Do you ever find yourself wondering if it’s okay to crossdress? Do you feel weighed down by society’s judgment and expectations?
Well, it’s time to shed that weight and liberate yourself! Let’s talk about why crossdressing is absolutely okay, and why you should embrace it without any guilt.
1. Self-Expression Matters
As humans, expressing ourselves is a basic core need.
Crossdressing is just one way to showcase your personality, tastes, and preferences through clothing. It’s an ideal outlet for creativity and individuality.
2. Fashion Has No Gender
Who says certain clothes are meant only for specific genders?
Clothes don’t have an inherent gender; they are pieces of fabric that can be enjoyed by anyone. So, wear what makes you feel confident and fabulous!
3. Breaking Free from Gender Norms
Crossdressing challenges outdated gender norms. It’s time to break free from rigid ideas of what’s “appropriate” to wear.
Crossdressing allows you to take a stand against society’s expectations and encourages others to do the same.
4. It’s Not Harmful
Let’s be clear – crossdressing is harmless. As long as you’re not hurting anyone, there’s no reason to feel bad about it.
Feeling guilty about expressing yourself through clothing is unnecessary and unproductive.
In conclusion
Being true to yourself is a beautiful thing, and it sets an example for others to do the same.
So, let go of the guilt, and embrace your fabulous, feminine side!
Now I’d love to hear your thoughts on this topic. Do you ever feel guilty about crossdressing? If you’ve overcome feelings of guilt, how did you do so?
Please take my poll and leave me your comments below!
Love,
Lucille
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do I feel guilty about being transgender? No! absolutely not. do I wish I was of a single gender? Sure! I would love to be able to live my life like the why you single gender people seem to take for granted.
My only regret is that I should have started in my late 20s-early 30s on HRT. In my past I had makeup on and wearing pink here and there. It feels great everyday that I may get out in stockings and have leggings. Being who as we are every day and more come out; it gets easier
I’ve got guilt at 58, mine is mostly due to the fact I’ll be stating HRT soon. I feel guilt over whether I’m being selfless choosing my happiness over the disruption it will cause in others life’s like children,grandchildren ,and wife of 35 yrs.
Hi Topanga,
Change is never easy, especially, when these changes impact others. But what is the alternative? Stay unhappy!
Your finally embracing a ‘new’ life, that has always been, the ‘real’ you. Open, honest and sincere communication with loved ones et al, is paramount, even though, it may not change their views.
Being true to yourself and others; this time round, while hard, will hopefully lessen the guilt your feeling now and have likely carried around for years.
I wish you all the happiness you deserve.
hugs
x
Lisa
The only time I felt ashame was the only time my dad caught me when I was 7 years old , he first beat the crap out of me then he made me stay dressed , then he made me stay outside our home for the afternoon as he called neighbors to come and see his sissy son. But there is a silver lining , one of our elderly neighbors saw this and made him stop , after that she would have me go over when my parents were at work and let me dress in the most beautiful dresses and cute panties. I even had my own wardrobe and her home , she was the kindest and most understanding person I ever had in my life, for 10 years she called me her daughter and as the time and fashions changed she would make sure I had the latest clothing, even when mini skirts came out ( she didn’t care for them) she bought me the cutest ones and she made sure I dressed with matching tops and panties. Now that I’m married I still dress making sure I have everything marching. I’m truly blessed that my wife also understands my needs. We always take 1 weekend a month to go on a girls day out.
That is an amazing story! I love it and you are very blessed!
Thanks for asking this very question. I’ve been struggling with this very issue for quite sometime now. There are days where I’m proud and unafraid to be my femme self. I’ll gladly go out in public as a she male. Some days I can’t be public about it and it worries me that I want to be femme. Most of the time, I’m comfortable with me and who I am and really don’t care what others think.
I feel much the same whatI think many of us need are genetic female friends to bond with. Someone to go shopping with who will tell you when what you are wearing looks good or not so.
I have felt verry guilty but not for the “normal or avarege” reason
I found my life partner at college and looking the way I want makes her uncomfortable at times and I don’t want that.
But if I change she gets upset…
My guilt is not with friends or family..
It’s the fact I’m finding it hard to be me because I don’t want to hurt her…
But if I’m more in the box I’m not happy, if I’m not happy she is not happy.
I can’t get around it
It dose not help that I will soon have to leave for 6 years…
I wanted what time we had to be beautiful but now it just slips away.
People wonder why I’m so angry… You would be to if you knew these could be your final days
I used to be ashamed when I dressed. I felt like I was letting my family down, like I wasn’t been a good father to my kids, like I was a weak person and I was sick mentally. I just felt wrong and un-natural.
I have since come out the closet to other people. They have accepted me and said it doesn’t change who I am, they just know something else about me. As such this has helped me accept who I am and what I do. I now no longer have any guilty about dressing at all. I know I am a good father to my children, I know I support and protect my family, I know I am not a weak person, but strong for telling people when I could get a negative response and I know I am not sick because women’s clothes are just clothes made from material like men’s.
Since coming out I am free. My feminine side is no longer bound and hidden away. People accept me and I in turn have accepted myself. What I do isn’t wrong, it’s just different from the norm.
Shell X
Yeah , I struggle with guilt , because for me dressing is very erotic . That’s how it started . I have to be careful not to be consumed by it and concentrate on connecting with my feminine side which I am striving to do these days.
I got rid of most of my facial hair awhile back am experimenting with make up .
Totally in the closet which is okay , I’ll deal with it when it feels right .
Happy Easter girls love Jodi
How did you get rid of your facial hair?
I’d Love to know…a big issue for me.
Dori.
Hi Dori
Electrolysis . That’s how I got rid of it . I was fairly lucky though as I only had it along the jawline and around my mouth and chin . I had white hairs in there as well which were originally red but lost their pigment . I was told laser would only work on black hair so I thought electrolysis would be more effective .
It can be painful , but mainly around the mouth area . If there is a dentist nearby you can get a local anesthetic injection and you won’t feel a thing .
Good luck . Love Jodi .