Do you feel guilty about crossdressing or being transgender? Sadly, many of “my girls” tell me that they do.
If you feel you have to lie or sneak around to keep your feminine side hidden, I can understand the conflict.
But let’s get one thing straight – there’s nothing wrong with crossdressing or being transgender. Period.
We live in a world with very defined gender roles. Unfortunately, these roles are even more rigid for males.
It’s OK for women to express their masculinity by dressing like tomboys or by acting strong and assertive. But if a guy looks or acts feminine, he’s labeled as weird, weak, or gay.
The underlying message is that it’s OK to be masculine (even if you’re a woman), but femininity is something to be ashamed of.
What the heck!?
Society is slowing changing, but the time to reject these outdated messages is NOW.
I think Iggy Pop said it best:
“I’m not ashamed to dress like a woman because I don’t think it’s shameful to be a woman.”
There’s no shame in changing your gender to match who you are on the inside either!
I’d love to hear YOUR thoughts on this topic…
Do you struggle with guilt or is it a non-issue for you? If you’ve overcome feelings of guilt, how did you do so?
Please take my poll and leave me your comments below!
If you are blessed to be a CD then realise your gift.
Throw away the guilt. It can destroy you and those around you.
Denial, won’t work either. The urge to put on panties and other feminine items will remain with you, forever! Trust me, I know.
That’s it…… and let your partner know your other side, too.
When you acknowledge the truth about yourself, take note from Iggy.
Wear your clothes, wear them with pride and avoid the hiding.
No I don’t feel guilty. Instead I love it.
Yeah. I think we are who we are. Obviously, we like wearing panties, stockings, and heels? So what?
I’m sorry to bother you gurls I live in Australia Perth to be exact I want to thank all of you as I’ve been guilty and hiding for 44 years and after reading some of the coments and posts I decided that enough is enough and with some of the posts I managed to talk to my partner and explain my feelings she is very understanding and encouraging but also wants to keep this between us which I can understand and appreciate so to anyone who reads this be honest with yourself and your partner don’t waste your life hiding and feeling guilty enjoy your pleasure
Thanks to everyone for your help and allowing me to submit my story xxxx
I am male who is just slowly to start cross dressing I have brought multiple pairs of lace panties I have a lace pjs coming plus a gaff from wish my female version of me I like to called Sophia grace an in the early stages of cross dressing I do feel guilty a little but my confidence is slowly growing and finding this site helps hugs n sassy snaps girls
My wife is very accepting and encouraging of my crossdressing, but even with her support I often feel crippling guilt after I come down from the high of putting the clothes on. Part of me doesn’t expect her to be accepting of me forever, and part of me is afraid of what the rest of the world would think if they got a look inside my mind.
Nunca me he sentido culpable de ser trans, al contrario, de lo que me he sentido culpable es de no haber hecho algo al respecto y ocultar quien soy, ahora a esta edad entiendo quien soy y ya les estoy diciendo a todos que soy esa mujer que escondi ,y que ya no voy a ocultar nunca mas.
I feel guilty but in a trans-temporal way. You see, I kind of remember that I was very happy as a dandy and as an aristocrat in the nineteenth century but now I find that this somehow does work for me in this present incarnation and I find myself slowly becoming more feminine all of the time. I still feel that I should be a man yet want to be the greatest woman I can be and I am slowly getting rid of this inappropriate and nasty part of my personality. Not only am I a trans woman but a trans-temporal one! I also find that this incarnation is humiliating but at the same time I am always learning something and I am pampered now!