If you’re like many of my transgender or crossdressing readers, you might not be able to present yourself as a woman each day.
That doesn’t mean you have to lose your female side when it’s time to put on the pants!
In this post, I share 5 ways to stay in touch with your femininity – even in male mode.
1. Wear Women’s Underwear
Let’s start with the most obvious tip, shall we? Wearing women’s underwear underneath your male clothing is the easiest way to connect with your feminine self on a daily basis.
Aside from that, women’s panties tend to be more comfortable than men’s boxers or briefs. Plus, they come in loads of cute and sexy styles to add some secret pizazz to your outfit.
2. Try Stealth Crossdressing
Wearing lingerie under your clothes is a classic, but why stop there? Sneaking a piece of women’s clothing into your daily outfit is a great way to feel girly.
A lot of women’s clothing can pass for unisex, so try wearing women’s:
- Basic tees
- Button-down shirts
- Jeans and pants
Don’t forget about accessories! You could also play with wearing women’s boots or using a tote bag as a laptop bag or briefcase.
3. Apply Incognito Makeup
There are lots of ways to incorporate makeup into your daily look, even when presenting as a male. Here are 4 must-have makeup items:
- Concealer or foundation – Apply a thin layer to cover under eye circles or blemishes.
- Setting powder – Apply to shiny spots on your face, like the nose or forehead.
- Clear mascara – Use it to make your eyelashes look subtly longer and fuller.
- Uncolored lipstick – Instead of boring Chapstick, care for your lips with a clear lipstick.
4. Use the Power of Scent
Scents have a powerful effect on your brain chemistry and mood, so this is a great way to connect with your feminine side.
Wear women’s perfume instead of cologne. Musky fragrances are the most unisex, so you can wear them without anybody knowing your secret. (Check out my article on perfume to learn more about choosing the right scent.)
Another option is to burn a scented candle with a feminine fragrance in your home or office.
5. Keep Reminders of Your Female Self
Another tip is to surround yourself with reminders of the woman within.
One way to do this is through photos. Keep photos of your femme self on your phone, in your wallet, or even framed and hung up so you can see them often.
You could also carry around items personalized with your feminine name, such as a necklace, keychain, or coffee mug.
6. Try Feminizing Hypnosis
Hypnosis is a powerful way to increase confidence, reprogram habits and behaviors, and improve the way you express yourself as a woman.
Best of all, it’s the ultimate mental escape – allowing you to connect with you female self regardless of your current situation.
Try it for yourself by signing up for my free Unleash Your Inner Woman hypnosis mini-session here.
How do YOU stay connected?
In an ideal world, you’d be free to present yourself as a woman whenever and wherever you wanted. Until then, I hope this gives you ideas for expressing your female side anytime you want!
How do YOU stay connected to your feminine self? I’d love to know, so please share in the comments below!
P.S. If you liked this article, you will love my FREE Male to Female Transformation Mini Course.
For nearly 50 years I have often worn a bra and panties under my male clothes making sure bra straps or panty seam aren’t obvious. My wife knows but there have been some close calls by friends and family members at times like the locker room before PE class and it’s probably just my paranoid imagination but it seems like the women sales clerks have femme radar and can tell when we have female undergarments on even when we are just buying male stuff or groceries. I keep my toenails trimmed and polished which has required some explaining once in awhile like when medical staff ask that you remove all your clothes and put on those silly hospital gowns or when going to the pool or hot tub (pre Covid of course) if someone points it out I just say that my wife gets bored and paints my nails for something to do. I had to go for an annual checkup last year and my female doctor told me to remove my shirt so she could listen to my lungs I had worn my favorite bra to bed the night before and was her first patient that morning. strap marks were likely very obvious. because the Dr asked me what happened and I said that I had been working under one of my cars earlier that morning I know she wasn’t buying it however she didn’t say any more about it. Occasionally on hot summer days when making the trip to visit family which is about 5 hours away I have worn only a bikini top and skirt with pumps which is a great feeling but could be very awkward in the event of a traffic incident fortunately nothing adverse has ever happened and I pull over to change 20 minutes before my destination. It’s probably the potential for being discovered that adds to the experience but I will keep doing it as long as I am physically able or my wife shuts me down.
You look very nice
Sounds like we do many of the same things. I always try to have something feminine on even if it’s just my toes polished which I always keep polished but as you say sometimes I have to explain
I was born on June 22, 2020. That’s when I had my GRS in Montreal, Canada. I am finally free to express myself as I always was. Legally, emotionally and physically – a woman.
I wear panties And bra Evryday
Very good idea and you look cute!
Kamila you are looking good babe
6years since I’ve been any other way & I haven’t looked back 🙂
You look very nice
You go girl and keep up feeling feminine with you clothes!
I usually have some pics of my feminine self
Or I will especially in winter wear some leggings or nylons under my male clothes or some women’s panties.
I always wear a bra stockings and suspenders and some very feminine knickers everyday. I also wear a nice necklace too.
Today I’m wearing pantyhose under my pants at work and I feel so sexy
I have no male attire left, only wear female and present as female. It feels so much better.
I no longer have male attire and wear female all the time. When i did present as male, always had panties, nylons, garter belts and bralettes on underneath. Only now i wear everything pretty and fem.