Stepping out publicly as a woman is a powerful way to validate your female self.
In fact, I recently published a poll asking “How often do you go out in public as a woman?”
I was happy to see that the majority of my readers (transgender women and crossdressers) go out at least occasionally.
No matter how often you do it, I’m sure you can remember your first time presenting as a woman or crossdressing in public.
Since this is such an important gender-affirming step, I’d love to hear about it!
When was it? Where did you go? And what was your experience?
Please share with us in the comments below!
And if you’ve never been en femme in public, I’m sure you’ll find lots of inspiration in these stories.
As always, thank you for reading and participating!
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have been out as a female several times, wow what a thrill , went with my wife to several Halloween parties ,but my favorite time was when I dressed up and we went to the movies I did not think I could pass , but the wife said I looked fine , we even stopped for a bite afterward. I have never forgot that night.
I am 65 and have never been out as a woman not sure how comfortable have a friend who is a crossdresser I enjoy the feeling of being dressed up as a woman but just really interested in this if my family ever knew they would not understand not sure what to do.
My first time was when I was just 12.
I put on my sister skirt and front open blouse. as a inner i work her camisole with light lipstick and kaajal in eyes. I put some bangles too in my arms. I along with my sister went to the mall. I stopped at a department store and looked at some dresses. A SA asked if she could help me. I told her I was just looking. I was really excited. I and sister both dance in the floor too Really it was nice experience. Thought it went well.
So, I’m not passable and I have an athletic, muscular body, but the desire to go out in public is growing stronger by the day. My wife is the only one who knows my secret and accepts it but I believe it still freaks her out a little. I have brought up the idea of a public excursion and she is not on board. So tonight, she is out of town and the thought of dressing up and going out is consuming me. Being that I have never done this before I am trembling with fear but the fear feels wonderful and exciting. I think I need this validation.
Hello, I found the best way to get started of going out in public is get all dolled up and go for a drive maybe a hour away from home and go through a drive through like McDonald’s and from there it gets much easier. Good luck
The first time I went out dressed as a woman I went to the park in one of my sisters dresses and hjigh heels and was spotted by one of my neighbores and was told that I looked really cute and had the best pair of legs and a great but! I was 12years old…..
My first time was a Halloween party in my early twenties. It was an old lady costume but the first time as myself was just a couple years ago. I went to a bar with some friends and had a great time
My first time was when I was just 14. I put on my older sister clothes and wig and some makeup. I walked two blocks to the bus stop and went to the mall. I stopped at a department store and looked at some dresses. A SA asked if she could help me. I told her I was just looking. I was really excited but nervous. Thought it went well.
My first time out as a girl I was 13-14. Was pretty passable at a young age..Now I am 43, and transgender so now everyday. I am to the point where I no longer really need make up on to pass.
Hi doll! You are really cute and beautiful! I like to listen more about your life as a it is.. kisses xx I’m 23 and I’m still chicken out..