If you’re like many of my transgender or crossdressing readers, you might not be able to present yourself as a woman each day.
That doesn’t mean you have to lose your female side when it’s time to put on the pants!
In this post, I share 5 ways to stay in touch with your femininity – even in male mode.
1. Wear Women’s Underwear
Let’s start with the most obvious tip, shall we? Wearing women’s underwear underneath your male clothing is the easiest way to connect with your feminine self on a daily basis.
Aside from that, women’s panties tend to be more comfortable than men’s boxers or briefs. Plus, they come in loads of cute and sexy styles to add some secret pizazz to your outfit.
2. Try Stealth Crossdressing
Wearing lingerie under your clothes is a classic, but why stop there? Sneaking a piece of women’s clothing into your daily outfit is a great way to feel girly.
A lot of women’s clothing can pass for unisex, so try wearing women’s:
- Basic tees
- Button-down shirts
- Jeans and pants
Don’t forget about accessories! You could also play with wearing women’s boots or using a tote bag as a laptop bag or briefcase.
3. Apply Incognito Makeup
There are lots of ways to incorporate makeup into your daily look, even when presenting as a male. Here are 4 must-have makeup items:
- Concealer or foundation – Apply a thin layer to cover under eye circles or blemishes.
- Setting powder – Apply to shiny spots on your face, like the nose or forehead.
- Clear mascara – Use it to make your eyelashes look subtly longer and fuller.
- Uncolored lipstick – Instead of boring Chapstick, care for your lips with a clear lipstick.
4. Use the Power of Scent
Scents have a powerful effect on your brain chemistry and mood, so this is a great way to connect with your feminine side.
Wear women’s perfume instead of cologne. Musky fragrances are the most unisex, so you can wear them without anybody knowing your secret. (Check out my article on perfume to learn more about choosing the right scent.)
Another option is to burn a scented candle with a feminine fragrance in your home or office.
5. Keep Reminders of Your Female Self
Another tip is to surround yourself with reminders of the woman within.
One way to do this is through photos. Keep photos of your femme self on your phone, in your wallet, or even framed and hung up so you can see them often.
You could also carry around items personalized with your feminine name, such as a necklace, keychain, or coffee mug.
6. Try Feminizing Hypnosis
Hypnosis is a powerful way to increase confidence, reprogram habits and behaviors, and improve the way you express yourself as a woman.
Best of all, it’s the ultimate mental escape – allowing you to connect with you female self regardless of your current situation.
Try it for yourself by signing up for my free Unleash Your Inner Woman hypnosis mini-session here.
How do YOU stay connected?
In an ideal world, you’d be free to present yourself as a woman whenever and wherever you wanted. Until then, I hope this gives you ideas for expressing your female side anytime you want!
How do YOU stay connected to your feminine self? I’d love to know, so please share in the comments below!
Love,
Lucille
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Hi – these are all great suggestions! However, personally, now that I’m retired, and at age 74, I dress now as a woman pretty much 24/7. I love the feeling of being out and about and try to present myself as feminine as possible. I am always treated like a lady wherever I go! So much fun! Here I am at Macy’s about a week ago trying on a dress! Have fun, Hugs, Suzy
Everyday wear panties (boy shorts) along with my bra under my male clothing. Starting to wear slips/petticoats along with my pantyhose. Polish my toe nails and try the polish every week to a different color. Do my fingernails when I can. Have shoulder length hair which is a plus. Wear my dresses at home.
Continue the great process….I am going to look into doing some of the same great ideas to enjoy being a wonderful girl every day!
Thank-You for this post. i’ve employed a number of these techniques over the years and see additional ones to consider. Wearing panties exclusively has definitely been a big “reminder” of one’s Femme side throughout the day. Toenails painted is another. Having long hair, feeling it one the shoulders, etc. also lends an air of Femininity.
I always keep my toes and fingers done. Pedicure and manicure at least once a month but try to go every 2 weeks. Even if I do not put any color on my nails I keep my nails done. I use mascara almost everyday just to fluff out my lashes. I’m not even going to mention panties. OK, I will. If I wear anything at all it will be panties. Also stockings and tights in the fall and winter serves as a layer of warmth and a layer of pretty.
I always wear pantyhose and a slip under my disgusting male clothing. But there’s one thing that I started doing way back in January, 2002. I always sit when I pee. Every single time.
I love women and I’m Not into guys but I love wearing purple lacy panties
I had inserts done years back…38B…and I found that most everyone seems to accept me as I am. I live in a small cowboy oriented town and I do not try to conceal my boobs. I only rarely get any kind of notice, at most just a quick glace at my chest and that is about it. Living in a cowboy town was a concern…strong male oriented, but even at the gym I don’t get any negativity. So, with eyebrows trimmed, clear polish on my nails and obvious boobs, I go about my normal, male routine, but still proudly expressing my feminine side
All my jeans are girl jeans. and I only wear them with my thongs.
Those jeans fit you very well; what brand are they ? Thanks for the info.