If you’re here right now, I’m guessing you put a lot of effort into perfecting your feminine image.
From putting outfits together and applying makeup, to practicing your voice and body movements – there’s a lot to consider!
And of course, you might even be navigating serious changes, like hormones or surgery.
However, when you’re focused on all the things you’re still working on, it’s easy to forget how far you’ve already come.
Today, let’s pause the improvement talk and take a moment to appreciate the progress you’ve made.
Because, seriously, you’re amazing!
So, I’d love to know:
What’s your proudest accomplishment on your feminine journey so far?
It could be a major milestone like starting gender affirming hormone therapy, coming out to a friend, or going out in public as a woman for the first time.
Or it could be a smaller victory, like buying your first lipstick or choosing your feminine name.
Even if you’re just starting out, there’s a lot to celebrate. You’re here on this blog, acknowledging your true self, and that’s a significant step forward!
So let’s hear it! What is your greatest transgender or crossdressing achievement?
Please share your story with us in the comments below!
Love,
Lucille
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For me the mere fact of finally admitting to myself that I’m trans and actually can and have done something about that has been the biggest game changer ever.
I was miserable as a guy, never felt like I fit in, hated all the things it required.
Since starting my transition to Stef, I feel comfortable in my own skin in a way I never did before. I actually LIKE what I seen in the mirror for the first time in my life.
I’m a woman, always have been, and it delights me to be finally able to show the world.
One of my most favorite moments, so far, was when I was on a date with a guy who knew I was a CD/TG… Not only did we have a good time (in public as well as in private), but he let me know he wanted to get together again soon! It’s just nice to be so accepted by someone who isn’t family or even a close friend.
I went shopping and when checking out the lady cashier rang up the purchases and after looking at the total said ” I think I can do better for us girls.” She proceeded to find an extra discount for me. I thanked her and as I left I knew I was at least for a little while an actual woman.
The process we go through psychologically as we go forward is interesting. We can have it in our head that making that one change is going to expose us. Our fears magnify simple changes into a gigantic hurdle. Then afterwards, looking back, some of those changes seemed so minor and no one else noticed.
My first wardrobe shopping trip at Lane Bryant. The staff helped me look my best and fitted me to the tee. Made me feel like a woman that day.
My biggest achievement was the first step or of the closet as Windy
When my spouse accepted me as Delores and is now my best friend and supporter.