2015 has been a big year in the transgender world. There’s been more media coverage and attention than ever before.
But I can’t help but feel that society still has a long way to go in its understanding and acceptance of crossdressers and transgender people.
Do you agree?
If so, let’s shed some light!
What do you wish people understood about you?
Whether it’s the people closest to you or the world at large, what do you want them to know?
The more voices and perspectives out there, the sooner others will (hopefully) begin to understand.
I’d love to hear from you, so please share in the comments below!
Love,
Lucille
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Hi Lucille,
Like some other ladies on this site, I too am getting on in years (75) but when I get dressed as Joanna the years just seem to go back, I feel like a thirty something.
I’m not good looking but I feel so happy and confident when dressed, I would love people including my family to just say “ hello Jo you do look nice” that would make my day. xx
WOW! Great comments from Eoin and Samantha. Yes, this is a part of me that I enjoy. I am senior in years to most of you. I grew up loving to dress, and terrified that anyone ever knew. There was no understanding and no place to turn for encouragement or support. For years I thought I might be the only heterosexual male on the planet that, on occasion, wanted to (as Samantha said)just enjoy wearing women’s clothing. That said, I wish I could tell people I love, “you know I want to be Barbara tonight”, and they would say “What fun let’s do it”….Not going to happen. Thanks for the Site Lucille and Thanks to all of you who have the courage to comment and be yourselves.
Have fun dressing!
Barbara Jane
You are VERY Beautiful.
That I’m a straight guy and when I dress as a woman I’m not looking for a man and that cross dressing is a big part of my life
I want people to understand that I am the way I am and I have desires to dress as a woman in a dress and I want to reach beyond my control and just enjoy wearing women’s clothing, I mean it’s just a piece of fabric that turned into a material, it’s not going to assassinate any of the country leader, I’m not assassinating a whole community, so I want people to to understand that fact
what I would like is to find a way to tell my family that I am a Transwomen. But I feel they will not support me
I wish people would stop saying, “now that your choosing to be transgender “ how will you deal with this or that?
It’s not a choice it’s who we are and have finally made the decision to stop living a lie.
I wish people would know how hard of a situation this puts me in. And that I just need support.
Dearest Lucille,
Now that I dress full-time, I want people to understand the deep and life-long desires I have to be a complete and loving woman. I know the clothing which makes me so feminine but I am feminine and the clothing is only decoration (although I love that decoration). Sure, I was told at birth that I am male. But that is just not so and has never been. I am who I am and love it deeply.