You’ve put a lot of effort into perfecting your feminine image – from outfits and makeup to practicing your voice and body movements.
But today, let’s pause the improvement talk and take a moment to appreciate the progress you’ve already made. Because, seriously, you’re amazing!
What’s your proudest accomplishment on your MTF journey so far?
It could be a major milestone like starting hormone therapy, coming out to a friend, or going out in public as a woman for the first time.
Or it could be a smaller victory, like buying your first lipstick or choosing your feminine name.
Even if you’re just starting out, there’s a lot to celebrate. Acknowledging your true self is a significant step forward!
So let’s hear it! What is your greatest transgender or crossdressing achievement?
Please share your story with us in the comments below!
Love,
Lucille
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I made a trip from Pittsburgh to Oklahoma City and I flew dressed in female clothing. What a rush and the best part is that almost 100% of the people didn’t know I was male. I even got a few ma’am’s from almost everyone I came in contact with. This could be habit forming.
If I may put it this way, my biggest “achievement so far has been internal. It is the fact that I have cleared the initial hurdle of accepting the validity of my life-long self-image as female and the counter-productivity of denying to myself what I really had always known deep inside. It has taken me many years to come to the point of recognizing something that should have been obvious all along. I have always thought of myself as a girl/woman. So, experimentation with various kinds of feminine apparel and accessories must take a back seat in importance for me compared to becoming psychologically and emotionally comfortable with myself as a “woman inside.” The next really huge hurdle will occur when I that first little step out of the “closet,” and I can’t say when that will happen. Just having achieved clarity on my identity as a woman and indulging that new awareness with external feminine accoutrements whenever possible and safe has started me on a new road towards a greater sense of balance.
Thanks, Lucille, for all your help and encouragement.
With a hug and a peck on the cheek to all my new girlfriends!
Sylvia
Since my last entry, I had my ears pieced, my face waxed, my
hair curled and nail tips with polish. Very much looking forward to getting a make-up to my face > am I liking it, I am loving it.
Any T.G girls in their 30’s to 40’s thinking about transitioning,
my advice – do it now while you’re young.
But if you’re past 60 like me, don’t leave it forever, do it now!.
Oh I forgot, I went to special shoe store to get large
size ladies shoes and I got them at a bargain.
But I got home, put on P/hose, a skirt then put the
shoes on and a WOW!.
Laurie, I’m so glad I found this group, which seems to include so many people like me who have known of their identity from very early on, but did not really start to come to terms with it until much later in live.
Love, Sylvia
My greatest feminine achievements have yet to be had, it’s not summer yet, but, girlfriends, this lady is going to turn up the HEAT.
There have been three major feminine achievements that were outstanding : the first occurred shortly after I had turned forty.
my breast buds had blossomed overnight into beautiful, full
female breasts, ( I got my Mom’s late-blooming breast genes )
and I developed CURVES, in all the right places. I went to work
one day, and something strange happened, all of my male co-workers started treating me like a real LADY. They started bringing me flowers and candy, opening doors for me, kissing my delicate hands, calling me ” MA’AM “, asking me if I was tired, and a few of them even GAVE me their phone no’s.
The second occurred when I was shopping last year. I had bought a whole bunch of sexy nightgowns, brought them up to the cashier, and then realized that I had left my money at home. I was so embarrassed, but this nice gentleman behind me said ” Ma’am, you don’t mind if I pay for your clothes along with my purchases, no strings attached ” O.M.G.!!!!! I couldn’t believe my ears, A REAL
GENTLEMAN!!!!! I started to cry, he could have just taken his kids and walked away, but NO, this gentleman saw a lady in distress,
and ACTUALLY helped her out. This is who I was meant to be.
The third feminine happening occurred when I was shopping for groceries last Friday. I was having a very bad day with my legs,
and the manager told all of the store clerks to keep an eye on me,
because he was very concerned that I might fall. All of a sudden,
six STRONG, male clerks started following me, to make sure that I could reach everything, and that I was alright. I loved the fact that they kept referring to me as ” this lovely lady “. My hair is cut short, due to a bad cut, but, I get so much attention paid to me now that I dress, and act like a lady.
I saw 2 men leave another man in a parking lot laying on the ground . I was fully dressed and when I called 911, I told the dispatcher what I saw, I also told that I would wait until the Police arrived and how I was dressed . When the officer arrived he said “Did you call this in ma’m?” . I said “yes ” and he said “I’llc need your name and address for our report . I gave him my real and legal name , address , and phone number . When I said Michael , he looked at me and said “naaaaa” I said “yes”. He then said “to each his own “, took the rest of the report . I left and went home instead of going to another bar. I never heard another word about it , but , I’m glad I could have possibly saved someone’s life even if I risked my own exposure .
Mikki, you had spit and yet you still had decency.
Good on you.
For me it has been learning that my crossdressing desires can be satisfied and managed safely by planning occasional trips to nearby cities where “Harriette” can relax and be Harriette. That means going shopping and to spas en femme without worry of discovery.
My coming out to my closest friend and the friendship of a man who is transtioning for two years now.
My body is getting more feminine with bigger hips, curvy, softer skin, My breast is getting bigger, My face look more feminine but not passable yet, my hair and nails grow faster thru feminization hypnosis which I can’t believe this actually works, I been using the program since November 2012, its a slow process but it works, I’m looking forward to complete my transformation so I can live full time as a Woman, the way it was meant to be, I also finally told my Wife after 12 years of marriage how I felt, she was ok with that. however I told her I won’t let it take over my Life, I don’t have a choice as it stresses me out to pursue this.
I am a male of 52 years and having very large breasts. I wear 42 DD Cup bra. My wife really like my big breasts and she is one who buy bra for me. She really likes to fondle my breasts and it gives her special feeling. I always use to wear bra inside and outside.
Best wishes,
Thomas