Expressing your feminine side is about much more than just clothes and makeup. After all, women are a little more complex than that!
That’s why I wanted to go beyond the obvious and explore some unexpected strategies to help you enhance your feminine expression.
In this blog post for crossdressers and transgender women, I share 3 unexpected ways to be more feminine. Read on to learn more!
1. Buy a New Perfume
The right perfume can make you feel irresistibly feminine. While it’s great to have a signature scent, sometimes it helps to switch things up and discover new perfumes to bring out your inner woman.
Here are some suggestions to match your desired vibe:
- Floral scents: Embrace your soft, romantic side with the allure of flowers.
- Fresh or fruity scents: Boost your confidence and energy levels with invigorating notes.
- Woody or oriental scents: Unleash your inner seductress with warm, captivating fragrances.
To learn more, check out my article on MTF Feminization Tips: How to Choose the Perfect Perfume.
2. Be More Polite
Did you know that politeness plays a significant role in enhancing your feminine image?
Countless studies have shown that women tend to excel in the realm of manners, and adopting these social graces can truly elevate your femininity.
Here are three suggestions to keep in mind:
- Embrace the power of “please” and “thank you” – These little words hold huge power in conveying respect and gratitude. Remember to use them often in your daily interactions.
- Soften your language – For example, instead of bluntly saying “I can’t hear you,” opt for a more gentle approach like, “I’m sorry, I can’t quite hear you.” This subtle shift demonstrates empathy and consideration.
- Mind your online presence – Politeness shouldn’t be limited to face-to-face encounters. It’s equally important to be polite when texting, emailing, or engaging in online discussions.
3. Loosen Up
If you’re looking for an instant way to enhance your feminine image, here’s a simple secret: loosen up! This applies to both your body and your mind, and it can work wonders in unleashing your true feminine grace.
First, let’s focus on loosening up your body:
Women naturally possess a graceful, limber quality. If your body feels tense and tight, it can manifest in stiff, jerky movements that lack femininity. Here’s how you can loosen up:
- Consciously relax your body, especially your jaw and shoulders.
- Stretch your muscles on a daily basis.
- Take lots of deep, relaxing breaths.
These simple body-loosening techniques can do more to feminize your movements than all the hip shaking in the world!
Now, let’s shift our focus to loosening up your mind:
The happiest crossdressers and transgender women I know don’t get hung up on “passing” or trying to please everybody. Instead, they embrace who they are while constantly striving to improve themselves.
Life is short, so above all, relax and enjoy the journey!
What are YOUR favorite ways to feel feminine?
As always, I’d love to hear from you on this topic.
What are your favorite – and perhaps unexpected – ways to feel feminine? Please share in the comments below!
Love,
Lucille
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I always love Lucille’s advice. Even if you’re already doing the things she talks about, a reminder is always good. By the way, i’ve got new breast enhancements due next month!
My Darlings,
First, I need to paint a picture of who Luna Marie is. I am a deep closet babe (for many complex reasons). Thus, I must plot, plan and carefully escape my real life, to have any femme and play time.
Worse yet, I’m 6-3, 270 and have not sinply big, but huge hands and feet. (It is just short of impossible to find lady shoes that fit and I easily break spike heels the firs time I wear them.)
More than once I’ve been insulted, harassed in public and described as a “Big Fat, Ugly, Linebacker in Drag!” Still, when I managed to steal away for femme time with gurlz who accept me as I am, I feel pretty.
All that said and out of the way, the best way for me to “feel feminine” is self-hypnosis, deep breathing and a lady like attitude at all times, even toward my detractors.
Due to my size, I’m intimidating enough “gay bashers” (who are all cowards at heart) have so far backed off quickly, once I fail to melt in fear at their oral harrassments and physical threats.
I always wet dream wish I was young, petite and totally passable, But somehow, when going out and about, that is who I attempt to be. No, it is who I am. A charming, fun to be with, all Domme woman, sexy lady.
Leather and Lace Dreams,
Ms Luna Marie
Ms. Luna Marie
I think that you are very brave and yes I can say that I think that you are a very beautiful woman and never give up on your dreams.
Because I think that those gay bashers are just jealous because they don’t know what it’s like to be beautiful as a woman.
And thank you for your story.
I share with others in the trans support group I moderate is to be yourself and your femininity will shine. Dress your age (not trashy), do not buy cheap wigs (if you wear one), shave closely and a light fragrance.
Smile at people and meet their eye contact with your own. Acknowledging those around you with a smile is one of the most feminine things I can think of to make you feel and appear more feminine
I go shopping a lot and what makes me feel mor feminine is to buy myself something pretty to wear.Another thing I do to feel more female is to make sure that I am very nice to everyone
Yes, I love it when I find a pretty print bra with lace in the clearance section. I can’t wait to get home and put it on!
Stretching will not only give you more graceful and fluid movement, it will help to elongate bulky muscles giving a smoother appearance. Flexibility can also help prevent injuries from occurring. You’ll feel better, too!
Own it! I found once I got to a stage where I sound, smell, dress, walk, stand, well do all I can…I learned to trust I am the woman I feel inside.
I have an interest in fashion and being thrift shopper I have found many beautiful and stylish outfits that really enhance my figure and femininity. I always check in the mirror before leaving the house to make sure I look flawless with all details. When I am in public it causes people to look at the overall look, not just at my (big hands and shoulders)…
I find by initiating first contact by introducing my self to new people it helps to break the ice. Whenever and wherever possible give a genuine compliment about someone’s glasses, shoes, hair style, muscles (lol), and anything outstanding they are wearing. This usually starts a friendly conversation, and I often receive a compliment back, which makes my feel wonderful.
Yes be yourself and continue to build confidence.
I think the Greatest point you make is that you must primarily be yourself, to be overly concerned with passing is to give power to others, if you are able to show your true self to others you are powerful, but perhaps you don’t give yourself the credit for it, be grateful for who you are and celebrate yourself, and sooner or later the rest of the world will catch up.