Did you know you only have 7 seconds to make a first impression?
After that, a person’s judgments have been made and are almost impossible to change.
So how can you be sure people see you as the fabulous female that you are?
I won’t lie… good looks help. But it’s often the little details that make or break a first impression.
Here are my top 5 ways to make a feminine first impression:
1. Know What You Want to Project
First, you have to know what you want to project:
- Is your goal to blend in as an everyday girl?
- Or do you want to stick out as a gender-bending fashion diva?
- Do you want to be recognized for your style and sophistication?
- Or do you simply want people to notice your great legs? 🙂
When you know what you want to project, you can then determine if your appearance and attitude get the message across.
2. Be Aware of Your Body Language
Body language is critical to first impressions. You never want to look nervous, ashamed, or on the opposite end of the spectrum, arrogant.
Your posture and body language should tell the world that you’re a classy, confident woman who deserves respect.
Here are 27 body language mistakes that can detract from a feminine first impression. Avoid them at all costs!
3. Wear The Right Color
Did you know that 50% of all non-verbal messages come from color? Amazing but true!
The color you wear has a strong subconscious impact on how people perceive you – especially when you present yourself as a woman.
Different colors have different meanings (more on that here), so consider what the colors that you wear communicate.
Even more importantly, you should wear colors that flatter you and make you feel great.
4. Check Your Grooming Habits
Studies show that physical attractiveness is mostly based on “self care” – that is, good grooming, neat hair, and nice clothes.
That’s great news because presentation is something you can control! After all, most of us weren’t born supermodels, but anyone can take the time to look the part.
Grooming can make or break a first impression, so be sure your standards are up to par. Here are 5 feminine grooming habits that should be part of your regular routine.
5. Make Eye Contact
Your eyes reveal more about you than you probably realize. Avoiding eye contact gives the impression that you have low self-esteem or have something to hide.
Confident eye contact puts people at ease and wins respect. That’s definitely a plus for a positive first impression.
So be bold, look people in the eye, and don’t forget to smile!
What kind of impression do YOU want to make?
There’s a lot to be said about this topic, but I’ve highlighted the most important areas you should consider.
Now I’d like to hear from you!
What’s the first impression YOU want to make? Do you have any tips to add to this list?
I’d love to hear from you, so please share in the comments below!
Love,
Lucille
transformation tips?
wow!!!!
i tell you one thing lucille _i love you baby_ you doing very handy for everyones here.
My self confidence and relax forget being manact like woman smile and conversations and your ages fashions and make-up.Try to learn yourself how good woman you are if “you dont like yourself no body likes you more than you are” some body tell me long time ago that really work for me and i had no problem being a woman
But i still checking other woman my ages how they talk,walk.dance,drink,dress.make-up that kind and try to choose what you like what you dont and act like that with confidence no panic at all forout side or inside dont forget smile
kiss!!!!!
send the photographs of gradual changes from man to woman
These suggestions are great. There is so much that I have learned from you and the other girls here. The most valuable thing that I have learned is to become comfortable with yourself. I have found that doing this allows me to be more passable more easily. People don’t give me a second thought. I especially enjoy having a conversation with other women (g-girls) and they don’t suspect any difference. I love it.
ya ,each and every one of these tips is extremely important and i must say they have been so helpful to me, especially eye contact and settin the intention
I guess I have no problem..I keep getting called beautiful by people I don’t even know, and in the last few days even was asked for my picture. Sometimes I feel like a celebrity.
I would never have expected this even in my wildest dreams before transition.
Lucille,
Thanks for all your helpful advice.
Dear Lucille,
Thank you for the ”tips” you send onb a regular base! However I’m an Dutch transgender (male –> female) with tons of experience it is good to hear from you. Your topics confirm constantly that what I’m feeling and do is good, it helps a lot!
I’m just a female human beeing with a body that’s going to look as it should be: a woman…!
Many thanks and a warm hug for you,
love, Anne
Hi all,
Over the years of digital cameras i have found that taking regular photo’s has helped with style, dress-sence, makeup and confidince. dont forget front and rear. now with video on most cameras it is also a good tool for walking and presention. Showing them to a friend also helps with confidince and for another view for possible changes that are needed.
Another check is are you ready to use the ladies loo, this is a Necessity as if you get it wrong it can be devistating and embarasing.
Hi Sharon,
What a fantastic reply to a fantastic blog posting by Lucille. I would totally agree with you and say that if you are the kind of girl that wants to perfect the overall look and go out then the digital or video camera and analysing pictures and video is quite possibly the greatest investment you can make.
Claire xx