Have you ever felt like you looked more feminine or attractive when you were younger?
If so, you’re not alone – many crossdressers and trans women have shared the same feeling with me.
The good news? You can look beautiful and feminine at any age!
While we can’t stop the clock, there are simple things you can do to recapture that youthful glow.
In this post, I’ll share 7 easy tips to help you look younger and feel more confident on your feminization transformation journey.
1. Choose the Right Hairstyle
Hair has a huge impact on your appearance. Long hair is undoubtedly feminine, but remember that excessively long hair can accentuate signs of aging.
Consider these styles for a fresh, youthful look:
- Shoulder length hair: Universally flattering and youthful.
- Bangs: Cute, youthful, and great for concealing forehead wrinkles.
DO: Shoulder length hair
DO: Bangs
2. Embrace Your Sensual Side
While you shouldn’t dress like a 20 year old, you definitely want to avoid looking like a buttoned-up old lady.
Here are some ways to add a bit of youthful sex appeal to your look:
- Wear high heels and playful stockings.
- Choose clothing in sensual fabrics like lace, velvet, and fur.
- Show some skin (tastefully, of course).
Check out my previous article How to Dress Sexy at Any Age: 3 Crossdressing / MTF Fashion Tips to learn more.
3. Get Enough Sleep
We all need our beauty rest, and as you age, the effects of sleep deprivation become more apparent on your face.
Under-eye bags, dark circles, and lackluster skin can detract from a feminine look, so make sure to prioritize sleep.
4. Add Some Color to Your Wardrobe
If you tend to stick with black or neutral tones, consider incorporating some bright colors into your wardrobe.
Vibrant colors add a youthful energy and vitality to your appearance.
5. Whiten Your Teeth and Eyes
Your teeth can give away your age – over time, they often turn yellow or gray.
Whitening them can freshen up your whole face and make you look younger. Products like Crest White Strips are an easy and affordable way to brighten your smile.
The same idea applies to your eyes. Making the whites of your eyes look brighter can instantly lift your whole appearance.
LUMIFY Redness Reliever Eye Drops are a great option – they whiten your eyes without causing the rebound redness some other drops can.
6. Use the Right Skin Care Products
While most skin creams may not live up to their “miracle in a bottle” claims, there are specific ingredients that have demonstrated anti-aging benefits.
Combat wrinkles and firm your skin by using products containing ingredients such as:
- Retinoids
- Vitamin C
- Growth factors
- Peptides
- Hyaluronic acid
You can easily find affordable products with these ingredients at your local drugstore.
If you really want to take things up a notch, consider using an anti-aging skincare device. My favorite beauty devices include:
- Medicube Age-R Booster Pro
- Omnilux Contour Face LED Light Therapy Mask
- ZIIP HALO Nanocurrent and Microcurrent Facial Toning Device
7. Smile
Yes, it’s a cliché, but it’s true – a smile is the quickest way to enhance your appearance.
Smiling elevates your cheeks and functions like an instant facelift. Plus, it makes you look more pleasant and approachable when presenting yourself as a woman.
Beautiful at every age
Now for my favorite bonus tip: Look to stylish and attractive mature women for inspiration.
I know we have a lot of gorgeous, ageless beauties in this community, so I’d love to hear from YOU: What are your favorite tips for looking sexy and stylish at every age?
Even better, inspire us by sharing your photos below!
Love,
Lucille
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Thanbk You Lucille, for the tips to look better.
Demi Moore is the best. – I adore Demi !!!
Hi Lucille, Thanks for the tips, i will definitely try them, i know myself what a big impact wigs can make and finding the right style and color is important, it is also good to get someone elses opinion too. Natural hair looks far better than synthetic and is worth paying the extra dollar for.
All for now, Lace Satin
at almost 60 I am being tested for xxy my faceail hair are being removed i try to keep looking young but my hair is thinnig a bit on top i find that prems help keep the look of more hair on my head
Raquel Welsh is my favorite over 40.
She’s my idol!!!
You look so femme and so classy Tina!
My fav was Marilyn!
Tina…you’re my idol! You can’t be other than a gg. You’re gorgeous. How do you have that gorgeous figure? You should be on the top 10 list :>)
I agree! Can’t believe I forgot to include her in the poll. Adding her now!!
I picked “other”, I think Heather Locklear is simply stunning for her age!
Cheers everyone!
XOXO
Jenny!
33 yr old from Puyllup, WA
=)
Sorry Lucille,the pictures of women in your blog did nothing for me, so no vote.
You forgot one detail > excercise.
Breast development slowed,but getting a fantastic butt.
I was asked in my pharmacy yesterday before a free blood pressure test,if I was between 35&45,I surprise the woman by
saying I was nearly 60.
One question; is there a herb to slow down the testerone, so
the estrogen can work better.
Saw palmetto slows down testosterone. Yes, exercise is important, too!
Thank you for the new advices. I would probably add to this list Julia Roberts and Enya.They are really beautiful.
Hello All!
I didn’t get to include my favorite gal over 40. I really like Kim Cattrall followed by Sarah Palin in today times and Doris Day was tops in past times. Just for the what it’s worth department. Have a super day all!
Love and hugs,
Kelli
Yes, Kim Cattrall! I’m adding her now!