You’ve put a lot of effort into perfecting your feminine image – from outfits and makeup to practicing your voice and body movements.
But today, let’s pause the improvement talk and take a moment to appreciate the progress you’ve already made. Because, seriously, you’re amazing!
What’s your proudest accomplishment on your MTF journey so far?
It could be a major milestone like starting hormone therapy, coming out to a friend, or going out in public as a woman for the first time.
Or it could be a smaller victory, like buying your first lipstick or choosing your feminine name.
Even if you’re just starting out, there’s a lot to celebrate. Acknowledging your true self is a significant step forward!
So let’s hear it! What is your greatest transgender or crossdressing achievement?
Please share your story with us in the comments below!
Love,
Lucille
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I came out to my mom (dad’s wife she’s still a big part of my life and is a mom to me) it took me an entire day to pluck up the courage to do so, just before she went to bed I was a nervous wreck shaking and mumbling my words but she helped me put them together and told me she’d seen some tv show about transitioning eventually we hugged and fast forward a year we’re planning shopping trips together 🙂
I came out to my Mam the day after she took it just as well then told me she had seen some people transition and understood what they went through followed by a hug and told me she couldn’t wait to go shopping and see me happy 🙂
I came out to my friends over Facebook they were happy for me and told me they heard of people transitioning on tv. We eventually moved into a house together which is a blast except when everyone downloads at the same time and the internet falls apart lol 🙂
I came out to my girlfriend (she’s pansexual) we were talking about life and how much we loved each other so I told her who I was and that I didn’t want to put her through the strains of transition, she called me silly told me she loved and would rather have me as her happy gf than a unhappy bf, fast forward a year I’m no longer gonna be her miss… as mrs is more suiting 🙂
I guess my biggest achievement wasn’t my achievement but that of other brave people fighting to change societies views which lead to me being able to live my life as a happy woman, dauther, friend and soon to be wife thanks to anyone who reads this and hope you have a brilliant life 🙂
Ps so sorry for grammar and punctuation well not really I have no immediate intention to improve it :p
Well my greatest achievement(s) thus far have been FINALLY walking out my front door in the morning, getting in my car, and going for a drive. It was very nerve wracking to say the least, but exciting too. I stopped at a few places and actually went in and shopped. In heels no less. I slipped once though on a slick floor, but maintained my composure. I stopped at a gas station and got gas and went in the station to show a friend who has never seen me dressed and she was utterly amazed! What a stroke for confidence that was! I also on another occasion put on my big girl panties and went to a park and enjoyed the scenery – the photo attached to this note is the place I went to. I went with a man friend of mine and he shot the photo and we even kissed out in the open like it was normal. He was nervous about it more than I was, but we did it. I felt so very natural as my woman self. I kind of built up to it by going out for walks in my neighborhood in the early mornings and even said good morning to people waiting for the bus.
It was exciting but as I said nerve wracking because my “co existing” wife is so disapproving of my femininity (strange because of the issues with her), she’s of the mind of being worried what the neighbors will think. I just HAD to do it or I’d bust. I so want to go the rest of my life as my fem self, but just have not been able to do my plan for it just yet. I’m working on it though and nothing is going to stop me.
Well my greatest achievement(s) thus far have been FINALLY walking out my front door in the morning, getting in my car, and going for a drive. It was very nerve wracking to say the least, but exciting too. I stopped at a few places and actually went in and shopped. In heels no less. I slipped once though on a slick floor, but maintained my composure. I stopped at a gas station and got gas and went in the station to show a friend who has never seen me dressed and she was utterly amazed! What a stroke for confidence that was! I also on another occasion put on my big girl panties and went to a park and enjoyed the scenery – the photo attached to this note is the place I went to. I went with a man friend of mine and he shot the photo and we even kissed out in the open like it was normal. He was nervous about it more than I was, but we did it. I felt so very natural as my woman self. I kind of built up to it by going out for walks in my neighborhood in the early mornings and even said good morning to people waiting for the bus.
It was exciting but as I said nerve wracking because my “co existing” wife is so disapproving of my femininity (strange because of the issues with her), she’s of the mind of being worried what the neighbors will think. I just HAD to do it or I’d bust.
Getting the courage to go out enfemme this Halloween
I recently spent several days out of town on business and was free every afternoon to live as a woman free of the fear of being discovered. After work each day I would shower, and then transform into my real self (woman) and then spend time strolling about the city shopping and such. The best moment was when I mustarded up the confidence to go out to dinner. I went to a nice restaurant and enjoyed a nice meal without any unwelcome stares or seeing others around me talk amongst themselves about the man dressed as a woman. It was a awesome boost to my self-esteem and further encourages me to pursue full time with the goal of GRS ASAP
Tracy:
You Go Girl! This is how we All started, you know.
A trip to get gas, then the whole day!
At 71, My Wife and I go to lunch with her sisters. We have a great time!
Want to hope yoUnger gurls are proud of older gals!
One of my greatest memories is a time when I had been to the Florida Mall in Orlando and was on my way out to go to my car when I heard a female voice say
I really like your skirt and when I looked I saw a girl about twenty or sitting on a bench near where I was walking
She smiled at me and I smiled back at her and said
Thank you and kept on walking.
Those few words meant to me that I was looked upon as a girl and I’ve never forgotten that little encounter with a complete stranger
when i was in my twenties my girlfreind helped live the best ever. to live as a woman for a while, and i loved it. from my panties to my dresses i loved it. the best part is that i passed as a woman. she kepted pushing for me to become more feminine but i could not. the worst mistake of my life. still dream of the old days. wish i could go back, but life goes on.
My Greatest Accomplishment was by far using Women’s Restroom in Starbucks downtown PDX. It was multi stalls and a busy store. It took an amazing amount of courage to enter let alone wait for an open stall. I had imagined all sorts of reactions. However ladies being who they are did not even look twice. In the end I was soo proud of me as well as my adopted hometown. A fan called Rhonda
Rhonda: We have all been there, & entered the “territory ” to answer the “call”. I have Always Sat to wee, so I belong there.
Hell, I looked more womenly, than all the ladies there. The waitresses all thought I was a lady, always commenting on my beautiful outfits. When my wife and her sisters go to lunch, we All go to the Ladies Room! !
Enjoy being You!
That is a great accomplishment. I have been searching the internet for what is legal as far as using the restroom as the gender you identify with. Not much up to date info out there. A couple of times while in drab at Macy’s, I was looking at some women’s clothing and was asked if I wanted them to start a room for me. I didn’t do it but it did make me feel really good about being accepted and not looked at as a freak.