hatred, and finger pointing. I’m just tired of it all.w
“Jay”…I’m 67 years young…If you are looking for another Crossdresser…I’m your “Girl”…I would love to be your “Boyfriend”. Love, Paula
I’ve just read Jays column and noticed he’s sad and tired of being pointed at or laughed at.
Unfortunately he has lost many people and marriages. I haven’t lost my marriage. At least not yet. My wife seems to understand and doesn’t think of divorcing me because I’m an transvestite. I don’t go out in public dressed like one. I’m more of a closet crossdresser. I know my friends and family members would never understand why I do this.
But don’t give up and tell people that your lonely. Yes, you lost my people and marriages. Think about keeping your crossdressing under wraps. I know that’s not what you want to do, because you would be lying to yourself. I’ve been doing it since I started when I was around eight or nine years old.
My mother was furious when she caught me wearing her things. That’s when I realized that society would never accept me dressed like a woman. I’d lose my friends and my three jobs. Perhaps you should look towards support groups for heterosexual crossdressers. There scattered throughout the United States. Google search “support groups for crossdressers”, that’s where you’ll find help. I found a group where I live.
If you do that, then you wouldn’t be lonely. They might not find you somebody that you can love, but you’ll be accepted to the group of other crossdressers. There you can be yourself. That’s where I go to allow my other side out. Dress like I want to and not worry about not being accepted or pointed at or laughed at too.
I’m not 60 years old, but I was lonely until I told my wife and joined the group I belong to. Life’s been much better since then. Think about it. It might be something to consider. Good luck Jay.
I love the way I feel when I am dressed, but I hate having to hide this side of myself from everyone. Lots of pain inside of me, wish I could share this side of myself with someone. I don’t really share this side of myself with my wife, she only knows I wear panties full time and that I wish I could wear skirts. I can’t chance losing her so this is how it srays.
Hi Lucille, and all of our wonderful sisters.
Yes I do feel guilty. His wife knows of me, but has never met me. She does not accept me, nor condone me in his life. She says she married a man, not a fag flouncing around in a dress.
I will never say someone “understands” hell he doesn’t understand my need to be here and alive. He accepts me, and gives me time to be here when he can. I can appreciate the turmoil I put him through. We shouldn’t have to live like that.
There were clothes our Daughter had when she passed away, that his wife recently offered to him, a minor breakthrough? Maybe, maybe not. Time will tell, but at 60 y.o. I would like to know.
Much love ❤
Tina D. H.
I dress full time and have a boyfriend who I live with as his wife
I am a gay male was ?????????????
tara cd
“tara”…I think that is “FANTASTIC”…I would love to be a “Loving Man’s Wife” someday !!!
I love the feel of being a woman and I always have I love the way I look in a bra and panties and pantyhose and of courscourse a skirt or dress omg my beautiful high heels I wish I could wear them all the time
im 14 and i want to become a cross dresser
Growing up, especially growing up without the internet, I felt enormous guilt, and embarrassment, and humiliation, and so very, very alone. It wasn’t until I was in my late twenties that I felt comfortable enough with my, then, girlfriend to talk about crossdressing. To my astonishment she was amazingly cool about it. Her exact words were: it makes you human.
Since then, I’ve felt much more able to talk to those close to me. Although I still don’t go to work, or out very often, en femme, at home I am feminine all the time, and happier for it. I’m currently working on my body, and face (non surgical).
Am guilt free, embarrassment free and at peace with myself, because I talked to people about it.