Do you ever find yourself wondering if it’s okay to crossdress? Do you feel weighed down by society’s judgment and expectations?
Well, it’s time to shed that weight and liberate yourself! Let’s talk about why crossdressing is absolutely okay, and why you should embrace it without any guilt.
1. Self-Expression Matters
As humans, expressing ourselves is a basic core need.
Crossdressing is just one way to showcase your personality, tastes, and preferences through clothing. It’s an ideal outlet for creativity and individuality.
2. Fashion Has No Gender
Who says certain clothes are meant only for specific genders?
Clothes don’t have an inherent gender; they are pieces of fabric that can be enjoyed by anyone. So, wear what makes you feel confident and fabulous!
3. Breaking Free from Gender Norms
Crossdressing challenges outdated gender norms. It’s time to break free from rigid ideas of what’s “appropriate” to wear.
Crossdressing allows you to take a stand against society’s expectations and encourages others to do the same.
4. It’s Not Harmful
Let’s be clear – crossdressing is harmless. As long as you’re not hurting anyone, there’s no reason to feel bad about it.
Feeling guilty about expressing yourself through clothing is unnecessary and unproductive.
In conclusion
Being true to yourself is a beautiful thing, and it sets an example for others to do the same.
So, let go of the guilt, and embrace your fabulous, feminine side!
Now I’d love to hear your thoughts on this topic. Do you ever feel guilty about crossdressing? If you’ve overcome feelings of guilt, how did you do so?
Please take my poll and leave me your comments below!
Love,
Lucille
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For 57 years I beat myself up with guilt, shame and anxiety. no more for me. At 57 I found a gender councilor who helped me to to grips with my true identity. I dress when I feel like it, go out when I feel like it, dress androgenously day in and out , underdressed all the time and don’t care if bra straps show. My wife and children had a bumpy road for a while but are now becoming more accepting. At 63 my anxiety is gone the guilt is gone and if the world has a problem with me it is there problem not mine. My ears are now pierced, wear earings all the time, toes polished, nails polished, my shoes are all 2 to 3 inch heals and running shoes women’s. I am now much happier and had I been 20 again would have transitioned.
It does irritate me when women can work male jobs, dress like males then go home – girl up and no one cares. I do understand the issues women face with oppression, abuse, etc. Men’s clothes are boring – we haven’t changed styles in 100 years! If you don’t like sports or cars you are not “male” enough; if you like a cute dress or pretty heels – you are not “male” enough”.
Very frustrating – its ok if girls strive to be male – go up the social ladder – but not ok if boys wish to express their feminine side – like we are going down the social ladder.
Really fabulous post, i absolutely agree with you….!!
I do feel anger and jealousy on women because I don’t have the right to look or act in a feminine manner not like genetic women that can act or look masculine or feminine and it’s considered ok
so to help me out I just put out my anger and jealousy on other things
With what’s going on in the world today the fact that I like to put on a little lipstick is to
totally insignificant!
great post. I felt almost ashamed. It is very hard with no support system. I eventually opened to a girl I knew and she helps me which is needed
Good article, we live in masculine ssociety, Japan is more of the opposite, and some other Asian countries where crossdressing is much more accepted amd considering the M2F crossdresser as cute/beautiful.
I used to feel guilty, it is still hard to be who I am. It seems to be only a few people that are extreme and tose people are the on’s we need to go after. Protection laws that are very stricked. i.e. a trans gender person is beat up, regardless of the reason, (unless there is proof of the trans being the attacking one) the attackers need to be punished severally this would stop a lot of attacks. It is time to send a message to those few, their fear will no longer be tolerated.
I used to feel guilty, embarrassed, paranoid and freakish about it, but over time it wasn’t an issue. Sometimes I would just take a tiny step (which seemed like a huge scary step at the time), like wearing a dress for the first time in front of my family.