Do you ever find yourself wondering if it’s okay to crossdress? Do you feel weighed down by society’s judgment and expectations?
Well, it’s time to shed that weight and liberate yourself! Let’s talk about why crossdressing is absolutely okay, and why you should embrace it without any guilt.
1. Self-Expression Matters
As humans, expressing ourselves is a basic core need.
Crossdressing is just one way to showcase your personality, tastes, and preferences through clothing. It’s an ideal outlet for creativity and individuality.
2. Fashion Has No Gender
Who says certain clothes are meant only for specific genders?
Clothes don’t have an inherent gender; they are pieces of fabric that can be enjoyed by anyone. So, wear what makes you feel confident and fabulous!
3. Breaking Free from Gender Norms
Crossdressing challenges outdated gender norms. It’s time to break free from rigid ideas of what’s “appropriate” to wear.
Crossdressing allows you to take a stand against society’s expectations and encourages others to do the same.
4. It’s Not Harmful
Let’s be clear – crossdressing is harmless. As long as you’re not hurting anyone, there’s no reason to feel bad about it.
Feeling guilty about expressing yourself through clothing is unnecessary and unproductive.
In conclusion
Being true to yourself is a beautiful thing, and it sets an example for others to do the same.
So, let go of the guilt, and embrace your fabulous, feminine side!
Now I’d love to hear your thoughts on this topic. Do you ever feel guilty about crossdressing? If you’ve overcome feelings of guilt, how did you do so?
Please take my poll and leave me your comments below!
Love,
Lucille
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So far my limit is dressing in lingerie in the comfort of my own home or place where ever I am staying. I share myself with my male partners that way and if they don’t want to love that way then I don”t want them either.
I love to be a woman for a man that appreciates me and wants me the way I am and I am very happy to please him so long as he treats me as his woman.
One of the things I get a good deal of pleasure out of is doing house work while dressed, maybe that makes me a anti fem libber but That is Ok,I love to do it. maybe it is because i have always been noted as a leader and provided a strong male leadership role. Now I am ready to be the woman I always wanted to be so it is time for me to be me and let someone else lead.
Michelle
All my life I have been shamed by people around me for expressing my femininity.
Growing up, I just knew that trying to go public would only cause me trouble. My dad forced me to wear a buzz cut until I was 14. He was afraid that long hair would reflect badly on him by making me look like a sissy.
After I moved out of his house, I had opportunities to change and passed them off out of shame, fear and the conviction society had given me that there must be something wrong with me.
A few years after I was married, my wife found a dress in my closet. She acted interested and asked me to model it for her. I got all made up, did my hair, pulled out some heels I had hidden, put on some sexy lingerie and then the dress. I came out looking really good, really hot.
She took one look and ran out of the room crying. I guess she was expecting Fred Flintstone in a dress. After the crying and screaming were all done with, I promised to get rid of my whole feminine wardrobe and never crossdress again.
More than a decade has passed and I just can’t stay away. I don’t want to stay away. About a year ago I started shopping (I love to shop!) for new nice things. My wife doesn’t know. I hate sneaking and hiding but short of divorce, I don’t know what else to do.
Today, for the first time ever, I went out in public “en femme”. My wife is out of town for the week and I took advantage of the opportunity. I got all dressed up and took myself to a movie.
I was so nervous. I have a huge Adam’s Apple and a deep voice that I am quite self-conscious about, so I kept a low profile. It was a frightening yet liberating experience and I want to do it more. I onl wish I didn’t have to be alone. I think it would be easier if I could find a friend or two to go out with.
Lucille, I love this site. thank you.
Love,
Tina
I don’t feel guilty about it most of the time, but it is lonely. I don’t get to go out enfemme often, and really have only been in public twice. But even though my wife let’s me dress for bed and anytime the kids aren’t around, I feel guilty like I am forcing it on her for the 3 to 4 time a year I get to dress with her around during awake hours. I am planning trip to Vegas and could extend the trip because there is a wonderful make-up artist there that can make me pretty, but I really want someone to share the time with and I feel guilty for trying to bring my wife along or a friend who knows about me. Just really lonely!
At first I felt guilty and then as I started buying clothes myself and getting store catalogs in mail I found out how good it makes me feel.I feel great now and no more guilt. Hugs to you Lucille
There is a two word phrase which holds tremendous power.
I am.
I used to say this to myself in an endless attempt to validate my existence.
Too often have we all struggled with nightmarish pain be it inner or outer.
I am Lily. I am trans.
I feel guilty for who I am and I feel pain from simply being alive.
I wish to thank everyone in this community for their own efforts in their own lives. It gives me the inner strength that I need to continue…
We are all linked by this one truth.
Much love to you!
Love You more.Right now a piece of me is feeling alone.My struggle began at a young age. Back then this wasn’t whispered in public so many a time I chose to stay home when instead of visiting family.My first experience with cross dressing was completely innocent.A black one piece bathing suit which my mother wanted me to discard had started my journey of self discovery.Other pieces of my life came to the surface so,their importance took hold.My memory of that black bathing suit never left my thoughts. Also…rummaging through mothers lingerie drawer holds many fond memories still to this day. When thinking of this I become sentimental,never sadness. The years pass but I have come too accept me as I am.My journey is just in the beginning stages as I have bought one dress so far.With a few pieces of lingerie my plan is to keep buying more. I would also love to find a high heel or two and flat shoes…first I need to become comfortable in heels as this is my very first pair.Too save myself the heartache and worry the second hand store came too my mind.A load of laundry is always first on my list as plenty of uninvited critters may happen too also hitch a ride.As I said…this journey has just begun with not a sign of ever ending. My wish is too find someone like you too share my life with as I am widowed and living on my own. At 65 my close friends are much younger than I am. Age is simply a number too my thinking.I choose too enjoy the adventurous pieces and experiences and just maybe experience a whole bunch more with a person such as you.Thanks for your patience as I sometime like too ramble
Larry,
Sadly it has taken me way to many years of feeling guilty but in the past few years that guilt has been often replaced by joyfullness and a gittiness about how much i Love being a fem gurlie gurl. Learning each day about the Wonderful experience of growing in my femininity!! Love It – giggle kisses steph
I have been trying to get out more often now I used to hide it from other for a long time but now I’m more happier being dressed up now I try to get out more than I use to now makes me feel free now.
I have been crossdresser for 35 yrs alot of the time I was hiding it but only a few years ago I started to get more in to going out dress up as a girl and I have been trying to do it more often .