Do you ever find yourself wondering if it’s okay to crossdress? Do you feel weighed down by society’s judgment and expectations?
Well, it’s time to shed that weight and liberate yourself! Let’s talk about why crossdressing is absolutely okay, and why you should embrace it without any guilt.
1. Self-Expression Matters
As humans, expressing ourselves is a basic core need.
Crossdressing is just one way to showcase your personality, tastes, and preferences through clothing. It’s an ideal outlet for creativity and individuality.
2. Fashion Has No Gender
Who says certain clothes are meant only for specific genders?
Clothes don’t have an inherent gender; they are pieces of fabric that can be enjoyed by anyone. So, wear what makes you feel confident and fabulous!
3. Breaking Free from Gender Norms
Crossdressing challenges outdated gender norms. It’s time to break free from rigid ideas of what’s “appropriate” to wear.
Crossdressing allows you to take a stand against society’s expectations and encourages others to do the same.
4. It’s Not Harmful
Let’s be clear – crossdressing is harmless. As long as you’re not hurting anyone, there’s no reason to feel bad about it.
Feeling guilty about expressing yourself through clothing is unnecessary and unproductive.
In conclusion
Being true to yourself is a beautiful thing, and it sets an example for others to do the same.
So, let go of the guilt, and embrace your fabulous, feminine side!
Now I’d love to hear your thoughts on this topic. Do you ever feel guilty about crossdressing? If you’ve overcome feelings of guilt, how did you do so?
Please take my poll and leave me your comments below!
Love,
Lucille
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Ok, I had and still have a PVC & rubber rainwear fetish. I noticed this from an early age. A lot later I linked these feminine garments to cross dressing. Yes I had quite a guilt trip about this and “items” would come and go.
In 2002 I took a nervous leap of faith by talking to some lovely real ladies and I had my first TV experience as Steph.
Working in Paris last year got Steph to feel happy though closeted, well, a fair number of Whatsapp photos shared with my real lady “fans” so to speak!
Guilty now, no, careful yes!
Good luck out there!
Steph
xxx
Like many of my sisters I lived with guilty and even self hatred but over the past six months so very much has changed. In the fall of last year I began to search for someone I could confide in, I posted a few requests for a friend on Craigslist and after a few attempts met a person who understood that I only wanted someone to share my thoughts and feelings with. Brittini (may be real name, may not I am unsure) allowed me to unload the baggage I have carried for the past 25 year and she did so with such amazing compassion and grace. In many respects I owe her everything. Not only did my Brittini allow me to open up to her but she encouraged me to push myself further out into the open, with her guidance I started a FaceBook page and started a “for friends” account on a dating site. I am married and the fear I had concerning my wife’s rejection can only be described as crippling, I hoped to find some friends to help me prepare for the process of confessing to her. Over the next month things unfolded in the manner I had hoped but on fateful night in December my fears were realized and I was not yet prepared. When my wife held up my iPad and said “care to explain” I was speechless. Nothing in the years with my wife lead me to believe she could possibly accept or understand any of this part of me, I was wrong. Words cannot convey how eternally grateful and amazed I am by the woman that chose me, she has been the model of understanding and has put for an incredible amount of effort to accept and comprehend my entire self. With every conversation and every truth finally being told I feel the guilt fleeting, the self hatred being replaced with self acceptance and love. I am at a place now where I must come to define who I truly am and what that means moving forward but I could not possibly hope to be in a better way. I am Shae and I am Steve two parts that finally make one whole.
Guilt can be felt from many different perspectives. Everyone suffers guilt for something. On some plains I feel a horrid pit of guilt for my perverted and socially unacceptable behavior … on other plains, I revel in the pleasure dressing gives me.
As a very masculine male, I know that if my friends and associates found out about ‘Jane’, I would die. When I wear some sexy stockings and panties and a bra, I am so excited I can hardly contain my desire to drop to my knees and suck a golf ball through a hose, and do so repeatedly.
When dressing with a friend of like mind, I love the freedom to swish when I walk, go an octave higher with my voice, and discus makeup tips. OH! and the kissing and passion!
When with non-CD friends, I enjoy riding and shooting and cussing with the best of them.
I’m not afraid of guilt. It is a tool to give me some balance and help me keep the two lives separate and defined. I just refuse to worry about the guilt and accept that it’s just another part of me. Along with happiness and sadness, guilt and pride are OK.
When I was married I did feel a little guilt, however I think it was because my partner made me feel inadequate in our relationship.
Now that I am single, I have no guilt at all.
Liz
It’s really more interesting than not. If you observe the clothing styles for men and women some clothing isnt that different for both sexes. Like briefs for men and regular panties for women. The shape is the same but the big difference is the hole in the front for men. Fundamentally panties and briefs are the same so the only difference aside from convenience of men to urinate is having an opening. Where people differentiate between men and womens underwear past that is advertising. Where is this particular pair of underwear aimed at? Men or women? Who’s more prone to purchase this underwear and why? And both men and womens clothing are made of similar fabrics often so it seems pointless to assign fabrics to a certain gender. Cotton is fairly unisex i think.
I have been on six capsules of fenugreek for three weeks. Grown from 44B to 44C. I am not a Cross dresser but a straight male that wanted breasts and now I have them.
“Jacques”…”Good For You”…I Truly Love My “Big Breasts” and “Wearing My 46C/46D-Cup Bras” !!!
I don’t feel guilty about being trans. Like Allisa it somehow took me 61 years to find the true me. It happened quite by chance. I’d been doing various things that were pointing the way and because of my upbringing I had been in denial until the day my nature confronted me with an overwhelming urge to be accepted. Since then I have been growing in strength and confidence to boldly step into this world as the woman I am meant to be. I take joy in my expression and delight whenever I receive confirmations. For me there just isn’t any turning back.
I totally understand the guilt I dealt with it for almost 42 years. This might help others I have found most of us feel guilty because of religious up bringing. But the true interpretation of it is we’re not an abombenation but the real translation is we are to set selves apart or above. Yes most wives are hurt by what we do. I think there more afraid than angry. If your going to dress just remember to stay faithful if you are married. The American Indians considered transgender a gifted spirt they were called two spirts they were honored because they could fight as a great warrior but be comfortable doing the woman’s role too. I am now divorced and living 90% as a woman and have grown real breast thinking about HRS surgery but don’t think I’m ready for that yet. But coming to terms with my Creator has removed my guilt. I now feel free and have learned to unbrace as the American Indians say join my two spirts as one. Best of luck to all.