Do you ever find yourself wondering if it’s okay to crossdress? Do you feel weighed down by society’s judgment and expectations?
Well, it’s time to shed that weight and liberate yourself! Let’s talk about why crossdressing is absolutely okay, and why you should embrace it without any guilt.
1. Self-Expression Matters
As humans, expressing ourselves is a basic core need.
Crossdressing is just one way to showcase your personality, tastes, and preferences through clothing. It’s an ideal outlet for creativity and individuality.
2. Fashion Has No Gender
Who says certain clothes are meant only for specific genders?
Clothes don’t have an inherent gender; they are pieces of fabric that can be enjoyed by anyone. So, wear what makes you feel confident and fabulous!
3. Breaking Free from Gender Norms
Crossdressing challenges outdated gender norms. It’s time to break free from rigid ideas of what’s “appropriate” to wear.
Crossdressing allows you to take a stand against society’s expectations and encourages others to do the same.
4. It’s Not Harmful
Let’s be clear – crossdressing is harmless. As long as you’re not hurting anyone, there’s no reason to feel bad about it.
Feeling guilty about expressing yourself through clothing is unnecessary and unproductive.
In conclusion
Being true to yourself is a beautiful thing, and it sets an example for others to do the same.
So, let go of the guilt, and embrace your fabulous, feminine side!
Now I’d love to hear your thoughts on this topic. Do you ever feel guilty about crossdressing? If you’ve overcome feelings of guilt, how did you do so?
Please take my poll and leave me your comments below!
Love,
Lucille
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The punk band from New York called New York Dolls stage attire consisted of wearing platform knee boots,stockings and even high heels and they had a big following and alot of fans and they where never mocked or put down and this was in the 70’s.I think it is terrible when judge for who you are and what you feel.
I’ve just told my wife I like to cross dress and have done for years , it’s a real struggle as I feel so guilty but it is a part of me that’s been there for so long .
I was caught outside dressed in a leather skirt and high heels. I was embarrassed as I couldn’t run when I was caught.
It’s such a struggle when you have had desires for a number of years , my wife has said she would come in the cd journey with me , but I feel really emotional about it and guilty , but the desire has always been there , really struggling at the minute
Hey Ladies,
I answered yes in the poll, but not ashamed of dressing, pursing or behaving femme but because I am ashamed that I m not true to myself most days. I love being the gender fluid person I am.
Hi,
I came to appreciate and even love my “secret” side. Yes I feel ashamed because I’m terrified of perhaps being misunderstood or even rejected by my family. I was sad until I saw my femenina world as a fantasy land where I can relax and enjoy. I don’t have the strength to jeopardize my family and career because I am older and I have too much to lose… So instead of being sad I look forward to any single chance alone to dress and behave femenine… Of course some people may not agree but as long as I can balance my life it is okay. I wish it wasn’t this way but we can do the best with what we have. I always tell my kids that your freedom ends where someone else’s starts… nothing is perfect but I can make it work this way.
Love to all of you ♡
Berenise
Hi Berenise…finding balance in our lives is the best place to be. Your writing expresses peace and contentment. It also sounds that you love and value your family admirably. I like that!
Hi Morgan,
Thank you for your words, you are so kind. Yes, my family and career are very important to me so it’s extremely hard to come out. I have learned to accept it and enjoy what I can. I have a lovely family and great friends but I feel so lonely in this very important side of my life. I wish it was different because I really enjoy my feminine side. Thanks again.
Love,
Berenise ♡
I’ve have preferred girls clothes since I was 6. I have always wanted to be female. Even after all these years, I still feel shame about it. But there is no stopping, I always come back to it. Eventually I will transition at some point. I wish I had the option when I was young.
I have been dressing since I was 9. I’m 69 now. Never have i felt guilty. I enjoy what little I can. When the opportunity came, I dressed and went clubblng. I can’t anymore since my wife quit drinking and getting drunk, so I wear panties 24/7, bra to work under my shirt and sweater and pantyhose or trouser socks.
Kay
I think guilt or deep seated transphobia is a huge hurdle for many transgenders. I admire those who have at some point overcome it. Then there are those who want to appear strong and deny it but inside themselves they feel it’s effect. Misinformation and stigma were ingrained in us from birth. Ridicule and rejection are the one-two punch that sends us staggering backwards into the closet, unsure if we want to come out for another round. All I know is, you can’t overcome this adversary hiding in the closet. What has helped me is to carefully examine who I am. Not my appearance, not what I think people think, not even what I think is right or wrong, but me. There’s nothing wrong with me, for I do my best to be honest and conduct myself with integrity. I do my best to treat everyone with respect and I always strive to do the best work that I can according to my ability. There is no guilt in that, I am not ashamed. Does it matter if someone doesn’t like the way I look? Have I really let my family and friends down? I’ve tried to avoid situations where I have to explain myself because I just don’t want to explain it. But I remind myself of who I am. In that, I have no guilt. I didn’t hear no bell, one more round.
Hi Morgan, I love your comment, you are so assertive and confident. You even post your pic and you are so pretty. Thanks again for your words.
Love, Berenise ♡