Feeling beautiful, feminine, and sexy isn’t just for the young. If you’re a crossdresser or transgender woman, you too deserve to feel sexy and confident at any age.
However, dressing sexy isn’t necessarily about wearing mini skirts and stripper heels, especially as you age. Remember, there’s a fine line between sexy and slutty!
Instead, the key is to present yourself in a stylish and sexy manner that complements your age and body type. In this blog post, I’ll be sharing my top 3 crossdressing / MTF fashion tips for dressing sexy at any age.
Rule #1: Show Some Skin (Just Not Too Much)
While short skirts and low-cut tops are undeniably sexy, it’s important not to go overboard. Here are a couple of guidelines to keep in mind:
- Your skirt should be no shorter than fingertip length when you stand with your arms at your sides. This ensures that you’re not revealing too much skin.
- Your top should show no more than 40% of your bust. This allows you to show off your assets in a tasteful and classy way, without overdoing it.
Remember, dressing sexy is all about finding the right balance between revealing and concealing.
Rule #2: Find the Right Proportions
Proportion is a crucial factor in how your clothes work together in terms of length, width, size, and volume. For example:
- A short skirt paired with a short top tends to look overtly revealing.
- A long skirt with a long top can appear frumpy.
- A full skirt with a full top may add visual weight.
- A tight skirt with a tight top can create an unflattering, sausage-like appearance (unless you have a flawless body!)
It’s important to strike the right balance in your outfit, so you should avoid going too far in any one direction.
If you opt for something tight or revealing, you should balance it out with the rest of your outfit. For example:
- A short skirt should be paired with a more covered top
- A skimpy top should be paired with a more covered bottom.
- A tight skirt should be paired with a fuller top.
- A tight top should be paired with a fuller skirt.
Rule #3: Wear Luxurious Fabrics
The fabrics you choose to wear is the final piece of the sexy puzzle.
When you hear the word “slutty,” you might picture a spandex skirt, a barely-there glitter top, and patent leather stripper boots.
On the other hand, “sexy” is often associated with luxurious fabrics such as silk, velvet, lace, and cashmere.
When shopping for clothes, look for fabrics that are rich and sensuous – rather than cheap and tacky.
Final Thoughts…
The bottom line is that you can look sexy and feminine at any age. Just be sure to keep it classy.
As always, I’d love to hear your thoughts on this topic. Please leave me your comments below!
And if you’re already mastered the art of sexy ageless dressing, don’t forget to include a photo.
Love,
Lucille
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Most of the women I see everyday, whether at work, the mall or grocery store usually are wearing jeans, pants, leggings, capri pants, or shorts in summer. Sometimes you will see a woman in a dress or skirt but it is not a common thing. So I personally tend to dress like the other women in my age group that I see everyday out and about running errands, if it works for them why not me. Also the sales lady’s at Macy’s are always very helpful to me in picking out clothes, lingerie, shoes, accessories, etc.
Kristin
I like the philosophy of this Web / blog : Enjoy being You! I go out on weekends, & dress up more as you can see in my photos. ..
Another photo of me out shopping the other day! I’m 72, what do you think?
You Go Girl! Be you,& enjoy
Thank you Lucille for your suggestions it’s really helpful.
I don’t have a top or a full dress. I’m planing to buy next week 🙂
But I have picture of my Stockings I love them ^_^
You look Great! Enjoy being You!
Thank you Lucille, your suggestions are really helpful. I don’t have a top clothing I’m buying next week. But I have a picture of my Stockings I love them ^_^
Me at a biz party
I’m still working of things-but I do get positive reactions when I wear this- Jane London Ontario
You look Great! Enjoy being You!
Thanks so much Lucille. Im just starting my female journey. I will posts pics when i get the things i need.
Thank You Lucille Sorella For The Advice You Know What You Are Talking About. Keep Sending You Advice to us LADIES. Love Petra.
Not all of us are blessed with slim figures. I’d love to some advice on what us large ladies can wear. The choice seems very limited.
Love the dress, Enjoy being You!